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Vegitto

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Well, prepare for a long story.

Since a while ago, a girl in my class has been giving me lots of strange attention. In class, she continiously asks me stuff, but never looks at me, and when I answer, she blushes. She asks me personal questions, and gives me HER answer to those questions, and expects me to do the same thing.

A little while ago, I saw her scribbling away, and since I won't mention her name, I'll just call her "Betty". "Betty" was scribbling something like "Vegitto <squigly> "Betty" ", but I don't really know what the squigly is supposed to represent. It didn't look like a heart.

Well, and here comes the part that worries me:
The day before yesterday, she asked me if I'd care if she was dead. I responded that I would really care, and she said that she wouldn't do it. No persusion neccesary, just tell them you care 😛.

Yesterday, she asked my oppinion about getting a cat. I told her that I already have cats, but if I would get one, I wouldn't get a kitten, I'd get an old one, maybe with a disease or something (ie blind, deaf, diabetic), but also stated that a diabetic cat wouldn't be anything for me, since I have needlephobia. She told me she'd do it, then. To me, this means she thinks the following things:
-She's in love with me;
-She thinks she can have a relationship with me;
-She thinks that relationship will last long enough for the two of us to live together (ie >4 years);
-She thinks it'll last long enough for us to get a cat together.

Well, ladies, you tell me, I seriously don't know.

I've added a poll, too.
 
Originally posted by: Vegitto
Well, prepare for a long story.

Since a while ago, a girl in my class has been giving me lots of strange attention. In class, she continiously asks me stuff, but never looks at me, and when I answer, she blushes. She asks me personal questions, and gives me HER answer to those questions, and expects me to do the same thing.

A little while ago, I saw her scribbling away, and since I won't mention her name, I'll just call her "Betty". "Betty" was scribbling something like "Vegitto <squigly> "Betty" ", but I don't really know what the squigly is supposed to represent. It didn't look like a heart.

Well, and here comes the part that worries me:
The day before yesterday, she asked me if I'd care if she was dead. I responded that I would really care, and she said that she wouldn't do it. No persusion neccesary, just tell them you care 😛.

Yesterday, she asked my oppinion about getting a cat. I told her that I already have cats, but if I would get one, I wouldn't get a kitten, I'd get an old one, maybe with a disease or something (ie blind, deaf, diabetic), but also stated that a diabetic cat wouldn't be anything for me, since I have needlephobia. She told me she'd do it, then. To me, this means she thinks the following things:
-She's in love with me;
-She thinks she can have a relationship with me;
-She thinks that relationship will last long enough for the two of us to live together (ie >4 years);
-She thinks it'll last long enough for us to get a cat together.

Well, ladies, you tell me, I seriously don't know.

I've added a poll, too.

The girl sounds like a psycho.

But then again, so are 99% of women.
 
Most likely she's those shy type that can't look a person in the face in which they like...
Ask her out

But IMHO
I think you're overreacting.
 
Well, I left psycho out on purpose, since I'm not sure the suicide thing was real, or if she just wanted attention.
 
Originally posted by: wfbberzerker
if you decide to go for it, be prepared to be in it for the long haul.

Yeah, exactly what I mean. I need you guys to decide for me if I'm up for the challenge, since I really don't know..
 
Originally posted by: Vegitto
Originally posted by: wfbberzerker
if you decide to go for it, be prepared to be in it for the long haul.

Yeah, exactly what I mean. I need you guys to decide for me if I'm up for the challenge, since I really don't know..

If you ask on a forum full of geeky men, you aren't ready.
 
Originally posted by: Vegitto
Originally posted by: wfbberzerker
if you decide to go for it, be prepared to be in it for the long haul.

Yeah, exactly what I mean. I need you guys to decide for me if I'm up for the challenge, since I really don't know..

The girl is obviously a loose cannon, but it wouldn't hurt to ask her out on a date. See how she acts after a few hours, and then go from there.
 
Originally posted by: NutBucket
You're in middle school I hope. Seriously, "would you care if I was dead?"

I was thinking that too...

either that or she's in middle school and you're not :Q
 
Originally posted by: Chrono
Holy ****** man. Learn to spell already.

Woohoo! The spelling Nazi has arrived.

I think she's cute, but she's not over 18, and neither am I, so no pics for you.
Well, the way I see her, she likes to do stuff, but really hasn't got anyone to do it with... Is there a female member here that could give me some advice?
 
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