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ViviTheMage

ViviTheMage

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The girlfriend of 1.5 years wants to go 2 hours away and sleep over at this guy brandons place (they are having a party before school starts back up)
supposedly a lot of her old friends are going ... soo im not sure what to think.

I said go ahead, but in a 'hells no' way....

so its still in the air.

might I add she will be a senior in high school, thoughts, options?
I am a college student (19).

I will be posting PICS , cause I dont want the BAN!!
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Abel007

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I fail to see why she needs a yay/nay from you. It shouldn't matter to you the location she sleeps at, but who she sleeps with.
 
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T9D

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I'd be bothered by it. If you arent there it could be bad news. When you are talking women and alchohol and party and guys house it's not a good combination.

My now ex GF went to a party and I didnt go. I called the next day and heard heavy breathing of someone the whole time while she talked. I asked about it and she was hesitant to answer. I never knew what happened that night and I'll always wonder.

I can tell you right now everyone here is going to flip out on you about being concerned. But you can garaunee if it was the other way around your woman would have a big say in it and probably wouldnt let you do it.
 
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Blazin Trav

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Originally posted by: ViviTheMage
I feel weird posting this, HAH.

but the girlfriend of 1.5 years wants to go 2 hours away and sleep over at this guy brandons place (they are having a party before school starts back up)
supposedly a lot of her old friends are going ... soo im not sure what to think.

I said go ahead, but in a 'hells no' way....

so its still in the air.

might I add she will be a senior in high school, thoughts, options?
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Can you go to the party with her or not? Sounds like she wants a breakup if she won't let you go. Cheating is a good way for a girl to break up with you if she doesn't have any legit reason.
 
MrPickins

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She's gonna be a senior this year? So is she 17?
If so, what is she doing spending the night at any guy's house?
 
purbeast0

purbeast0

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Originally posted by: ViviTheMage
I trust her, not these boys!

hah, id go with but she doesnt want me to...she says I would feel weird being around.
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ok if that was the case then hell no i wouldn't want her to go. there is probably something up if she doesn't want you go to there with her.

my gf has never said anything like that and i would definitely feel weird if she did, especially in this case.
 
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ruffilb

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Originally posted by: notfred
She's not your fvcking wife, it's not like you really get any say in the matter.
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Still, I'd recommend going with her if possible.

If you feel like being hardcore, you can recommend driving her back late at night if she's going to be wasted. Shows that you care, anyway.
 
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jlbenedict

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Cliffs:

1) GF isn't happy with the one-on-one attention she is receiving in the bedroom
2) GF goes to party at guys house
3) GF doesn't want BF to go with her
4) GF wants to get a "train" ran on her all night. Needs to do this before school starts back up
 
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MisterJackson

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Originally posted by: notfred
She's not your fvcking wife, it's not like you really get any say in the matter.
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That's funny coming from the man with the girl that ran game on him.

OP, the point is, all you can do is express your concern that if she goes like that you aren't comfortable with it and it might cause problems in the relationship. She'll make her decision from there, it's not your choice.

If she decides to go anyway, knowing it bothers you, then it's up to you as to whether or not you can still be with her.

Do you trust her?

Were you invited? Or is she hinting that she'd rather you not be there.

 
Specop 007

Specop 007

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Originally posted by: ViviTheMage
I trust her, not these boys!

hah, id go with but she doesnt want me to...she says I would feel weird being around.
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I look forward to next weeks post about how she cheated on you.

For me? Hell fvcking no she wouldnt go stay at another guys house.
 
nakedfrog

nakedfrog

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Since you're in high school, I'd say it doesn't really matter, because odds are the relationship is doomed anyway.
 
Baked

Baked

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Why do you even care? She's gonna break up w/ you as soon as she graduates high school anyway.
 
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trmiv

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Ask her if you can go stay at some girl's house the same night and see what her reaction to that is.
 
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