19 year old Nephew knocks up a 16 year old

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IceBergSLiM

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Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
Originally posted by: dullard
Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
I am only saying what they are "meaning". It's ok I grew up in the "Bible-Belt" South, I know their type.
This came from the man complaining about stereotyping?

Judged by the words of their mouth.

no when to walk away. you lose. bye-bye
 

6StringSamurai

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Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
Originally posted by: dullard
Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
So bums have tattoo's so ....all people with tattoos are bums.
Jails are filled with mostly African Americans...so.....all African Americans are criminals.
Mexicans jump the border, so....all mexicans are illegals.
Again you used that same false logic.
Most bums have tattoos. But that does not mean people with tattoos are bums. 6StringSamurai, you are the one here making that false accusation.

I am only saying what they are "meaning". It's ok I grew up in the "Bible-Belt" South, I know their type.

:laugh: OMGWTFHIPPOCRITEBBQ :roll:


Hardly hypocritical, I judged you based on the words you typed, not on the way you look. I grew up around people just like you, they made the same arguments as you did. I judged them individually on their actions/words too. This makes me a hypocrite?
 

FusionKnight

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Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
Originally posted by: dullard
Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
So bums have tattoo's so ....all people with tattoos are bums.
Jails are filled with mostly African Americans...so.....all African Americans are criminals.
Mexicans jump the border, so....all mexicans are illegals.
Again you used that same false logic.
Most bums have tattoos. But that does not mean people with tattoos are bums. 6StringSamurai, you are the one here making that false accusation.

I am only saying what they are "meaning". It's ok I grew up in the "Bible-Belt" South, I know their type.

Original point still stands - people with sleeve tattoos aren't generally in a position to make enough cash to support a wife and child. Regardless of whether or not that's stereotyping, that's just how society today works. I don't think the OP was against tattoos in general and was just pointing out that a sleeve tattoo will work against his nephew when (if) he tries to get a decent job in the future. Also, relax :)

FK
 

OutHouse

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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Don't want to be stereotyped? Then don't cover your body with a bunch of stupid looking tattoos.

Yes, most people who don't have tattoos think you look ridiculous.

See and there is my point.

I work in a very high profile arena, I am outside of the norm when it comes to appearance at my job, ie, one in 5000 if not more. I however, do not look at the people around me who choose not to get tattoos and say "Wow you ignorant tools, you do not have tattoos, therefore you must lack the ability to express yourself" Nope, I don't because its a personal choice. One that people from many varied walks of life choose. So, tell me Im white trash, tell me im low class, whatever. I am not the loser this time.

You will be when you don't get that job you wanted because you just don't fit in with the image the corporation considering hiring you wants to project.

Like it or not, these things do make a difference and people do judge you by your appearance. Whether it's right to do that is a moot point.

:beer:
 

6StringSamurai

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Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
Originally posted by: dullard
Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
I am only saying what they are "meaning". It's ok I grew up in the "Bible-Belt" South, I know their type.
This came from the man complaining about stereotyping?

Judged by the words of their mouth.

no when to walk away. you lose. bye-bye

Lose what? Oh you won something? What an e-penis trophy? Well then, congratulations!!!

 

Mursilis

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Mar 11, 2001
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Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Originally posted by: silverpig
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

Ha. Which is more responsible:

1. Not getting married, getting a job, moving out, living with the girl and raising the kid

or

2. Proposing, being broke, jobless, and living with mom and dad

I'd hardly call him being responsible.
You missed the point. Responsible = taking responsibility for your kid by not running out on the mom like most kids would have done his age (or aborted it). He probably is an a.hole but at least he was an a.hole who manned up to a certain extent. ;)

Raising a kid takes 18+ years. Let's see if he sticks around for the long haul before we start awarding "man up" points. Lots of guys talk a big game but wilt under the pressure of 2 AM feedings, dirty diapers, etc., etc. It's not for the faint of heart.
 

IceBergSLiM

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Jul 11, 2000
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Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
Originally posted by: dullard
Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
I am only saying what they are "meaning". It's ok I grew up in the "Bible-Belt" South, I know their type.
This came from the man complaining about stereotyping?

Judged by the words of their mouth.

no when to walk away. you lose. bye-bye

Lose what? Oh you won something? What an e-penis trophy? Well then, congratulations!!!

thanks! I am going to pawn the trophy for a super dope tatt0o on my neck.
 

OutHouse

Lifer
Jun 5, 2000
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Originally posted by: FusionKnight
Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
Originally posted by: dullard
Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
So bums have tattoo's so ....all people with tattoos are bums.
Jails are filled with mostly African Americans...so.....all African Americans are criminals.
Mexicans jump the border, so....all mexicans are illegals.
Again you used that same false logic.
Most bums have tattoos. But that does not mean people with tattoos are bums. 6StringSamurai, you are the one here making that false accusation.

