A guy at work keeps bothering me.

tec699

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He's Mexican and all I hear all day is "Hey poppy I wish I had a stomach like you" and "Are you growing a beard.' I like it." And "Let me give you a message poppy."

Whould a guy say these things to another guy? WTF...


:|
 

Vegitto

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Originally posted by: tec699
He's Mexican and all I hear all day is "Hey poppy I wish I had a stomach like you" and "Are you growing a beard.' I like it." And "Let me give you a message poppy."

Whould a guy say these things to another guy? WTF...


:|

I believe their culture is much more accepting towards homosexuality. ;)
 

FoBoT

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he likes you?

or he is bullying you?

tell his supervisor he is creating a hostile workplace and you are going to retain a lawyer
 

tec699

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Originally posted by: FoBoT
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he likes you?

or he is bullying you?

tell his supervisor he is creating a hostile workplace and you are going to retain a lawyer


He's a nice guy but he flirts a little too much. Maybe I'll talk to his boss.


:)
 

MX2

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So starting it off with "He's Mexican" has relevance how? No, I am not pulling the racial card, i am just curious if it was a white guy would you have started the same.
 

tec699

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Originally posted by: MX2times
So starting it off with "He's Mexican" has relevance how? No, I am not pulling the racial card, i am just curious if it was a white guy would you have started the same.

True true. His race shouldn't be an issue.
 

aidanjm

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Originally posted by: tec699
Originally posted by: FoBoT
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he likes you?

or he is bullying you?

tell his supervisor he is creating a hostile workplace and you are going to retain a lawyer


He's a nice guy but he flirts a little too much. Maybe I'll talk to his boss.


:)

speak to his boss? why not speak to the guy. he'd probably be mortified to know he's making you feel uncomfortable.
 

TBone48

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Originally posted by: tec699
He's Mexican and all I hear all day is "Hey poppy I wish I had a stomach like you" and "Are you growing a beard.' I like it." And "Let me give you a message poppy."

Whould a guy say these things to another guy? WTF...


:|


Just ask him what the message is and get it over with.:D
 

talyn00

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Originally posted by: TBone48
Originally posted by: tec699
He's Mexican and all I hear all day is "Hey poppy I wish I had a stomach like you" and "Are you growing a beard.' I like it." And "Let me give you a message poppy."

Whould a guy say these things to another guy? WTF...


:|


Just ask him what the message is and get it over with.:D

i was gonna say that
 

imported_Lucifer

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Tell him "eee que paso way come over to my abuela's house so we can munch on her famous chalupas con habichuelas, carne, queso y chile."
 

KarenMarie

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Originally posted by: aidanjm
This is what you need to say: "Excuse me, but I am a whiny cowardly little b1tch, and therefore I feel VERY uncomfortable when you flirt with me. So please stop being so overtly sexual with me, & PLEASE stop flirting with me or offering me massages, and also stop complimenting me on my flat stomach, because I just can't handle it."

I dont understand that... sorry.

he is a whiny cowardly little btich because he is uncomfortable being hit on?
 

alien42

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Originally posted by: aidanjm
This is what you need to say: "Excuse me, but I am a whiny cowardly little b1tch, and therefore I feel VERY uncomfortable when you flirt with me. So please stop being so overtly sexual with me, & PLEASE stop flirting with me or offering me massages, and also stop complimenting me on my flat stomach, because I just can't handle it."

but if he said hey chocolate pounding, a$$ munching ***, you say one more thing to me and i will kick your sissy a$$, i bet that would be offensive right? so who is the 'cowardly little b1tch'?

i am not trying to offend anyone but its a two sided coin and no one should overtly force their sexuality on someone who does not share their views.
 

aidanjm

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Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: aidanjm
This is what you need to say: "Excuse me, but I am a whiny cowardly little b1tch, and therefore I feel VERY uncomfortable when you flirt with me. So please stop being so overtly sexual with me, & PLEASE stop flirting with me or offering me massages, and also stop complimenting me on my flat stomach, because I just can't handle it."

I dont understand that... sorry.

he is a whiny cowardly little btich because he is uncomfortable being hit on?

since when do you run to the boss over something a co worker is doing (without speaking to that co-worker first)?

and from what he has described he is not "being hit on" (other than, possibly, in his imagination)
 

TBone48

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All you have to do is say "I'm not interested. If you're serious, leave me alone. If you're kidding around, I don't think it's funny. Either way knock it off." Is that so hard?