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Originally posted by: SirChadwick
My wife's twin sister and her b/f
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Twins, Basil, Twins!!!!!

Seriously, don't let this threesome opportunity escape you, that will more than make up for shitty relatives overstaying their welcome.
 
Originally posted by: Platypus
no way around being the bad guy in this case
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yeah OP. Better be careful if how you approach this thing given that you've only been hitched 8 months.
 
Originally posted by: SirChadwick
what pisses me off even more is that my wife is blind to that and always gives her money, buys her food, pays for her to get her toenails done, etc.

Tell me how I should go about talking with her and her boyfriend, along w/ my wife. I don't want to come across as the ass...
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talk to the wife first, i really doubt shes blind to it, shes just helping her sis out. maybe she is getting fed up with it too, or at least can see how its hurting more than helping. after you get on a common ground with her, then both go to the sis and get the subject out in the open. either way, its not going to be all flowers and hugs, the sis is gonna feel dejected, mad and probably dissed.

good luck, ive been in this exact spot. not my sis in law, but other members of family.
 
You can't say anything to the twin and keep the peace. Your wife needs to do it. This will not end well if you confront them.
 
Jeebus, what ever happened to growing balls and telling your wife whats what. If that shit ever happened to me, she wouldn't have stayed more than 2 nights. I would tell them, to their face, we need our alone time. End of story.
 
You should talk to your wife first. If she feels the same way, then you can talk to them together. If she doesn't care, then you are on your own. If you don't give a shit if they like you or not, tell them to get out.
 
Step up and be a man if you don't you will always feel resentment. Talk to your wife and tell her how it going to be and if she don't like that just to bad for her. If you don't do this I'm pretty sure you will be back to bitch some more.



 
Lot of ATOTers apparently are into incestuous relationships and have had boring sex lives.
 
It is early in your marriage, but you may need to get a few things ironed out.
1) Always be your spouse's ally. always. If you disagree do not do it in front of others.
2) Don't assume anything. discuss stuff ad nauseum if you have to but it will make for good times in the future.
3) Don't go to bed with anything bad between you. Settle all that you can, sacrifice sleep, talk it out.

Looking at those three rules, you are basically screwed this time around.
Anything you start on your own will probably violate one or more of those tenets. Unless you can get your wife to agree to put up a unified front to her sister's behavior while she is there, you will have to wait and discuss it after she leaves.

Hanoverfist, I just said it different but totally agree with you.
 
Originally posted by: buck
Jeebus, what ever happened to growing balls and telling your wife whats what. If that shit ever happened to me, she wouldn't have stayed more than 2 nights. I would tell them, to their face, we need our alone time. End of story.
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I am here for you, my son.
 
Originally posted by: Jeeebus
Originally posted by: buck
Jeebus, what ever happened to growing balls and telling your wife whats what. If that shit ever happened to me, she wouldn't have stayed more than 2 nights. I would tell them, to their face, we need our alone time. End of story.
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I am here for you, my son.
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😛
Please heal the OP....
 
+1 For talking to your wife and then telling them.

If you still don't want the confrontation go visit one of your relatives for 2 days, they'll have to leave.
 
Originally posted by: acheron
Originally posted by: SirChadwick
My wife's twin sister
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:camera:
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Originally posted by: barfo
Originally posted by: SirChadwick
My wife's twin sister and her b/f
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Twins, Basil, Twins!!!!!

Seriously, don't let this threesome opportunity escape you, that will more than make up for shitty relatives overstaying their welcome.
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Originally posted by: Hacp
Pics of your wife.. with the twin sister.... kissing.
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Originally posted by: hanoverphist
Originally posted by: Hacp
Pics of your wife.. with the twin sister.... kissing.
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oh, and this too.
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1st, 3rd, 5th, and 7th response.

Gosh I love odd numbers. :heart:
 
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