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Originally posted by: Nik
If you can't answer that question for yourself without asking anyone else, you've already failed.
Yeah, that! I would also ask what kind of kiss it was. Was it just a peck? If it was more than a peck (for instance, a French kiss), then you could infer that she was interested in you. And you should have pressed it to at least get number for future plan. If it was just a peck, then you have issues for reading more into it.
 
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Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: Yossarian
wow you suck at being a man.

Right. However, being "a man" is just the typical low-brow "ugh grunt me fvck!" moron that most of the pre-pubescent palm-pilots here on AT think is the best or only choice for development.

GTA chose to be a gentleman instead of being a man.

Kudos.

BAN!
:p
 

Koing

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Depends what type of a kiss.

A full on kiss with tongue for more then 5 seconds or just a peck on the lips/ cheek?

Either way just go with what you want to do. If your not up for a one night stand I commend you on that part. She may think more highly of you next time :) or she just wanted to jump your bones and wanted animalistic sex for the night?

You don't suck at reading women she just caught you off guard. Some women don't want desert (rare most of the time :p) sometimes.

Kudos.

Koing
 
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She probably approves of gays in the military, and/or is pro-choice. IIRC, either would mean you "HATE!" her. Stay away, lest you soil your precious morals, kiddo.
 

GTaudiophile

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Originally posted by: DonVito
She probably approves of gays in the military, and/or is pro-choice. IIRC, either would mean you "HATE!" her. Stay away, lest you soil your precious morals, kiddo.

:lips:
 

Nitemare

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Originally posted by: DonVito
She probably approves of gays in the military, and/or is pro-choice. IIRC, either would mean you "HATE!" her. Stay away, lest you soil your precious morals, kiddo.

You don't have sex with her morals
 

Koing

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Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: DonVito
She probably approves of gays in the military, and/or is pro-choice. IIRC, either would mean you "HATE!" her. Stay away, lest you soil your precious morals, kiddo.

You don't have sex with her morals

Or her personality :p

Koing
 
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Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: DonVito
She probably approves of gays in the military, and/or is pro-choice. IIRC, either would mean you "HATE!" her. Stay away, lest you soil your precious morals, kiddo.

You don't have sex with her morals

And GTA doesn't have sex with her nether regions.
 

Nitemare

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Originally posted by: DonVito
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: DonVito
She probably approves of gays in the military, and/or is pro-choice. IIRC, either would mean you "HATE!" her. Stay away, lest you soil your precious morals, kiddo.

You don't have sex with her morals

And GTA doesn't have sex with her nether regions.

Doh!
 

Corn

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Originally posted by: DonVito
She probably approves of gays in the military, and/or is pro-choice. IIRC, either would mean you "HATE!" her. Stay away, lest you soil your precious morals, kiddo.

Why don't you go back to P&N where you, and posts like the above quote belong? :roll: Fer gods sake.........
 

Kipper

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Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: Nik
If you can't answer that question for yourself without asking anyone else, you've already failed.

In terms of my personal morals and desire to be a gentleman, I don't think I should have followed her...I will be seeing her again tomorrow and at another conference in Denver in a few weeks time.

Wanted to, yes! Should have, no!

You'll boink her in a few weeks. Don't worry about it.
 

Orsorum

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Originally posted by: MadCowDisease
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: Nik
If you can't answer that question for yourself without asking anyone else, you've already failed.

In terms of my personal morals and desire to be a gentleman, I don't think I should have followed her...I will be seeing her again tomorrow and at another conference in Denver in a few weeks time.

Wanted to, yes! Should have, no!

You'll boink her in a few weeks. Don't worry about it.

:thumbsup:
 
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Originally posted by: Corn
Originally posted by: DonVito
She probably approves of gays in the military, and/or is pro-choice. IIRC, either would mean you "HATE!" her. Stay away, lest you soil your precious morals, kiddo.

Why don't you go back to P&N where you, and posts like the above quote belong? :roll: Fer gods sake.........

Why don't you stay there? I haven't been in ATPN since November.
 

datalink7

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Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: Taejin
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: Nik
If you can't answer that question for yourself without asking anyone else, you've already failed.

