19 year old Nephew knocks up a 16 year old

[PrinceofWands]

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: PrinceofWands

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Don't want to be stereotyped? Then don't cover your body with a bunch of stupid looking tattoos.

Yes, most people who don't have tattoos think you look ridiculous.

See and there is my point.

I work in a very high profile arena, I am outside of the norm when it comes to appearance at my job, ie, one in 5000 if not more. I however, do not look at the people around me who choose not to get tattoos and say "Wow you ignorant tools, you do not have tattoos, therefore you must lack the ability to express yourself" Nope, I don't because its a personal choice. One that people from many varied walks of life choose. So, tell me Im white trash, tell me im low class, whatever. I am not the loser this time.

You will be when you don't get that job you wanted because you just don't fit in with the image the corporation considering hiring you wants to project.

Like it or not, these things do make a difference and people do judge you by your appearance. Whether it's right to do that is a moot point.

No, what's actually 'right' is the ONLY thing that really matters. Ever. In anything.

Lofty goal but that is not reality. Never has been and probably never will be.

Reality too, is largely what you make it.

 

[FusionKnight]

Originally posted by: Citrix

Originally posted by: FusionKnight

Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai

Originally posted by: dullard

Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
So bums have tattoo's so ....all people with tattoos are bums.
Jails are filled with mostly African Americans...so.....all African Americans are criminals.
Mexicans jump the border, so....all mexicans are illegals.

Again you used that same false logic.
Most bums have tattoos. But that does not mean people with tattoos are bums. 6StringSamurai, you are the one here making that false accusation.

I am only saying what they are "meaning". It's ok I grew up in the "Bible-Belt" South, I know their type.

Original point still stands - people with sleeve tattoos aren't generally in a position to make enough cash to support a wife and child. Regardless of whether or not that's stereotyping, that's just how society today works. I don't think the OP was against tattoos in general and was just pointing out that a sleeve tattoo will work against his nephew when (if) he tries to get a decent job in the future. Also, relax

FK

you are correct. i am not against tattoo's my wife has two and i think they look sexy on her. however they are on a part of her body that is covered and nobody knows she has them unless they see her in a bikini or wearing shorts.

Same boat. My gf has a tattoo on her lower back and her right shoulder, both easily covered up. And I enjoy it when she's not covering them up

FK

 

[thegimp03]

This is a case where the girl's parents should step in, tell her to put the baby up for adoption, and tell her not to get married. She's still a minor, they can tell her to do whatever they want. The baby isn't going to have much of a chance otherwise. Some 19 year old without a high school degree and a girl who's a sophomore/junior in high school? That's terrible. Good luck to the kid.

 

[Hammer]

LOL, picturing that proposal made me laugh

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Hammer
LOL, picturing that proposal made me laugh

I picture an accent something like, "Shore thang, ah done gon' marry mah baby daddy!"

- M4H

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: Citrix
So Sat we had the family and friends over for my daughters 13th bday party. My Wifes brother and his family gets there and his 19 year old son brought his new girlfriend. well after the presents and cake & ice cream thing, my nephew announces to the whole family and friends who dont even know who he is that his girlfriend is 2 months pregnant and then drops to one knee and proposes to her of which she say says yes.

WTF!!! Dont do that sh*t at my house on my daughters bday!!! take your statuatury rape ass someplace else. :| :| :|

I guess bro inlaw told the girls prents yesterday, and took the news well. :disgust:


Edit: Nephew is a scumbag, stupid F*cker quit high school with only one semester left. has no job, lives with mommy and daddy and looks like a bum. scraggy half ass beard/peachfuzz, full sleeve tatto on his left arm. baggy clothes.... so welcome to the world of medicide, WIC, Welfare, Foodstamps...

19 and 16 is not statutory rape in colorado if that's what you are implying.

not defending the guy, but being a lunatic is not going to accomplish anything.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: Fmr12B
More people I know who will feast off my tax doallrs!

Time to pull the kid s aside and talk to them about an abortion!

I am willing to bet you aren't contributing that much in taxes.

 

[Armitage]

Originally posted by: Armitage
Definitely way out of line to usurp your daughter's birthday like that - congrats on keeping your cool and not making the event any more trailer park then it already was.

Regarding the statuatory rape claims - most states have kind of a sliding window regarding ages. So a 18 year old and a 16 year old may be ok, but a 25 year old and a 16 year old isn't. Not sure what Colorado's looks like. And I'm not googling that at work.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_North_America#Colorado

Looks like dad is safe WRT statuatory rape charges. There's a 4 year window in Colorado.

