YAGT

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Ball's in his court. If he calls back, fine. Otherwise, move on.

I know but I want to see him again. And I dont like the thought of being used. And he really came off as someone who wouldn't do that.

 

[Zanix]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: Looney

Originally posted by: hjo3

Originally posted by: Looney
Did you give him a reach around?

That's uncalled for.

Oh please. Everybody gets ribbing here when they post a YAGT thread, whether it's a straight or gay thread.

lol I dont mind I get it whether its a YAGT or not....lol.

So do guys who are gay do that for real? Serious.

Seems like it would be a hard manuver to pull off, no pun intended.

 

[Syrch]

I've always wondered what they actually did....never had the guts to find out though...probably never will either

 

[BobDaMenkey]

I'd give it a few days yet. He could have gotten cought up with a bunch of stuff and it's slipping his mind. I wouldn't worry about it a whole lot.

I'm supprised my b/f is putting up with me with how infrequently I get in touch with him. On the other hand, I'm commuting to or at school about 44 hours a week now, so it takes up a whole lot of my time. I still see him on the weekends though.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: Looney

Originally posted by: hjo3

Originally posted by: Looney
Did you give him a reach around?

That's uncalled for.

Oh please. Everybody gets ribbing here when they post a YAGT thread, whether it's a straight or gay thread.

lol I dont mind I get it whether its a YAGT or not....lol.

So do guys who are gay do that for real? Serious.

Seems like it would be a hard manuver to pull off, no pun intended.

What? Reach arounds?

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: BobDaMenkey
I'd give it a few days yet. He could have gotten cought up with a bunch of stuff and it's slipping his mind. I wouldn't worry about it a whole lot.

I'm supprised my b/f is putting up with me with how infrequently I get in touch with him. On the other hand, I'm commuting to or at school about 44 hours a week now, so it takes up a whole lot of my time. I still see him on the weekends though.

Yeah, maybe I am just overreacting. But the least he could do is tell me to fvck off and leave him alone. Being left in the dark is alot worse because you don't know the direction you are facing.

 

[Zanix]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: Looney

Originally posted by: hjo3

Originally posted by: Looney
Did you give him a reach around?

That's uncalled for.

Oh please. Everybody gets ribbing here when they post a YAGT thread, whether it's a straight or gay thread.

lol I dont mind I get it whether its a YAGT or not....lol.

So do guys who are gay do that for real? Serious.

Seems like it would be a hard manuver to pull off, no pun intended.

What? Reach arounds?

Ok. I can tell when someone would like to avoid the question.

All good. :thumbsup:


Edit: oops, looks like *I'm* the one who would like to avoid the question.

 

[Looney]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Ball's in his court. If he calls back, fine. Otherwise, move on.

I know but I want to see him again. And I dont like the thought of being used. And he really came off as someone who wouldn't do that.

Well, here's what i would do. I would call and leave a msg, asking why she hasn't called back yet. That it's pretty rude to just ignore somebody, and that if she wasn't interested, then at least have the decency to tell me. That i'm still very interested in her, so the ball is in her court now (or she's holding all the cards now, etc), and if she is too, then call me back. If not, then thanks for the fun.

 

[Zanix]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: BobDaMenkey
I'd give it a few days yet. He could have gotten cought up with a bunch of stuff and it's slipping his mind. I wouldn't worry about it a whole lot.

I'm supprised my b/f is putting up with me with how infrequently I get in touch with him. On the other hand, I'm commuting to or at school about 44 hours a week now, so it takes up a whole lot of my time. I still see him on the weekends though.

Yeah, maybe I am just overreacting. But the least he could do is tell me to fvck off and leave him alone. Being left in the dark is alot worse because you don't know the direction you are facing.

Absence does make the heart grow fonder. I mean, look how much you're already thinking about him.

I bet you'll get a surprize soon. :heart:

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: Looney

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Ball's in his court. If he calls back, fine. Otherwise, move on.

I know but I want to see him again. And I dont like the thought of being used. And he really came off as someone who wouldn't do that.

Well, here's what i would do. I would call and leave a msg, asking why she hasn't called back yet. That it's pretty rude to just ignore somebody, and that if she wasn't interested, then at least have the decency to tell me. That i'm still very interested in her, so the ball is in her court now (or she's holding all the cards now, etc), and if she is too, then call me back. If not, then thanks for the fun.

Well I text him in the mornings with a "good morning" and before I go to bed with a "good night i'm off to bed" and I called him this morning and told him, "Hey this is Justin, just seeing what was up. Havent heard from you in a while. If there is a reason for that, good or bad, let me know either way. Otherwise I am in the dark and don't know what to think. Either way I enjoy your company and hope to see you again soon. Later."

 

[Syrch]

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: BobDaMenkey
I'd give it a few days yet. He could have gotten cought up with a bunch of stuff and it's slipping his mind. I wouldn't worry about it a whole lot.

I'm supprised my b/f is putting up with me with how infrequently I get in touch with him. On the other hand, I'm commuting to or at school about 44 hours a week now, so it takes up a whole lot of my time. I still see him on the weekends though.

Yeah, maybe I am just overreacting. But the least he could do is tell me to fvck off and leave him alone. Being left in the dark is alot worse because you don't know the direction you are facing.

Absence does make the heart grow fonder. I mean, look how much you're already thinking about him.

I bet you'll get a surprize soon. :heart:

I hope so for his sake..i really do

 

[Looney]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: Looney

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Ball's in his court. If he calls back, fine. Otherwise, move on.

