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BD231

BD231

Lifer
Feb 26, 2001
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Party chicks bring a lot of energy to the table (Drama if you don't kater to their insecuritie's). I'm more of a calm person so having the oposite around is a plus for me (entertainment). Of course, I don't trust a party animal any more than our country trusts George Bush. Chicks are very emotuionally charged creatures, and at a young age, their actions are heavily guided by this " charge ". Not trustable in the least!!!

Home body chicks will bore the hell out of you after a while if you're young at heart. If you miss your mom she'll do you just fine though.

Focus on your own riches and future and *DO NOT* get emotionally attached to *ANYONE* until you're ready to deal with some added stress in your life.

Maintaining balance and continued mental focus is more important than a girl @ 22. Most young people are retarded when it comes to a relationships anyway. Solidify what you've started to engrain in yourself profestionally and only mess with girls to satisfy the urge (I'll kick your a** if you mess with a prosti-skoot, stay away from that mess, your better than that).

I'm sure you could find a club bopper to treat you right. She'll be able to cook a little bit, she'll make her own money and come up with low key things to do, she'll be lazy when it comes to house work, but they're good for laundry. It's the dishes they hate. Not *always* the best in bed, but hey, she's always better than doin it yourself.

A or B present two entirely different sets of problems though man, ask yourself what *YOU* feel you need. If it's just company, go for the party chick. If you want the real deal *RIGHT NOW*, plan B is the obvious choice.

FYI. *ALWAYS* go for a chick who's financially responsible (it'll pass on to you), that's square one in my book.
 
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DaShen

Lifer
Dec 1, 2000
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Originally posted by: brandonb
This is a typical run around you get with a "Type A Girl" on a regular basis.

Luckily I have a "Type B Girl" all ready for a go at a relationship...

?Type A Girl? says:
Hello...
?Me? says:
Hey there
?Type A Girl? says:
How's your day going?
?Me? says:
Its going pretty good. I'm getting busy tho.
?Type A Girl? says:
I need to talk to you about something.
?Me? says:
Shoot
?Type A Girl? says:
I want you to promise me that you will hear me out completely......
?Me? says:
Ok just say "I'm done" when you are done.
?Type A Girl? says:
Okay
?Type A Girl? says:
First of all, I think that you are such a sweet person and I like hanging out with you. I have feelings for you and care about you. I am just very emotionally, physically, and mentally drained in life right now. I do not feel that I can put into a relationship what I should because I am not fully functioning as me. Before I focus on an intimate relationship of any kind, I seriously feel....
?Type A Girl? says:
that I should make me better and focus on my girls and myself. I am very toren in making this decision.....
?Type A Girl? says:
and I do not want you to think that I came to any of it lightly. I think that my intention on Saturday was to clear the air and perhaps remain friends with you and I got all caught up in the moment. [NOTE: I broke it off with her weeks ago because she is flaky, only to have her beg to come meet up with me Saturday. Probably because she was horny, now she is back to flakey after getting it out of her system.]
?Type A Girl? says:
I do not feel that I can give you the realtionship that you so much deserve right now.
?Type A Girl? says:
This decision is about me and what's best for me and thus I do feel guilty that I am being selfish like that.......
?Type A Girl? says:
however, if I don't take care of me, no one else is going to make this better.
?Type A Girl? says:
I never, ever, ever wanted to hurt you in any way and I am very sincere in that...I just can't put energy into "us" when I don't even have any for my daughters.
?Type A Girl? says:
I have to heal and I can't do that when I am trying to be so busy with everything else.
?Type A Girl? says:
I'm done.
?Me? says:
brb
?Type A Girl? says:
If you are angry with me, i totally understand. If you never talk to me again, I wouldn't hold it against you.
?Type A Girl? says:
I just have to be honest with you.....that's how I am and I am honest no matter what.
?Type A Girl? says:
i just want you happy and I don't feel that I can do that right now at this point in my life.
?Type A Girl? says:
I want you to be happy and have what you dream of....that is my wish for you. My wish for me is that I can someday smile and really mean it and my heart doesn't hurt so much.
?Type A Girl? says:
I am going to go and do some stuff so I will not know what you think right now, however, I hope that you will at least send me a message eventually and that you don't hate me. If I don't hear from you, then I wish you all the best.
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I hope you enjoyed that as much as I did. :)
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Meh, the "Type A" girl seems like a nice girl. She just doesn't know what she wants or she hasn't recognized a great find when she sees it. No worries, plenty of other nice girls out there. And if you conduct yourself well, there is always the chance that she may recognize it later, but if she doesn't it is no big deal either.