I am only saying what they are "meaning". It's ok I grew up in the "Bible-Belt" South, I know their type.

Original point still stands - people with sleeve tattoos aren't generally in a position to make enough cash to support a wife and child. Regardless of whether or not that's stereotyping, that's just how society today works. I don't think the OP was against tattoos in general and was just pointing out that a sleeve tattoo will work against his nephew when (if) he tries to get a decent job in the future. Also, relax :)

FK


you are correct. i am not against tattoo's my wife has two and i think they look sexy on her. however they are on a part of her body that is covered and nobody knows she has them unless they see her in a bikini or wearing shorts.


 

Eeezee

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Doing at your daughter's birthday party was outrageously assholish of him. Don't invite him to anymore of those, it sounds like he hardly knows anyone in the family anyway.
 

SagaLore

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Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

Did you take responsibility?
 

imported_Shivetya

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Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
Originally posted by: Citrix
Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
Originally posted by: Citrix
So Sat we had the family and friends over for my daughters 13th bday party. My Wifes brother and his family gets there and his 19 year old son brought his new girlfriend. well after the presents and cake & ice cream thing, my nephew announces to the whole family and friends who dont even know who he is that his girlfriend is 2 months pregnant and then drops to one knee and proposes to her of which she say says yes.

WTF!!! Dont do that sh*t at my house on my daughters bday!!! take your statuatury rape ass someplace else. :| :| :|

I guess bro inlaw told the girls prents yesterday, and took the news well. :disgust:


Edit: Nephew is a scumbag, stupid F*cker quit high school with only one semester left. has no job, lives with mommy and daddy and looks like a bum. scraggy half ass beard/peachfuzz, full sleeve tatto on his left arm. baggy clothes.... so welcome to the world of medicide, WIC, Welfare, Foodstamps...

Oh noes!! It's the tattoo's. Only lower class trash have tattoo's, if she was to date someone without tattoos none of this ever would have happened. Tattoos = bum, yeah that must be it.

Note: I am not advocating his or her actions, they are disgusting, I will give you that. I do however take offense that in your attempt to portray him as a scumbag, you felt that mentioning that he had tattoos helped further your definition of a bum.

So I say to you. ..|.. and that finger is attached to an arm thats attached to a body with 10 tattoos.

yea he is a bum with a full sleeve tattoo, it just adds to his image. News flash for you, people ARE judged on their appearence so get over it.

Wow, so now my tattoos have made me ignorant to the fact that I am judged on my appearance too? So if I were to look at you and say you are an "ignorant tool" because you dress like a yuppie, does that make me cool too? Oh no wait, I can't see you, but I am cool because I can stroke my e-penis on a message board and make broad random generalizations about people.


Sorry, visible tatoos and many places won't touch you.
 

SP33Demon

Lifer
Jun 22, 2001
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Originally posted by: SagaLore
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

Did you take responsibility?
Yup, but she wanted it aborted b/c of her parents (hardcore Catholics). Nothing I could say would change her mind. I already had my own place + job so it wouldn't have been that big a deal to support a baby at the time.
 

ebaycj

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Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Originally posted by: SagaLore
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

Did you take responsibility?
Yup, but she wanted it aborted b/c of her parents (hardcore Catholics). Nothing I could say would change her mind. I already had my own place + job so it wouldn't have been that big a deal to support a baby at the time.


Abortion FTW !!!!!!!
 

woodie1

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Mar 7, 2000
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Originally posted by: Queasy
Originally posted by: sourceninja
I gave my sister condoms at her last baby shower. Too bad it didnt' help, cause she's pregnant again, 21 and on her second kid with no job, unmaried, and drinks more beer a day then I drink mountain dew. I should mention I'm a computer programmer.

Maybe she needed more condoms than you gave her?


Or instructions on how to use them.
 

moshquerade

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Nov 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Originally posted by: SagaLore
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

Did you take responsibility?
Yup, but she wanted it aborted b/c of her parents (hardcore Catholics). Nothing I could say would change her mind. I already had my own place + job so it wouldn't have been that big a deal to support a baby at the time.
you asswipe. Catholics are PRO-LIFE! they certainly were NOT hardcore Catholics if they made her get an abortion.

got any other stories?

 

tyler811

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Should have kicked the sh!t out of your nephew and thrown the whole family out of the house. What the hell kind of idiot upstages someone else on their big day in their own home?
 

tyler811

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Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: 6StringSamurai
Originally posted by: Citrix
So Sat we had the family and friends over for my daughters 13th bday party. My Wifes brother and his family gets there and his 19 year old son brought his new girlfriend. well after the presents and cake & ice cream thing, my nephew announces to the whole family and friends who dont even know who he is that his girlfriend is 2 months pregnant and then drops to one knee and proposes to her of which she say says yes.

