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You're 22, stable job, own home, and don't party.

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Apparently you have these two girls in mind for yourself. To assume both are into you and all you have to do is point at one and she will just come running is kind of conceited don't you think?
 
Originally posted by: LS20
girls with only few friends are bad sign

BORING
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Agreed. How can you be 22 and ready to "settle down?" The fact you've already bought a house and looking at "domesticated girls" kinda hints that you are - along with the fact that "you don't party" (whatever that means). It sounds boring. Your guy friends, what do you do with them? How do you meet additional girls? Fun stuff, what do you do? It sounds like you just walked across the podium to get your degree and you're not looking for anything more adventurous in life now?

wow....
 
Originally posted by: zixxer
Girl A:
'Party Girl'. Slightly older than you (24/25), formerly in a sorority (sp?), doesn't know how to cook (trying desperately to learn), motivated more towards making money than having a family. Goes out drinking about once a week or so with girlfriends/friends.

Girl B:
'Domesticated Type'. Your age, doesn't go out much, not many friends, VERY devoted, likes to cook and cook for you, enjoys cleaning and feels that a womans ultimate 'job' is to raise/help raise a family.



Keep in mind - you're 22, so not ready to 'settle down' yet, but also don't have time to party. You work ~40 hours a week and take 9-12 hours of classes a semester.
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B, and i do know 2-3 girls this way. The problem is, they don't bring in any income either if that is something important to you. yes, they save some money by being a stay at home mom or something, but income would be more.
 
I've always been a "Girl B" type of guy. I like a "domesticated" girl who likes to socialize now and then, rather than a party girl who likes to sleep now and then.

My idea woman is one with a few close friends, who would rather sit at home with me and watch a movie than go to a bar.
 
You're only 22, and basically just out for a good time, it sounds like... why would you pick girl B?
You have plenty of time to be with domestic girls, take a walk on the wild side while you still can, bub 😀
 
My girlfriend is a bit of a hybrid of A and B. She is 23(I'm 21) and she already has he bachelor's degree(I'll have mine in 5 months) and soon she'll have a Master's Degree. She is an engineer at Ford, she's intelligent, sexy, sweet, likes to take care of me, cant cook anything but is learning quick, and goes out with her friends every couple weeks but mostly likes to spend time with me. We'll be looking for a home/condo to buy in the next year or so.

She pretty much everything I want.

My advice find someone YOU WANT to be with. Don't make girl A or girl B choices. Find someone who is compatible with what YOU want and vice versa.

Otherwise you'll be making YAGTs till the end of time.
 
Originally posted by: richardycc
girl C: 'ex party now domesticated Type'. Your age, doesn't go out much, used to have tons of friends, now she just want to spend time with you, VERY devoted, likes to cook and cook for you, enjoys cleaning and motivated more towards making money AND having a family. Goes out drinking about once a month or so with you.
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:shocked: WHERE CAN ONE FIND THESE MYTHICAL BEASTS!!!!!!! :thumbsup:
 
Girl A: Because once you both hit 30, she will realize how much she missed out by not being girl A and will start to whore out when women's sex drive is at their max.
 
Originally posted by: SunnyD
Originally posted by: richardycc
girl C: 'ex party now domesticated Type'. Your age, doesn't go out much, used to have tons of friends, now she just want to spend time with you, VERY devoted, likes to cook and cook for you, enjoys cleaning and motivated more towards making money AND having a family. Goes out drinking about once a month or so with you.
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:shocked: WHERE CAN ONE FIND THESE MYTHICAL BEASTS!!!!!!! :thumbsup:
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See my post. Thats my girl too 😛
 
C: way older lady , like in her 40s who is divorced and a single parent. Those kinds are always fun, especially when they see a young man who works, has a home, etc. 😀
 
If it were me, I would go with woman B, that just seems too good to be true.

Edit: But then again, what do you want? Do you REALLY want to party, or do you want to settle down and raise a family? If you want to party, then girl A. If you want to settle down, girl B.
 
Honestly, girl A doesn't exactly sound like the typical party girl to me. Party girls are, to me, a complete waste of time when considering any worthwhile relationship. Who wants to be with a capricious, immature girl at any age?

That said, girl B doesn't exactly sound all that exciting either.

I'd go with girl A based on your description. I'd rather have someone motivated and somewhat excited about life. Girl B simply seems to homely to me, and may not be the person that enjoys travel, experiencing new things, etc.; after all, there are a lot of ways to have fun in life.
 
You would need a hybrid if possible. I have been with the girl A type and they are fun for a little while, but not trust worthy. Even though I really liked her, for some reason I found it hard to trust her (she liked partying too much.) On other hand, if you choose the domesticated one she will bore you to death, and if at some point, she goes to a party and finds out she really likes it she will go party crazy and probably be worse than the type A girl. So, you need to find a girls that likes to party just enough and that the same time do her duties in the kitchen and home as was intended by the good lord Jesus Christ....j/k
 
Assumptions abound. Your 22 and say "so not ready to 'settle down' yet" as if all 22yr olds aren't ready to settle down.
 
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