Don't waste your time pining over a girl that can't make up her mind about you, but don't be a jerk either.
 
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Accipiter22

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you're only young once. Girl A wins..At least Girl A is TRYING to learn how to cook. I wouldn't call 'going out once per week' as a party girl...that's probably average/below average for a 24/25 year old. Sounds like she's actually more well rounded. Girl B sounds like she's over-compensating for something. Anyone that takes the attitude that it's their 'duty' to serve another person in a relationship doesn't usually have very much depth of personality, and probably will be WAY too dependent on you.
 
her209

her209

No Lifer
Oct 11, 2000
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Originally posted by: PHiuR
fleshlight is the answer.

(i voted for b)
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Its funny that you mention it. I saw the most disturbing ad for fleshlight the other day. :BARF:
 
Gdepp519

Gdepp519

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Jun 18, 2003
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Originally posted by: tfinch2
If I don't party, why the fvck would I want to date a girl that does? :confused:
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haha.. funny this question was raised I'm in a similar situation.. im a 23 yr old grad student goto work full time and school part-time..

I have a girl that likes to drink and party once a week and is high maintenance.... and i know another girl that isn't a foreigner to it.. but is cool with chilling out.. and watching movies.. and very appreciative of everything...

I'm about to make a trade-up soon enough.. and you should go with girl B
 
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Whisper

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Feb 25, 2000
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Originally posted by: Accipiter22
you're only young once. Girl A wins..At least Girl A is TRYING to learn how to cook. I wouldn't call 'going out once per week' as a party girl...that's probably average/below average for a 24/25 year old. Sounds like she's actually more well rounded. Girl B sounds like she's over-compensating for something. Anyone that takes the attitude that it's their 'duty' to serve another person in a relationship doesn't usually have very much depth of personality, and probably will be WAY too dependent on you.
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Although this is a moot point since you've already made your decision, I'm gonna agree with the above post. Going out 1x/week, in my book, doesn't make someone a "party girl;" they only earn that title if they're at a bar or club more often than they're not. Also, as said above, Girl B sounds like she might possibly have dependency/identity issues to work through. It's fine to want to devote yourself to a relationship, but not to another person; the relationship implies that you'll work towards caring for yourself as well as caring for your partner.

Besides that, Girl A actually sounds like a pretty decent catch (not that Girl B doesn't...). She's motivated, is looking to acquire new skills, has had her fun (in college) and is maturing/moving beyond that normally, and seems confidant--from what little I can tell--in herself and her abilities.
 
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SilentButDeadly

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May 6, 2004
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Originally posted by: Unheard
C, a different women every week.
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I agree. Don't bother with girl B until you are older and want to settle down. I qould say girl A, but she should be like the side girl to fall back on when you go out and fail to take a girl home or go home with one. She should be there to call and go to when this happens.
 
tracerbullet

tracerbullet

Golden Member
Feb 22, 2001
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Originally posted by: Fmr12B
I'll take girl A.

Time for you to get a life an girl A sounds like she will help you live a bit closer to the edge.
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Agreed. You're not looking for a wife, you're too young yet. Have a little fun. Better to not be able to keep up with girl A and have to split, than to land girl B and get bored.
 
Shawn

Shawn

Lifer
Apr 20, 2003
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Originally posted by: zixxer
Okay. I decided I really want to be with Girl A. She's flirty, yes. Devoted - possibly. I'm young, and really am not ready for a 'family type' of relationship. I really care about Girl A - so... it's done. No more Girl B.
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you lose
 
mobobuff

mobobuff

Lifer
Apr 5, 2004
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At first I was going to vote B. But after reading your update, she's an ex-girlfriend. DEFINITELY GO FOR A. You THINK the problems are worked out after dating other people, but they'll come up again in 6 months.
 
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apex32

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Originally posted by: buzzsaw13
Girl B will think you won't have enough time for her and Girl A will probably end up screwing some other guy when shes out drinking with her friends.
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Bingo. but domesticated ftw! as long as she's attractive.
 
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