 

[fitzov]

Originally posted by: Fmr12B
More people I know who will feast off my tax doallrs!

Time to pull the kid s aside and talk to them about an abortion!

What's your contribution? 0.005 cents?

 

[fitzov]

Originally posted by: Citrix

Originally posted by: thehstrybean
Pics of girl?

I'd have shot him...

i have pics from the party but im not posting them because she is a minor, and i dont have her permission. If i did post them all you e-nerds would be killing kittens because she does have a pretty nice rack.

nice rack FTL in this case eh? ironic.

 

[151528]

Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Yikes, talk about inconsiderate. That was not right at all.
I feel bad for your little girl. It was her birthday and he took it right away from her.

I'd be ****** pissed if someone did that at one of my Bday's!

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: fitzov

Originally posted by: Citrix

Originally posted by: thehstrybean
Pics of girl?

I'd have shot him...

i have pics from the party but im not posting them because she is a minor, and i dont have her permission. If i did post them all you e-nerds would be killing kittens because she does have a pretty nice rack.

nice rack FTL in this case eh? ironic.

So what this is really about is you just jealous of 1) he is getting her 2) you had to wait longer to get anyone :beer::thumbsup:

 

[DukeN]

WTF.

Sounds like Kevin Federline

 

[LordNoob]

Originally posted by: iwantanewcomputer

Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

WTF...marrying the girl is not responsibility when he can't take care of her, the baby, or himself. and they will probly be divorced in a few years, making them both miserable.

Exactly. Bringing a child into the world that you cannot take care of with someone you got 'stuck with' is not the responsible thing. Some might have a moral problem with abortion, but if you don't, it seems the more 'responsible' choice in this type of situation.

 

[Fingolfin269]

I just think it's funny that a 16 year old is old enough to drive but not old enough to decide if hooking up with a 19 year old is the smart thing to do..........

The law may not be on my side but I don't see anything wrong with that personally.

 

[fstime]

I could write a paragraph on how stupid this is but all I have to say is that kid is a complete moron.

 

[eits]

pic of the 16 year old?

 

[Fenixgoon]

Originally posted by: LordNoob

Originally posted by: iwantanewcomputer

Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

WTF...marrying the girl is not responsibility when he can't take care of her, the baby, or himself. and they will probly be divorced in a few years, making them both miserable.

Exactly. Bringing a child into the world that you cannot take care of with someone you got 'stuck with' is not the responsible thing. Some might have a moral problem with abortion, but if you don't, it seems the more 'responsible' choice in this type of situation.

adoption ftw

 

[ockky]

Originally posted by: y2kc
Why did a 19 yo attend a 13 yo's birthday party in the first place? And why bring a "date"? anyway, that sucks man...

he was looking for some fresh meat!

 

[topslop1]

Don't throw the whole bunch into a group of retardation. I'm 18 and I'd beat the child out of her. Not all of us are stupid.

 

[reverend boltron]

Originally posted by: LordNoob

Originally posted by: iwantanewcomputer

Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

WTF...marrying the girl is not responsibility when he can't take care of her, the baby, or himself. and they will probly be divorced in a few years, making them both miserable.

Exactly. Bringing a child into the world that you cannot take care of with someone you got 'stuck with' is not the responsible thing. Some might have a moral problem with abortion, but if you don't, it seems the more 'responsible' choice in this type of situation.

I really don't think that murder is the more responsible choice there. Adoption though, that's a great choice. But having a 16 y/o girl get an abortion is going to mess with her head on so many levels. Even the 19 y/o nephew, as much as he might have messed up already, an abortion for him would just enable him to continue to live in a reckless way, because then there are no consequences except for what seems like a $500 penalty fee for getting a girl preggo. Also, neither of them need to carry around the guilt that will come later. It is hard to forgive yourself for things like that.

 

[DaiShan]

I would have thrown him out of the house right then, he wouldn't have even finished his sentence. You must have the patience of Job my friend. I hope that he apologizes to your daughter.

 

[eakers]

I like how he did it at your kids birthday party so his parents couldn't flip out and start yelling.

I feel so bad for that little girl, her life is ruined.*



*disclaimer: yes children are a blessing and yes many people have good lives after getting knocked up at an early age but I still stand by my statement.

 

[Vampirrella]

crazy teenie bopper world out there

 

[honkee]

Can i get a boulder colorado in this bitc...h