Originally posted by: datalink7
Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: Taejin
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: Nik
If you can't answer that question for yourself without asking anyone else, you've already failed.
In terms of my personal morals and desire to be a gentleman, I don't think I should have followed her...I will be seeing her again tomorrow and at another conference in Denver in a few weeks time.
Wanted to, yes! Should have, no!
Glad to see my attempts to be a gentlemen are not the only one.
:thumbsup:
But see, it could be all subjective. She could have been specifically looking to have sex, and didn't see his actions as being "Gentlemanly" at all. So to her he could look like a clueless dolt who doesn't care about what she wants.
Of course, none of us were there but GTA. If she is someone who wants to take it slow, then it
would be gentlemanly to not force the issue and do exactly what he did. If she is someone who wanted to have sex with him that night, then there is nothing gentlemanly about his actions at all.