This is what I am going to send her today. As a side note, she chastised me for letting my fiance back into my life when I said I wouldnt. And she cheated on her husband 4 years ago and said it was because of her depression.
"I understand that this is going to be hard for you, but this is how it has to be. Regardless of how you ended up in my basement, either this house or the other, my below market rent for you was me helping you with your financial situation. My fiance had no idea until yesterday that I had made this decision. The fact that you call her a fuck up because of a mental illness is a little hypocritical considering the things you have done because of your mental illness. And if I remember correctly your husband also back tracked when he made the decision to leave the country because of your actions. You attacking her personally was really low and shallow. The odds of relapse are significantly higher if alcohol is in the house. I don't think I really need to explain to you why its better not to have alcohol on the premise. I think you know it increases her chance of success to not have it readily available. I can also say that both my son and I feel better with not having alcohol in the house at all, when you guys have parties or people come over and drink it makes me anxious and uneasy. I shouldn't have to feel that way in my own home. But when it comes down to it, its my home, I do not want it on my property, you have given it to minors, and its a liability. You say you are looking for a new place and that is great, but in the mean time, alcohol will not be allowed in my home. The way I feel, the way Taen feels, and saving my fiance's life is an infinitely higher priority to me than your need for an entirely unnecessary luxury in the house, If you can't go without alcohol on hand, then maybe you have a bigger problem than you realize. If you try to circumvent this decision I will formally draft an notice to vacate that will require you to vacate at the end of the month or 15 days which ever is longer. "