Honestly, I would leave out all of the direct reminders about your sister's fuckups. Just say something like, "I need you to appreciate the situation as it is, the decision we have to make now, as I feel that I have been very generous and sympathetic to helping you out when you needed it."
Pointing the finger and reminding people of their problems never works. Certainly not with family.
sorry, but it's kinda lame to tell grown adults they can't drink because someone doesn't know their limit.
Seems like you should have had a discussion instead of ordering a mandate. I'm not a pro on contract law, and if oral agreements let you just amend terms but either way it could have been handled better.
I was under the impression that this was 2 seperate apartments not a bunch of people living together and traipsing their way thru each others lives.
At the moment, this is probably the best you can do. However if you and your sister can't come to an agreement, then serving an eviction notice may be in your near future.I sent the text yesterday and she never replied. I also gave them a small safe for their medication. I am out of the state until Thursday, at that point I will address it again and make sure, in person, she is clear of my expectations.
Communicating ultimatums via text is just so pathetic IMO.
