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Originally posted by: Phoenix86
Then why did you ask her out? You're out of town at a conference, you picked up a chick, but wanted a long term relationship not a one nighter.Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: DaTT
Only if you felt like spending the night in her bed.
Part of my anatomy did, but I am NOT the wham-bham-thank-you-mam kinda guy. Some romance, kissing, cuddling yes...but all the way after having just met her today...that's not me!
...WTF mate?![]()
edit: just read you will be seeing her again. In that case, disregard everything I posted above. If you think you may get to know her, I can respect not going for it on the first date. Respect is good when your trying to build something.![]()
Originally posted by: Jeff7
1) It's too late now.
2) You're asking the wrong bunch of people.![]()
Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: datalink7
Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: Taejin
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: Nik
If you can't answer that question for yourself without asking anyone else, you've already failed.
In terms of my personal morals and desire to be a gentleman, I don't think I should have followed her...I will be seeing her again tomorrow and at another conference in Denver in a few weeks time.
Wanted to, yes! Should have, no!
Glad to see my attempts to be a gentlemen are not the only one.
:thumbsup:
But see, it could be all subjective. She could have been specifically looking to have sex, and didn't see his actions as being "Gentlemanly" at all. So to her he could look like a clueless dolt who doesn't care about what she wants.
Of course, none of us were there but GTA. If she is someone who wants to take it slow, then it would be gentlemanly to not force the issue and do exactly what he did. If she is someone who wanted to have sex with him that night, then there is nothing gentlemanly about his actions at all.
If GTA is a gentleman, he's too good for some skank who just wants some dick. If he IS a gentleman, findind some woman who just wants a screw is settling for less than what he deserves.
Then again, if she's that kind of woman, and if he's just an asshole and thinks the world revolves around sex, then more power to him...![]()
Originally posted by: cerebusPu
okay..so waiting for the poon update on april 13th.
...everyone gets more than me.
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: DaTT
Only if you felt like spending the night in her bed.
Part of my anatomy did, but I am NOT the wham-bham-thank-you-mam kinda guy. Some romance, kissing, cuddling yes...but all the way after having just met her today...that's not me!
Originally posted by: ActuaryTm
Surely I wasn't the only one that caught the irony in the above domain name, was I?Originally posted by: GTaudiophile:camera:Originally posted by: conjur
:camera:s?
Originally posted by: Patt
Originally posted by: ActuaryTm
Surely I wasn't the only one that caught the irony in the above domain name, was I?Originally posted by: GTaudiophile:camera:Originally posted by: conjur
:camera:s?
No I caught that too ... perfect.![]()
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: Patt
Originally posted by: ActuaryTm
Surely I wasn't the only one that caught the irony in the above domain name, was I?Originally posted by: GTaudiophile:camera:Originally posted by: conjur
:camera:s?
No I caught that too ... perfect.![]()
I see her again in a few hours...we're both attending a conference in the Denver area...she'll be coming straight to my room...and we're going to try our best to get SOME sleep tonight...
Originally posted by: Crazee
Actually a gentleman would have offered to walk her back to her room without expectations.
Originally posted by: datalink7
Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: Taejin
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: Nik
If you can't answer that question for yourself without asking anyone else, you've already failed.
In terms of my personal morals and desire to be a gentleman, I don't think I should have followed her...I will be seeing her again tomorrow and at another conference in Denver in a few weeks time.
Wanted to, yes! Should have, no!
Glad to see my attempts to be a gentlemen are not the only one.
:thumbsup:
But see, it could be all subjective. She could have been specifically looking to have sex, and didn't see his actions as being "Gentlemanly" at all. So to her he could look like a clueless dolt who doesn't care about what she wants.
Of course, none of us were there but GTA. If she is someone who wants to take it slow, then it would be gentlemanly to not force the issue and do exactly what he did. If she is someone who wanted to have sex with him that night, then there is nothing gentlemanly about his actions at all.
Originally posted by: munky
Originally posted by: datalink7
Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: Taejin
Originally posted by: GTaudiophile
Originally posted by: Nik
If you can't answer that question for yourself without asking anyone else, you've already failed.
In terms of my personal morals and desire to be a gentleman, I don't think I should have followed her...I will be seeing her again tomorrow and at another conference in Denver in a few weeks time.
Wanted to, yes! Should have, no!
Glad to see my attempts to be a gentlemen are not the only one.
:thumbsup:
But see, it could be all subjective. She could have been specifically looking to have sex, and didn't see his actions as being "Gentlemanly" at all. So to her he could look like a clueless dolt who doesn't care about what she wants.
Of course, none of us were there but GTA. If she is someone who wants to take it slow, then it would be gentlemanly to not force the issue and do exactly what he did. If she is someone who wanted to have sex with him that night, then there is nothing gentlemanly about his actions at all.
Well, then how are we supposed to know if she wanted it, we weren't there. You can usually tell if a woman is interested by the way she looks at you, talks to you, body language, and also what kind of a kiss was it? If you got that far with a woman you've just met, why not go all the way? She probably wouldn't have gone out with you if she wasn't interested, and so you SHOULD have made a move on her.
Originally posted by: Gobadgrs
first pics.
then we berate you for being an idiot.
on the plus side you dont have the Herp, so you still come out ahead.