I know but I want to see him again. And I dont like the thought of being used. And he really came off as someone who wouldn't do that.

Well, here's what i would do. I would call and leave a msg, asking why she hasn't called back yet. That it's pretty rude to just ignore somebody, and that if she wasn't interested, then at least have the decency to tell me. That i'm still very interested in her, so the ball is in her court now (or she's holding all the cards now, etc), and if she is too, then call me back. If not, then thanks for the fun.

Well I text him in the mornings with a "good morning" and before I go to bed with a "good night i'm off to bed" and I called him this morning and told him, "Hey this is Justin, just seeing what was up. Havent heard from you in a while. If there is a reason for that, good or bad, let me know either way. Otherwise I am in the dark and don't know what to think. Either way I enjoy your company and hope to see you again soon. Later."

Yeah, your msg is better. Mine is a usually a little bitter.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: Zanix

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: BobDaMenkey
I'd give it a few days yet. He could have gotten cought up with a bunch of stuff and it's slipping his mind. I wouldn't worry about it a whole lot.

I'm supprised my b/f is putting up with me with how infrequently I get in touch with him. On the other hand, I'm commuting to or at school about 44 hours a week now, so it takes up a whole lot of my time. I still see him on the weekends though.

Yeah, maybe I am just overreacting. But the least he could do is tell me to fvck off and leave him alone. Being left in the dark is alot worse because you don't know the direction you are facing.

Absence does make the heart grow fonder. I mean, look how much you're already thinking about him.

I bet you'll get a surprize soon. :heart:

This is true if you know the person will be going somewhere. But had I not been able to talk to his sister, for all I know he could have died on the way home from my place.
I would go over to his place but I will not do that uninvited yet.

 

[ultimatebob]

How many times did you call him? I hope that it wasn't more than 2 or 3, or you might have scared him off.

Of course, I could be totally wrong about this, because I'm not gay. Why am I even posting in this thread, anyway?

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: ultimatebob
How many times did you call him? I hope that it wasn't more than 2 or 3, or you might have scared him off.

Of course, I could be totally wrong about this, because I'm not gay. Why am I even posting in this thread, anyway?

It's normal for me to be kinda worried when I have talked to him everyday and then out of no where dont hear from him anymore. He does not know I talked to his sister.
What am I to think?

 

[IlllI]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem


It's normal for me to be kinda worried when I have talked to him everyday and then out of no where dont hear from him anymore. He does not know I talked to his sister.
What am I to think?

you should take that as a hint about something. what that is? well...only the other person knows for sure. if you really want to find out, it seems like the only way is to confront this person. or, you could just let it go, and try to move on and stop dwelling on it...which might be the more difficult thing to do.

 

[hypn0tik]

I get the feeling that you're somewhat clingy. Give him some space and see what happens. Disappearing without a word though, that is a bit strange, but leave him be for a day or two and see what happens.

 

[J Heartless Slick]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
I was seeing a guy for about a week and 1/2. Everything seemed to be going well, he genuinely seemed to like me, and I like him as well. We talked on the phone frequently, texted alot. He bought me flowers, spent the night at each other's place. It was sweet.
So we finally went a bit further than kissing. After that we cuddle up and fall asleep.
I get up and go to school the next morning, leave a key for him to lock the apartment when he leaves (we were at my place) and leave it under the mat. And he did. All seems well.
Well all of a sudden he won't return my calls or text messages. I know he is fine and everything is alright because I talk to his sister online.
It's been two days and I haven't heard from him.
Should I take a hint?

I can't tell, have you been intimate with this person?

 

[K1052]

Just relax, two days is not a whole lot of time.

If a week or more goes by without contact then proceed to freak out.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: J Heartless Slick

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
I was seeing a guy for about a week and 1/2. Everything seemed to be going well, he genuinely seemed to like me, and I like him as well. We talked on the phone frequently, texted alot. He bought me flowers, spent the night at each other's place. It was sweet.
So we finally went a bit further than kissing. After that we cuddle up and fall asleep.
I get up and go to school the next morning, leave a key for him to lock the apartment when he leaves (we were at my place) and leave it under the mat. And he did. All seems well.
Well all of a sudden he won't return my calls or text messages. I know he is fine and everything is alright because I talk to his sister online.
It's been two days and I haven't heard from him.
Should I take a hint?

I can't tell, have you been intimate with this person?

Yes. The day before he kinda disappeared...lol.
You may think I am a slut but I dont care. Waiting ten days to become intimate after spending the night, or hanging out with him almost every night is pretty good.

 

[Ilmater]

He got what he needed, he's happy. He's not coming back.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: Ilmater
He got what he needed, he's happy. He's not coming back.

He didn't seem that way. I can usually tell.
He got out of a 7-year relationship with a guy about 6-7 months ago. I think that might have something to do with it.
I am just not going to attempt to contact him anymore.
If he calls me he calls me. I'm just gonna move on I guess.

 

[hjo3]

Update plz.

 

[RbSX]

I think this thread is kinda ******, I've got nothing against gay people (went to an all guys highschool, have a few gay friends and a gay hairdresser) and I don't want him to go 'well guys have YAGT threads'

BUT GUYS IN YAGT THREADS DON'T GO INTO DETAIL ABOUT HUGGING AND KISSING AND HOLDING EACHOTHER.

Yeck.

 

[bleeb]

Sounds like you were used ...