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YAGT: what a messsss. someone help. UPDATED read post #73

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chin311

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Ok,

where to begin.

My cousin and her friend from NY come down, and im just expecting an ok hang out with them time....especially since my cousin's friend has a bf. buttttt we end up hooking up like 4 nites outta the 6 they are here....and like we both want to be with each other a lot a lot, im 19 almost 20 and shes 18. she lives in NY, me in Florida. big space i know. but the tough thing is, like if i moved up there she said she would live with me for sure because she wants to be with me, BUT, she isnt finished with school until june and the town where i could move (where my dad lives) in ny is about 45 min away from her school so she wouldnt be able to live with me until after school, now heres the tough part of the situation, shes been with her bf for over a year, doesnt want to be with him anymore etc, BUT she lives with him right now because she had to move out of her parents house and has nowhere else to go until she can get outta school and work and whatever else....so basically shes staying with him just because its a free and only place to stay until school is out, she says she doesnt want to be him and only me but cant leave until after schoooll, whattttttt do i dooooooo?

cliffs:
1. meet girl from ny that has bf
2. we hook up
3. she really wants me and i really want her🙁
4. shes stuck living with her bf until june when school is out
5. we can be together after that....
6. ...
7. WHAT NOW?!
 
So, she cheats on her long-term boyfriend, and then says she wants to be with you. You really like her after knowing her for 6 days, and want to move up to New York. Yea, this is going to end up well.

You have no intelligent thought in that ape-brain of yours, do you? Think, long and hard, about comitting suicide.
 
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Are you sure you want to be with a freeloader?
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Yeah, the fact that she is able to just change from one guy to the next in a matter of days isn't a good quality.
 
no, shes not gonna freeload off me, shes just doign that because she's in school and its the only place she can live besides her parents house!

and they left , so we hooked up as much as possible....on the d/l of course.

anddddd she wants me to go in april to see her....but i dunno, i hate thinkign that yeah she wants to be with me, but...shes still kinda in a way with him...u know ?
 
Originally posted by: chin311
no, shes not gonna freeload off me, shes just doign that because she's in school and its the only place she can live besides her parents house!

and they left , so we hooked up as much as possible....on the d/l of course.

anddddd she wants me to go in april to see her....but i dunno, i hate thinkign that yeah she wants to be with me, but...shes still kinda in a way with him...u know ?
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Just think,if you move there you can get to be the b/friend waiting at home while she's out cheating on you.
 
Originally posted by: chin311
1. meet girl from ny that has bf
2. we hook up
3. she really wants me and i really want her🙁
4. shes stuck living with her bf until june when school is out
5. we can be together after that....
6. ...
7. WHAT NOW?!
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If she can cheat on her bf that easily, she can do the same to you when someone better/different/new comes along. Were you protected? Let's say you two do end up together. She's already a cheater and can catch STDs while cheating on you with 1-night stands (which is what you were) and then pass them to you.

No, stay away from women like that. They are nothing but trouble.
 
Originally posted by: chin311
no, shes not gonna freeload off me, shes just doign that because she's in school and its the only place she can live besides her parents house!

and they left , so we hooked up as much as possible....on the d/l of course.

anddddd she wants me to go in april to see her....but i dunno, i hate thinkign that yeah she wants to be with me, but...shes still kinda in a way with him...u know ?
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I'm gonna make this as simple as possible for you.

1.) You are a moron
2.) You will always be a moron.
3.) Kill yourself. I don't care how. Just do it.
 
Originally posted by: SacrosanctFiend
So, she cheats on her long-term boyfriend, and then says she wants to be with you. You really like her after knowing her for 6 days, and want to move up to New York. Yea, this is going to end up well.

You have no intelligent thought in that ape-brain of yours, do you? Think, long and hard, about comitting suicide.
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no... i dont know. maybe i am crazy, i dunno she just left yesterday so maybe thats why i havent thought about it logically yet. i know it sounds crazy...even to me, yet it sounds good at the same time....so yeah.

and she only wants to leave him because he's an ass and she doesn't even like him....that happens in a lot of realtionships...yes the cheating part i disagree with...but i didn't think we would get semi-serious like we have.
 
Originally posted by: chin311
no, shes not gonna freeload off me, shes just doign that because she's in school and its the only place she can live besides her parents house!

and they left , so we hooked up as much as possible....on the d/l of course.

anddddd she wants me to go in april to see her....but i dunno, i hate thinkign that yeah she wants to be with me, but...shes still kinda in a way with him...u know ?
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Personally, I wouldn't.
I'd wait till she was officially free and single. Last thing you want is for the boyfriend to think you had something to do with the breakup.
 
Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: chin311
no, shes not gonna freeload off me, shes just doign that because she's in school and its the only place she can live besides her parents house!

and they left , so we hooked up as much as possible....on the d/l of course.

anddddd she wants me to go in april to see her....but i dunno, i hate thinkign that yeah she wants to be with me, but...shes still kinda in a way with him...u know ?
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Just think,if you move there you can get to be the b/friend waiting at home while she's out cheating on you.
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usually how it happens.

besides, you just met her. how could you know her well enough to move for her? please stop thinking with your penis. it gives us men who can think rationally a bad rep.
 
yes i know...... the whole cheating thing has drove me crazy. like if she wasn't with anyone and then we hooked up and she wantd me to come up there, it'd make more sense. but ill have to have a talk with her....because it seriously knocks the trust way down, i dont think she has ever cheated before, but i know she can't stand her bf.
 
Slow down junior. I'm sure you don't get ass much. Patience grasshopper, there will be more.

She's a disaster waiting to happen.
 
You can't be "semi-serious" since it was only 6 days. I'm sure she's a nice person, but my advice is to just let it go. Forget about her and resume normal activities. She has too many issues to deal with. She lives too far away. You barely know her.

Too many people want to hang on to something that cannot work.
 
Originally posted by: chin311

cliffs:
1. meet girl from ny that has bf
2. we hook up
3. she really wants me and i really want her🙁
4. shes stuck living with her bf until june when school is out
5. we can be together after that....
6. ...
7. Profit
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There you go 😉
 
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