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PingSpike

Lifer
Feb 25, 2004
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You just got played! Or maybe he broke both his hands really bad and can't dial the phone or type text message, and every message you send him just increases his frustration.
 

Eeezee

Diamond Member
Jul 23, 2005
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Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
I was seeing a guy for about a week and 1/2. Everything seemed to be going well, he genuinely seemed to like me, and I like him as well. We talked on the phone frequently, texted alot. He bought me flowers, spent the night at each other's place. It was sweet.
So we finally went a bit further than kissing. After that we cuddle up and fall asleep.
I get up and go to school the next morning, leave a key for him to lock the apartment when he leaves (we were at my place) and leave it under the mat. And he did. All seems well.
Well all of a sudden he won't return my calls or text messages. I know he is fine and everything is alright because I talk to his sister online.
It's been two days and I haven't heard from him.
Should I take a hint?

Give it another day or two, he could just be busy or might feel slightly weird. Give him some time to get off of whatever might be bugging him.

If by Friday he's not talking to you, then it's time to give up.
 

jaedaliu

Platinum Member
Feb 25, 2005
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Originally posted by: Eeezee
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
I was seeing a guy for about a week and 1/2. Everything seemed to be going well, he genuinely seemed to like me, and I like him as well. We talked on the phone frequently, texted alot. He bought me flowers, spent the night at each other's place. It was sweet.
So we finally went a bit further than kissing. After that we cuddle up and fall asleep.
I get up and go to school the next morning, leave a key for him to lock the apartment when he leaves (we were at my place) and leave it under the mat. And he did. All seems well.
Well all of a sudden he won't return my calls or text messages. I know he is fine and everything is alright because I talk to his sister online.
It's been two days and I haven't heard from him.
Should I take a hint?

Give it another day or two, he could just be busy or might feel slightly weird. Give him some time to get off of whatever might be bugging him.

If by Friday he's not talking to you, then it's time to give up.

original posts were before the weekend. My (uneducated) guess is that it was one of those "thrill of the chase" things. You're a smart guy (OP) I'm sure you know when to move on.