Welllllll....my girl found out that she might be preg last Wednesday, and didn't come to me with the news right away...She was pretty much scared to tell me, and I guess she was out at the mall or whatever and her ex-bf of two years saw her all upset and stuff and came up and talked to her...I guess she felt comfortable talking about it to him and stuff, and she had spent some time with him over the next few days until she called me up crying on Saturday night.
She told me all about everything, and was honest about the whole situation, which I appreciated, and we had cleared everything up as of Saturday night. I asked her if she had anything else to tell me, and she told me no. So I go home with her, we watch "The Ring" which is a taaaaaaadddddddd bit trippy, and then goto sleep. We get up, get breakfast, and she goes back to lay down...I come up and ask her how she's feeling, and she says that we have to talk again, and proceeds to tell me that over the past few days some feelings for her ex have come back. How much does it hurt to hear a girl say "I Love You but I Love Mike too" man that fvcking killed right there.
Anyways, she was basically confused as to what she wants, doesn't know if me and her rushed into this, doesn't know if she wants to be with him, or doesn't know if she wants to be single. It's a whooooole big mess, and she was basically looking for me to try to help her through. The best thing that came to my head was for her to take some time away from everybody. I was thinking something more like a vacation, but she just chose to see that me and the ex don't contact her in any way for a week (until next Sunday.)
So here I sit, wondering what to do for a week, wondering if she's playing me to be with the ex (which I doubt...I hope), and just plain wondering if this is really all worth my wondering....The thought of losing her back to the ex would just plain kill me since I've heard of everything he's put her through, and just the thought of losing her in general really hurts. It's been a nice 10 weeks that we've been together, probably some of the best weeks of my life, and to have that all taken away would just make me
So yeah, that's my rant...any ideas on what I can do to keep busy and STOP worrying about if she's with the ex or not?
Edit for some Clarification:
She took some cheap-o CVS pregnancy test on Wednesday, and it came up Positive or Pregnant or whatever the fvck those things say, and yes, I'm the father. The plan of action is to take another test next week and then to contact planned parenthood as to what our options are. It's really too soon for both of us to have a kid, and plus if she's having feelings for her ex then wtf would I want a kid with a girl like that for? Also, I've known the girl for 3 years so it's not like we just met...feelings have been around from the past for her and for me...
She told me all about everything, and was honest about the whole situation, which I appreciated, and we had cleared everything up as of Saturday night. I asked her if she had anything else to tell me, and she told me no. So I go home with her, we watch "The Ring" which is a taaaaaaadddddddd bit trippy, and then goto sleep. We get up, get breakfast, and she goes back to lay down...I come up and ask her how she's feeling, and she says that we have to talk again, and proceeds to tell me that over the past few days some feelings for her ex have come back. How much does it hurt to hear a girl say "I Love You but I Love Mike too" man that fvcking killed right there.
Anyways, she was basically confused as to what she wants, doesn't know if me and her rushed into this, doesn't know if she wants to be with him, or doesn't know if she wants to be single. It's a whooooole big mess, and she was basically looking for me to try to help her through. The best thing that came to my head was for her to take some time away from everybody. I was thinking something more like a vacation, but she just chose to see that me and the ex don't contact her in any way for a week (until next Sunday.)
So here I sit, wondering what to do for a week, wondering if she's playing me to be with the ex (which I doubt...I hope), and just plain wondering if this is really all worth my wondering....The thought of losing her back to the ex would just plain kill me since I've heard of everything he's put her through, and just the thought of losing her in general really hurts. It's been a nice 10 weeks that we've been together, probably some of the best weeks of my life, and to have that all taken away would just make me
So yeah, that's my rant...any ideas on what I can do to keep busy and STOP worrying about if she's with the ex or not?
Edit for some Clarification:
She took some cheap-o CVS pregnancy test on Wednesday, and it came up Positive or Pregnant or whatever the fvck those things say, and yes, I'm the father. The plan of action is to take another test next week and then to contact planned parenthood as to what our options are. It's really too soon for both of us to have a kid, and plus if she's having feelings for her ex then wtf would I want a kid with a girl like that for? Also, I've known the girl for 3 years so it's not like we just met...feelings have been around from the past for her and for me...
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