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GTaudiophile

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Phoenix86
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: DaTT
Only if you felt like spending the night in her bed.

Part of my anatomy did, but I am NOT the wham-bham-thank-you-mam kinda guy. Some romance, kissing, cuddling yes...but all the way after having just met her today...that's not me!
Then why did you ask her out? You're out of town at a conference, you picked up a chick, but wanted a long term relationship not a one nighter.

...WTF mate? :confused:

edit: just read you will be seeing her again. In that case, disregard everything I posted above. If you think you may get to know her, I can respect not going for it on the first date. Respect is good when your trying to build something. :D


She's 35...experienced with some wisdom...she knew better than to go TOO far with a 25-year-old she just met.


 

NorthRiver

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Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: datalink7
Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: Taejin
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: Nik
If you can't answer that question for yourself without asking anyone else, you've already failed.

In terms of my personal morals and desire to be a gentleman, I don't think I should have followed her...I will be seeing her again tomorrow and at another conference in Denver in a few weeks time.

Wanted to, yes! Should have, no!

Glad to see my attempts to be a gentlemen are not the only one.

:thumbsup:

But see, it could be all subjective. She could have been specifically looking to have sex, and didn't see his actions as being "Gentlemanly" at all. So to her he could look like a clueless dolt who doesn't care about what she wants.

Of course, none of us were there but GTA. If she is someone who wants to take it slow, then it would be gentlemanly to not force the issue and do exactly what he did. If she is someone who wanted to have sex with him that night, then there is nothing gentlemanly about his actions at all.

If GTA is a gentleman, he's too good for some skank who just wants some dick. If he IS a gentleman, findind some woman who just wants a screw is settling for less than what he deserves.

Then again, if she's that kind of woman, and if he's just an asshole and thinks the world revolves around sex, then more power to him... :confused:



You sound like a jealous boyfriend! Something your not telling us??
 

MaxDepth

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:thumbsup:

You thought with the bigger head this time.
Just for the hell of it, you could tell her that you thought of walking her to her room that night. If she says that would have been nice (or something like that), then ask for her persmission again.
 

Crazee

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Actually a gentleman would have offered to walk her back to her room without expectations.
 

PunDogg

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if she said good night then, i would ask her in the elevator and that would be it, she wants to go to bed, but should have given her your number number

Dogg
 

Electric Amish

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Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: DaTT
Only if you felt like spending the night in her bed.

Part of my anatomy did, but I am NOT the wham-bham-thank-you-mam kinda guy. Some romance, kissing, cuddling yes...but all the way after having just met her today...that's not me!

Well, then YOU have nothing to worry about.

I, on the other hand, think you're a tool! ;)




(...I'd probably have done the same thing, though because I'm socially retarded. :eek:)
 

GTaudiophile

Lifer
Oct 24, 2000
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Originally posted by: Patt
Originally posted by: ActuaryTm
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: conjur
:camera:s?
:camera:
Surely I wasn't the only one that caught the irony in the above domain name, was I?

No I caught that too ... perfect. :)

:p

I see her again in a few hours...we're both attending a conference in the Denver area...she'll be coming straight to my room...and we're going to try our best to get SOME sleep tonight...

 

MmmSkyscraper

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Eli: "Fine! Goddammit Matt! I swear to God if you don't fvck her, I'll kill myself! Matt! Please! Please! Matt! Fvck her for me! For me!"
 

lightpants

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Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: Patt
Originally posted by: ActuaryTm
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: conjur
:camera:s?
:camera:
Surely I wasn't the only one that caught the irony in the above domain name, was I?

No I caught that too ... perfect. :)

:p

I see her again in a few hours...we're both attending a conference in the Denver area...she'll be coming straight to my room...and we're going to try our best to get SOME sleep tonight...

Don't forget to clean the pipes first!:evil:
 

gigapet

Lifer
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it was game over she didnt want ice cream she wanted sex.....FROM YOU!!!!!!!!!!


<napoleon> IDIOT!!!! </napoleon>


EDIT:

on a business trip .....why would you persue anything besides casual sex? I just dont see spending money on a girl I dont want to bang. I barely justify spending money on a girl I want to bang.
 

gigapet

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Crazee
Actually a gentleman would have offered to walk her back to her room without expectations.

but would gladly have obliged the fair lady if she per chance offered you to come in for some coffee after you walked her to her room.
 

Munky

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Originally posted by: datalink7
Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: Taejin
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: Nik
If you can't answer that question for yourself without asking anyone else, you've already failed.

In terms of my personal morals and desire to be a gentleman, I don't think I should have followed her...I will be seeing her again tomorrow and at another conference in Denver in a few weeks time.

Wanted to, yes! Should have, no!

Glad to see my attempts to be a gentlemen are not the only one.

:thumbsup:

But see, it could be all subjective. She could have been specifically looking to have sex, and didn't see his actions as being "Gentlemanly" at all. So to her he could look like a clueless dolt who doesn't care about what she wants.

Of course, none of us were there but GTA. If she is someone who wants to take it slow, then it would be gentlemanly to not force the issue and do exactly what he did. If she is someone who wanted to have sex with him that night, then there is nothing gentlemanly about his actions at all.

Well, then how are we supposed to know if she wanted it, we weren't there. You can usually tell if a woman is interested by the way she looks at you, talks to you, body language, and also what kind of a kiss was it? If you got that far with a woman you've just met, why not go all the way? She probably wouldn't have gone out with you if she wasn't interested, and so you SHOULD have made a move on her.
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: munky
Originally posted by: datalink7
Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: Taejin
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: Nik
If you can't answer that question for yourself without asking anyone else, you've already failed.

In terms of my personal morals and desire to be a gentleman, I don't think I should have followed her...I will be seeing her again tomorrow and at another conference in Denver in a few weeks time.

Wanted to, yes! Should have, no!

Glad to see my attempts to be a gentlemen are not the only one.

:thumbsup:

But see, it could be all subjective. She could have been specifically looking to have sex, and didn't see his actions as being "Gentlemanly" at all. So to her he could look like a clueless dolt who doesn't care about what she wants.

Of course, none of us were there but GTA. If she is someone who wants to take it slow, then it would be gentlemanly to not force the issue and do exactly what he did. If she is someone who wanted to have sex with him that night, then there is nothing gentlemanly about his actions at all.

Well, then how are we supposed to know if she wanted it, we weren't there. You can usually tell if a woman is interested by the way she looks at you, talks to you, body language, and also what kind of a kiss was it? If you got that far with a woman you've just met, why not go all the way? She probably wouldn't have gone out with you if she wasn't interested, and so you SHOULD have made a move on her.

seriously too many ppl dont understand that women often crave sex MORE than men. THEY CANT SAY THEY WANT IT THOUGH! Thats too easy.....they have to drop subtle & not so subtle hints for you . And if you pick up on the hints and make moves on them it is a test of sorts as to whether you are man enough to be boinking them. He failed the test from what I can tell but again I wasnt there eto see what the kiss was like, how her Body language was etc.

 
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haha welcome to my world.. how many women got turneddown cause i dont read women all the time..
im making a change to do so more often.