WTF!!! Dont do that sh*t at my house on my daughters bday!!! take your statuatury rape ass someplace else. :| :| :|

I guess bro inlaw told the girls prents yesterday, and took the news well. :disgust:


Edit: Nephew is a scumbag, stupid F*cker quit high school with only one semester left. has no job, lives with mommy and daddy and looks like a bum. scraggy half ass beard/peachfuzz, full sleeve tatto on his left arm. baggy clothes.... so welcome to the world of medicide, WIC, Welfare, Foodstamps...

Oh noes!! It's the tattoo's. Only lower class trash have tattoo's, if she was to date someone without tattoos none of this ever would have happened. Tattoos = bum, yeah that must be it.

Note: I am not advocating his or her actions, they are disgusting, I will give you that. I do however take offense that in your attempt to portray him as a scumbag, you felt that mentioning that he had tattoos helped further your definition of a bum.

So I say to you. ..|.. and that finger is attached to an arm thats attached to a body with 10 tattoos.

if the shoe fits........

And your point would be?

Just beyond your grasp apparently.


No obviously you subscribe to "Stereotype Weekly"

So bums have tattoo's so ....all people with tattoos are bums.
Jails are filled with mostly African Americans...so.....all African Americans are criminals.
Mexicans jump the border, so....all mexicans are illegals.

If thats how you choose to live your life, then fine, but I refuse to pigenhole people based on appearance.


You forgot that all porn women stars have tatoos, so all women who have tatoos are fvcking whores. ;)
 

silverpig

Lifer
Jul 29, 2001
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Originally posted by: SagaLore
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

Did you take responsibility?
Yup, but she wanted it aborted b/c of her parents (hardcore Catholics). Nothing I could say would change her mind. I already had my own place + job so it wouldn't have been that big a deal to support a baby at the time.
you asswipe. Catholics are PRO-LIFE! they certainly were NOT hardcore Catholics if they made her get an abortion.

got any other stories?

Maybe the daughter was scared of the parents and she did it without them knowing?
 

Armitage

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Originally posted by: SagaLore
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

Did you take responsibility?
Yup, but she wanted it aborted b/c of her parents (hardcore Catholics). Nothing I could say would change her mind. I already had my own place + job so it wouldn't have been that big a deal to support a baby at the time.
you asswipe. Catholics are PRO-LIFE! they certainly were NOT hardcore Catholics if they made her get an abortion.

got any other stories?

My guess is that the girl got an abortion without telling her parents. Either due to the shame of being unmarried and pregnant in a hardcore catholic family, or because she knew her parents would make her keep a baby she didn't want because they are hardcore catholics. But yea, it's not clear from Demon's post.
 

dullard

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Yup, but she wanted it aborted b/c of her parents (hardcore Catholics). Nothing I could say would change her mind. I already had my own place + job so it wouldn't have been that big a deal to support a baby at the time.
you asswipe. Catholics are PRO-LIFE! they certainly were NOT hardcore Catholics if they made her get an abortion.

got any other stories?
Maybe she wanted it aborted so that her hardcore Catholic parents wouldn't find out? At least, that is how I interpreted that post.

If you want an asswipe, here is one:

She only had three options. It is either (1) abort, (2) be stoned to death, or (3) do like Mary and pretend it is an immaculate conception.
 

iwantanewcomputer

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Apr 4, 2004
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Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

WTF...marrying the girl is not responsibility when he can't take care of her, the baby, or himself. and they will probly be divorced in a few years, making them both miserable.
 

Armitage

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Originally posted by: dullard
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Yup, but she wanted it aborted b/c of her parents (hardcore Catholics). Nothing I could say would change her mind. I already had my own place + job so it wouldn't have been that big a deal to support a baby at the time.
you asswipe. Catholics are PRO-LIFE! they certainly were NOT hardcore Catholics if they made her get an abortion.

got any other stories?
Maybe she wanted it aborted so that her hardcore Catholic parents wouldn't find out? At least, that is how I interpreted that post.

If you want an asswipe, here is one:

She only had three options. It is either (1) abort, (2) be stoned to death, or (3) do like Mary and pretend it is an immaculate conception.

She's catholic, not muslim :confused:
 

DurocShark

Lifer
Apr 18, 2001
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Seriously? They're only 3 years apart. Outside of the, "Let's fvck up another kid's birthday party" thing, it's really not as bad as it sounds. At least it sounds like he's *trying* to do the right thing now.
 

Strk

Lifer
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Originally posted by: SP33Demon
I've knocked up a 17 yr old, who the hell cares? You do stupid sht when you're young. At least he's being a man about it and taking responsibility...

Marriage isn't taking responsibility, nor is it the first step to taking it.