A guy at work keeps bothering me.

[tec699]

He's Mexican and all I hear all day is "Hey poppy I wish I had a stomach like you" and "Are you growing a beard.' I like it." And "Let me give you a message poppy."

Whould a guy say these things to another guy? WTF...


:|

 

[Vegitto]

Originally posted by: tec699
He's Mexican and all I hear all day is "Hey poppy I wish I had a stomach like you" and "Are you growing a beard.' I like it." And "Let me give you a message poppy."

Whould a guy say these things to another guy? WTF...


:|

I believe their culture is much more accepting towards homosexuality. 😉

 

[SunnyD]

You should borrow his Star Wars DVDs.

 

[FoBoT]

?

he likes you?

or he is bullying you?

tell his supervisor he is creating a hostile workplace and you are going to retain a lawyer

 

[tec699]

Originally posted by: FoBoT
?

he likes you?

or he is bullying you?

tell his supervisor he is creating a hostile workplace and you are going to retain a lawyer

He's a nice guy but he flirts a little too much. Maybe I'll talk to his boss.


🙂

 

[aidanjm]

Maybe you should actually speak to him about it? :disgust:

 

[MX2]

So starting it off with "He's Mexican" has relevance how? No, I am not pulling the racial card, i am just curious if it was a white guy would you have started the same.

 

[BW86]

Tell him to "fvck off poppy" .

 

[tec699]

Originally posted by: MX2times
So starting it off with "He's Mexican" has relevance how? No, I am not pulling the racial card, i am just curious if it was a white guy would you have started the same.

True true. His race shouldn't be an issue.

 

[aidanjm]

Originally posted by: tec699

Originally posted by: FoBoT
?

he likes you?

or he is bullying you?

tell his supervisor he is creating a hostile workplace and you are going to retain a lawyer

He's a nice guy but he flirts a little too much. Maybe I'll talk to his boss.


🙂

speak to his boss? why not speak to the guy. he'd probably be mortified to know he's making you feel uncomfortable.

 

[TBone48]

Originally posted by: tec699
He's Mexican and all I hear all day is "Hey poppy I wish I had a stomach like you" and "Are you growing a beard.' I like it." And "Let me give you a message poppy."

Whould a guy say these things to another guy? WTF...


:|

Just ask him what the message is and get it over with.😀

 

[talyn00]

Originally posted by: TBone48

Originally posted by: tec699
He's Mexican and all I hear all day is "Hey poppy I wish I had a stomach like you" and "Are you growing a beard.' I like it." And "Let me give you a message poppy."

Whould a guy say these things to another guy? WTF...


:|

Just ask him what the message is and get it over with.😀

i was gonna say that

 

[ironcrotch]

When in doubt...

 

[tfinch2]

It's papi not poppy. And sexual harassment lawsuit FTW 😛

 

[TheShiz]

Originally posted by: SunnyD
You should borrow his Star Wars DVDs.

i must have missed this inside joke, origin?

 

[aidanjm]

"Please stop flirting with me because it makes me feel uncomfortable". Problem solved.

 

[Vegitto]

Originally posted by: tfinch2
It's papi not poppy. And sexual harassment lawsuit FTW 😛

What's a 'papi'?

 

[MX2]

Originally posted by: Vegitto

Originally posted by: tfinch2
It's papi not poppy. And sexual harassment lawsuit FTW 😛

What's a 'papi'?

Who's your Daddy?

 

[tfinch2]

Originally posted by: Vegitto

Originally posted by: tfinch2
It's papi not poppy. And sexual harassment lawsuit FTW 😛

What's a 'papi'?

It's a term of endearment, like a pet name.

 

[imported_Lucifer]

Tell him "eee que paso way come over to my abuela's house so we can munch on her famous chalupas con habichuelas, carne, queso y chile."

 

[KarenMarie]

Originally posted by: aidanjm
This is what you need to say: "Excuse me, but I am a whiny cowardly little b1tch, and therefore I feel VERY uncomfortable when you flirt with me. So please stop being so overtly sexual with me, & PLEASE stop flirting with me or offering me massages, and also stop complimenting me on my flat stomach, because I just can't handle it."

I dont understand that... sorry.

he is a whiny cowardly little btich because he is uncomfortable being hit on?

 

[alien42]

Originally posted by: aidanjm
This is what you need to say: "Excuse me, but I am a whiny cowardly little b1tch, and therefore I feel VERY uncomfortable when you flirt with me. So please stop being so overtly sexual with me, & PLEASE stop flirting with me or offering me massages, and also stop complimenting me on my flat stomach, because I just can't handle it."

but if he said hey chocolate pounding, a$$ munching ***, you say one more thing to me and i will kick your sissy a$$, i bet that would be offensive right? so who is the 'cowardly little b1tch'?

i am not trying to offend anyone but its a two sided coin and no one should overtly force their sexuality on someone who does not share their views.

 

[Steve]

Tell him, "I wish I knew how to quit you!"

 

[aidanjm]

Originally posted by: KarenMarie

Originally posted by: aidanjm
This is what you need to say: "Excuse me, but I am a whiny cowardly little b1tch, and therefore I feel VERY uncomfortable when you flirt with me. So please stop being so overtly sexual with me, & PLEASE stop flirting with me or offering me massages, and also stop complimenting me on my flat stomach, because I just can't handle it."

I dont understand that... sorry.

he is a whiny cowardly little btich because he is uncomfortable being hit on?

since when do you run to the boss over something a co worker is doing (without speaking to that co-worker first)?

and from what he has described he is not "being hit on" (other than, possibly, in his imagination)

 

[TBone48]

All you have to do is say "I'm not interested. If you're serious, leave me alone. If you're kidding around, I don't think it's funny. Either way knock it off." Is that so hard?