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Here's some food for thought, the next time you see her and she kisses you just imagine what was in her mouth a few short days earlier!
 
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Here's some food for thought, the next time you see her and she kisses you just imagine what was in her mouth a few short days earlier!

as much as i agree with that analogy.....

it is pretty gross.

considering it could reflect on any woman out there who has had a boyfriend/husband in the past.
 
Originally posted by: chin311
Ok,

where to begin.

My cousin and her friend from NY come down, and im just expecting an ok hang out with them time....especially since my cousin's friend has a bf. buttttt we end up hooking up like 4 nites outta the 6 they are here....and like we both want to be with each other a lot a lot, im 19 almost 20 and shes 18. she lives in NY, me in Florida. big space i know. but the tough thing is, like if i moved up there she said she would live with me for sure because she wants to be with me, BUT, she isnt finished with school until june and the town where i could move (where my dad lives) in ny is about 45 min away from her school so she wouldnt be able to live with me until after school, now heres the tough part of the situation, shes been with her bf for over a year, doesnt want to be with him anymore etc, BUT she lives with him right now because she had to move out of her parents house and has nowhere else to go until she can get outta school and work and whatever else....so basically shes staying with him just because its a free and only place to stay until school is out, she says she doesnt want to be him and only me but cant leave until after schoooll, whattttttt do i dooooooo?

cliffs:
1. meet girl from ny that has bf
2. we hook up
3. she really wants me and i really want her🙁
4. shes stuck living with her bf until june when school is out
5. we can be together after that....
6. ...
7. WHAT NOW?!


Get with her and treat her like a queen! So when I meet her, she'll dump you for me.
 
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Here's some food for thought, the next time you see her and she kisses you just imagine what was in her mouth a few short days earlier!

as much as i agree with that analogy.....

it is pretty gross.

considering it could reflect on any woman out there who has had a boyfriend/husband in the past.
Not had, has!
 
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Here's some food for thought, the next time you see her and she kisses you just imagine what was in her mouth a few short days earlier!

as much as i agree with that analogy.....

it is pretty gross.

considering it could reflect on any woman out there who has had a boyfriend/husband in the past.
Not had, has!


What's the difference? she's already been down that route no matter what.

whether it has been a few minutes, hours, days, weeks, a few months.....or a few years....

 
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Not had, has!


What's the difference? she's already been down that route no matter what.

whether it has been a few minutes, hours, days, weeks, a few months.....or a few years....
I bet that's what you said to the Tidy Bowl Man!

 
I don't even know how you're considering moving up to NY to be with her.

1) She cheated on her boyfriend.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. How do you know she won't do this to you (and believe me, she will)? You have the mentality most guys do "Oh yea, she cheated on her bf, but she'd never do it to me."

2) She's in HS.
Girls like that don't know WTF they want. Especially since you're older, you don't want an immature girl like that, who obviously seems to have other problems, but we'll get into that later.

3) Moving from FL to NY
So you're considering moving to NY, completing destroying the life you've built in Florida, for this girl you hung out for a week with? Yea that sounds real logical. Especially since you're doing it for a cheating whore.

4) She's going to move in with you.
So let me get this straight, she was kicked out of her parents house (I'm assuming because she wasn't exactly being a saint), she's been living with her BF for a year, and now she wants to freeload off of you. Is there anything she'll be contributing to this? Do you know her well enough that she won't just move in with you, and then some of your possessions mysteriously disappear?

5) She's staying in the relationship with her boyfriend only because she's got no place else to live.
Yea, this is a real nice thing of her to do. Her boyfriend was the first sucker she's going to do this to, you'll be the second.

I don't see how or why you would throw your life away for some one-week fling.
 
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Not had, has!


What's the difference? she's already been down that route no matter what.

whether it has been a few minutes, hours, days, weeks, a few months.....or a few years....
I bet that's what you said to the Tidy Bowl Man!

/me no understand your comeback.

I'm just saying it is a bad analogy for the reason presented above.
 
run away, run away!

(as if you hadn't received that from *every* person in the thread already)

BTW, If you DIDN'T KNOW that you were already thinking with your LITTLE head, you wouldn't have posted. So just go with the answer you already know even though you really don't want it to be true because easy p00n is so .. nice.
 
Originally posted by: Stark
she's using you to get out of a relationship she doesn't want to be in.
Winner!!! The question is how long has she been with the current bf? Well that and when was the last time you had sex before she came along, chin311?

 
I never understand why some guys will make a post like this? Why in the world would a guy take any girl who is with a guy and is looking else... they tend to take her serious.

she is with a guy... she is roaming....

end of story.
 
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Why in the world would a guy take any girl who is with a guy and is looking else.

My first thought was "you would have to have a penis to understand the answer to that question.", but then I thought of the number of women who sleep with married guys and keep hoping that he will divorce his wife for them, and realized that while the answer is likely hormonal, it is probably not gender specific.
 
Originally posted by: myusername
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Why in the world would a guy take any girl who is with a guy and is looking else.

My first thought was "you would have to have a penis to understand the answer to that question.", but then I thought of the number of women who sleep with married guys and keep hoping that he will divorce his wife for them, and realized that while the answer is likely hormonal, it is probably not gender specific.

Hahaha!!!
Ok, i stand corrected. Let me rephrase ....
Why in the world would a person take any person who is with a person and is looking else.

That person is already with someone... living with them, sleeping with them... sharing a life and relationship with them. And they are looking else where. Why in the world would anyone have any respect or interest in such a person?

😉



 
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: myusername
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Why in the world would a guy take any girl who is with a guy and is looking else.

My first thought was "you would have to have a penis to understand the answer to that question.", but then I thought of the number of women who sleep with married guys and keep hoping that he will divorce his wife for them, and realized that while the answer is likely hormonal, it is probably not gender specific.

Hahaha!!!
Ok, i stand corrected. Let me rephrase ....
Why in the world would a person take any person who is with a person and is looking else.

That person is already with someone... living with them, sleeping with them... sharing a life and relationship with them. And they are looking else where. Why in the world would anyone have any respect or interest in such a person?

😉

Women have power over men.

They make men stop thinking with their upper brain.
 
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Women have power over men.

They make men stop thinking with their upper brain.

Sorry, dont buy it.

No one can make anyone do what they dont want to do... not murder, not steal, not even cheat. We are all responsible for our own actions and our own behaviours.
🙂

 
From personal experience, I would say that respect is not much of a factor for either party - it's all physical.
In my case, a she had an "ex" (I assumed "boyfriend")
Later it was "we're technically still married but we're separated"
Then it was "I still live at his place, but I sleep on the couch" :Q
It still took me a month to break it off.
You tend not to think straight when you are getting your willy wet.

edit: this ought to address your last post as well.
 
UPDATE

ok, sunday. the day after she got home.

she breaks up with him, said shes tired of how he treats her and she's not happy anymore. every time they've broke up before, they are usually back together the same day, but this time it's for good, she promises that. she wants to wait for me to be with her and is gonna come down in april to visit for a week or so. so we can see where things go, but she's not gonna be with anyone else and we are basically together just waiting to be with each other in the flesh.

any questions? things i should think about? she did this and wants to be with me, so that is kinda crazy, i didn't think it would happen, not this fast. she must be serious?
 
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Women have power over men.

They make men stop thinking with their upper brain.

Sorry, dont buy it.

No one can make anyone do what they dont want to do... not murder, not steal, not even cheat. We are all responsible for our own actions and our own behaviours.
🙂

you obviously have no idea how effective you ladies are when it comes to men.

i don't know where they train you, but damn!

 
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