In terms of my personal morals and desire to be a gentleman, I don't think I should have followed her...I will be seeing her again tomorrow and at another conference in Denver in a few weeks time.

Wanted to, yes! Should have, no!

Glad to see my attempts to be a gentlemen are not the only one.

:thumbsup:

But see, it could be all subjective. She could have been specifically looking to have sex, and didn't see his actions as being "Gentlemanly" at all. So to her he could look like a clueless dolt who doesn't care about what she wants.

Of course, none of us were there but GTA. If she is someone who wants to take it slow, then it would be gentlemanly to not force the issue and do exactly what he did. If she is someone who wanted to have sex with him that night, then there is nothing gentlemanly about his actions at all.
 

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Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: DaTT
Only if you felt like spending the night in her bed.

Part of my anatomy did, but I am NOT the wham-bham-thank-you-mam kinda guy. Some romance, kissing, cuddling yes...but all the way after having just met her today...that's not me!

Then why ask? Its retarded of you to ask our opinion when you set guildlines for yourself. Be man, skin-to-skin, or you-don't-go-in
 

Corn

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Originally posted by: DonVito
Originally posted by: Corn
Originally posted by: DonVito
She probably approves of gays in the military, and/or is pro-choice. IIRC, either would mean you "HATE!" her. Stay away, lest you soil your precious morals, kiddo.

Why don't you go back to P&N where you, and posts like the above quote belong? :roll: Fer gods sake.........

Why don't you stay there? I haven't been in ATPN since November.

Something to be proud of, eh? You evidently miss it.......

You can take the poster out of P&N, but you can't take P&N out of the poster....so it would seem.
 

Koing

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Originally posted by: Corn
Originally posted by: DonVito
Originally posted by: Corn
Originally posted by: DonVito
She probably approves of gays in the military, and/or is pro-choice. IIRC, either would mean you "HATE!" her. Stay away, lest you soil your precious morals, kiddo.

Why don't you go back to P&N where you, and posts like the above quote belong? :roll: Fer gods sake.........

Why don't you stay there? I haven't been in ATPN since November.

Something to be proud of, eh? You evidently miss it.......

You can take the poster out of P&N, but you can't take P&N out of the poster....so it would seem.

That is quite funny corn :)

Koing

 

thomsbrain

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she didn't invite you in...

wouldn't it be a bit presumptious to say, "hey, mind if i pop into your room for a while?" especially after she said she was tired and said "goodnight."
 

Nitemare

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Originally posted by: thomsbrain
she didn't invite you in...

wouldn't it be a bit presumptious to say, "hey, mind if i pop into your room for a while?" especially after she said she was tired and said "goodnight."

Could have asked her if she would rather be worn out smiling ear to ear...
 

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It's simply impossible to say, though her not inviting is probably indication that no you should not have.
 

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Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: DaTT
Only if you felt like spending the night in her bed.

Part of my anatomy did, but I am NOT the wham-bham-thank-you-mam kinda guy. Some romance, kissing, cuddling yes...but all the way after having just met her today...that's not me!

then you did just fine. props for being a gentleman.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: datalink7
Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: Taejin
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: Nik
If you can't answer that question for yourself without asking anyone else, you've already failed.

In terms of my personal morals and desire to be a gentleman, I don't think I should have followed her...I will be seeing her again tomorrow and at another conference in Denver in a few weeks time.

Wanted to, yes! Should have, no!

Glad to see my attempts to be a gentlemen are not the only one.

:thumbsup:

But see, it could be all subjective. She could have been specifically looking to have sex, and didn't see his actions as being "Gentlemanly" at all. So to her he could look like a clueless dolt who doesn't care about what she wants.

Of course, none of us were there but GTA. If she is someone who wants to take it slow, then it would be gentlemanly to not force the issue and do exactly what he did. If she is someone who wanted to have sex with him that night, then there is nothing gentlemanly about his actions at all.

If GTA is a gentleman, he's too good for some skank who just wants some dick. If he IS a gentleman, findind some woman who just wants a screw is settling for less than what he deserves.

Then again, if she's that kind of woman, and if he's just an asshole and thinks the world revolves around sex, then more power to him... :confused: