erikistired
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Maybe she'll just go anyway and cheat on you to spite you.
BTW, what's her personality like, does she seem like one to cheat on you? Is she a very flirtatious, sexually liberated type? If it's a large party with alcohol, there's a very good chance she'll wind out making out with some random guy at least.
Also, check to see if the zip code rule applies. If it does, then she's definetely going to be screwing some other guy.
I say just don't care, cause there's nothing you can do about it at this point. If she's been more defensive or what not around you lately, it probably means you're moving towards a break-up anyway. The best you can do is make it easy for her and get it over with sooner rather than later, just don't be a creep and get all possessive about it.
Of course, she may just want a one-night stand and then keep you around to spend money and time on her, in which case you should tell her to ****** off, but how would you ever know what she did or didn't do?
Seconded, but don't let them know you did it. Plus, Brandon (and others) could end up in jail for it.
Anyhow, if a girl plans to cheat on you, there's nothing you can do about it, she will eventually. Now then, if she's never been drunk before, it may be a good idea to warn her about the dangers of alcohol and politely tell her you're concerned.
Now then, she may go there and do nothing wrong, relationships that are attached at the hip are really lame, on the other hand, if you're not attached at the hip, she may not care neough not to cheat on you.
Most girls (and young people in general) don't think, she's likely to say she wouldn't care. Even if you supposendly found a real girl's house to crash at, she'd likely say it's ok, go to Brandon's, assume you're cheating on her, and cheat on you.
Anyhow, after you get your heart broken, never get into a real relationship again and just sleep around with whatever girls you can. Things will be much easier for you that way.
Almost certainly lies, unless she's going to a mario party. Why not ask her for the parents' phone number so you can call them and ask them about it? Or look up their phone number on verizon.com (or in a phone book, or wherever) and call them up and ask them for directions to the party on that date. If they act confused, you know it's a lie, so dump her when she comes back, unless she was lied to of course.
That just means she finds it easy to have sex, which means when she's got a little bit of alcohol in her, she'll find it easy to have it with someone else.
Heh, if you're from Pennsylvania or New Jersey, I may know the guy that started dating your girl. Or it may just be a very common thing, but he talked about how he got so close to God, and made out with this girl everyday all over the place that had a boyfriend. Funny how his literal statement actually was something like "Oh man, it was great, I got so close to God, I made out with this chick like everyday! It was awesome. She's got a boyfriend, but she's going to dump him."
Either she's lieing to you about drinking (highly likely, there's very few seniors in high school I've met who don't drink, even though most of them will deny it to their boyfriends) or she's going to get drunk for her first time, judgement will be a bit impaired, and the thought will go through her head "Maybe it's ok if I screw this guy, because I'm drunk and thus it's not really my fault." Or maybe the guy will just start kissing her and feeling her up, and she'll just go with it because she's drunk and will have no idea what's going on.
Bad idea, really bad idea. If you want to break any trust she has for you, then go right ahead, but people don't like their business broadcasted over the Internet, nor do they like the level of mistrust you're showing behind her back. Plus, you don't get to use any of the neat ideas in this thread if you let her read them.
If she doesnt cheat on you and end the relationship, then her reading this entire thread definetly will.
Uh, what do her parents say about letting her sleep over at a guys house? FFS, she's 17. The force says trouble is ahead.
lies. tie her up and don't let her go anywhere except handcuffed with you to wherever you go.
btw, she looks strange in that pic.
btw, she looks strange in that pic.
Hey baby, when you read this, send me a PM. Im having a party at my house and my parents will be there, no beer or drugs allowed, but you are welcome to come and hang out! PS. no boyfriends allowed.
that is nasty man.
as for your posts fox, she definatly has a great personality, she is very humerous.
Thats why I am showing her the thread once I get home. I guess they also have this party every year, the same guy, same place, etc.
She did not go last year because she was working, but she works this year and is taking off work, (red flag?)...
she respects what I say and I do not think she will be going, why because ATOT is a bunch of pushy manipulative bastards who think there outcome is the only outcome.
just kidding, she lovers me and respects me. So I do not think she will go.
she isnt allowed to sleep over at my place, but she can at guys' friends.
she has ALLWAYS been friends with guys, and as she says, thats it, no more. but she has dated two of the friends (a week at most).
I agree though...her parents are funky though. thats another story !
** Red flag alert # 3,542,215 of this thread! **
So let's talk about her dad. Not there I presume? Even if he is there physically, he's not emotionally. 97% of girls who have more guy friends than girl friends have a troubled father-daughter relationship at home.
She's asking you to tell her no, because her dad doesn't have the nutz to do it himself.
I know, that's why I'm trying to save you from the pain you will feel when you find out it happened.
If that ever happened, I would have to toss her @ss in the lake and take a fireman's hose and some shock treatment to her.
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preslove
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Don't say no. Say, "honey, I want to go with you and I won't feel weird because I'll be having fun with you," so you don't come across as controlling. If she insists on you staying home, then you have a serious problem.
Of course, this is the harbinger of your break-up. Don't feel bad, though, girlfriends or boyfriends back home usually don't work out.
I find it really wierd that she does'nt want you there, if this party is like an annual thing its probably something she's been looking forward to for awhile. Why would'nt you want your SO with you for an event like that. It's like going to a christmas or new years party and telling your girl I don't think you would have fun there.
Ask yourself this--
IF she does go: Will you be able to trust her? Will you ask about what happened? Will you always wonder what happened? It leads down a dark road.
She's young. Maybe she's testing the power dynamic.
Break-up with her and see if she comes to her senses about this.
IF she does go: Will you be able to trust her? Will you ask about what happened? Will you always wonder what happened? It leads down a dark road.
She's young. Maybe she's testing the power dynamic.
Break-up with her and see if she comes to her senses about this.
Whaddya gonna do if she goes against your wishes, slap her down??? She goes, she either hooks up or she doesn't... if she does, ditch her, if she doesn't, don't, if you can' t figure it out one way or another way, either let it go, or let it eat you from the Inside out till you go insane.............
All I know is, I went through similar situations in early college, and if I could go back and talk to myself, I'd tell myself to chill the freak out........Lighten up and get over it......
All I know is, I went through similar situations in early college, and if I could go back and talk to myself, I'd tell myself to chill the freak out........Lighten up and get over it......
Let it go. Realize she'll be doing it with 3 or 4 guys during the course of the party but, well, just accept it... Just remember to wrap it up from now on, even if she's on the pill, because some frat boy will be in her mouth in t minus..........
Or, I'd dump her now and find another girl.. Her not wanting you there says everything to me. DUMP HER.. make her feel like crap..
i'm not being immature... i know 17 year old girls - they want to try penises of all different shapes, sizes, and colors.
Or, I'd dump her now and find another girl.. Her not wanting you there says everything to me. DUMP HER.. make her feel like crap..
i'm not being immature... i know 17 year old girls - they want to try penises of all different shapes, sizes, and colors.
There is one undeniable truth at work here - telling a 17 year old girl she can't do something will always completely backfire on you.
Another platitude - if you make a YAGT on ATOT, the 90% of the responses will be some derivative of "it's over" "she's cheating on you" etc
My recommendation - spend the night doing the exact thing she plans on doing, with different people, and if she raises a stink about it, take it from there.
That being said, she's 17, it doesn't matter, cause it won't work out in the end anyway.
QFT.
Send a "friend" to watch her. Be sure to ask your friend to upload the video to the Internet, we can always use more gang bang porno.
Seriously, she's young, and so are you. Try to live and learn.
Personally, I'd just go cuz I wouldn't sleep too well without some reassurance.
This man speaks the truth. No matter how in love you feel, no matter how you feel that she's the one, I can gaurantee that she'll forget your name (and vice versa) when she's in a hot tub with her philosophy professor in college.
I'm being cynical, yes, but enjoy what you have for what it is - you'll look back when you're 30 and say "I should have screwed more people when I was 17 but I was loyal to this c*nt while she screwed the entire basketball team" - Have fun, don't take this too seriously (though I *know* how serious this must feel - I was 17 once too, and made my gf at the time mix cds every week to show how much I loved her.. where is she now? hmmm..)..
My advice to you - go out that night with a cute female friend, at least make out with that friend and keep that secret to yourself. This way the guilt will keep you from worrying about your gf's orifices and, well, you'd be a hypocrite to care either way...
She'd probably say that she doesn't care...and then it would just give her even more incentive to screw around at the guys house.
Like the others said..it doesn't matter anyway, because you two will break up eventually.
And she looks emo...*ugh*.
I think she's a pretty girl - which means she'll have 12 penises in her vs. the 6 i originally thought...then she'll write a melodramatic song about how having 12 penises in her felt... and then she'll slit her wrists - not deep enough to kill but deep enough for her mommy and daddy to buy her one of those mini coopers... a black one, of course.
Edit: sorry for the horrible typos.. I'm home sick and delirious on cough meds
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