YAGT: Or when hell falls on you

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Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: 91TTZ
After all that, you can finally understand why you see sluts getting killed when they go on vacation. They act like sneaky little whores and get themselves in trouble.

That's why you need to keep them on a short leash. The guys who say how "confident" they are, are really clueless. This stuff happens behind your back. You can't trust anyone.

You need professional help :Q
 
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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
After all that, you can finally understand why you see sluts getting killed when they go on vacation. They act like sneaky little whores and get themselves in trouble.

That's why you need to keep them on a short leash. The guys who say how "confident" they are, are really clueless. This stuff happens behind your back. You can't trust anyone.

You need professional help :Q

QFT

there is hate in this one...
 

CVSiN

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
After all that, you can finally understand why you see sluts getting killed when they go on vacation. They act like sneaky little whores and get themselves in trouble.

That's why you need to keep them on a short leash. The guys who say how "confident" they are, are really clueless. This stuff happens behind your back. You can't trust anyone.

You need professional help :Q

I agree.. you guys need help... thats not a healthy attitude..
 

Majesty

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Originally posted by: AdamSnow
Your last 10 years werent lived for 'nothig' ...

Sure, you lost your girlfriend... From how you described her - your better off without her.

Everything you learnt over the past 10 years, all the stuff you experianced, moving up in the work world, etc. are all worth living for... put her behind you, get a new job, go buy yourself something you've always wanted and realize how much better you are without her in your life... Soon a good one will come along :)

Well, in fact, it slipped my mind, but I got a new job less than a week after I got back at my parents' house.
 

Patt

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I am happy for you that it is over, and you don't have to live with an unhappy, unfaithful, deceitful b!tch anymore. It hurts, but you'll move on, and realize you're better for it. Experience the world of other women, they're not all like that, trust me, I have a ring to prove it, and gone on 4 years and it has never been better.

Good luck OP.
 

psteng19

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Originally posted by: Cal166
FYI:
The Keyboard you sold me a couple of years ago for $5 died a year after. :D

Thanks again for the great deal

I don't remember selling you a keyboard.
Even checked your heat and mine.
Perhaps you have the wrong person? :confused:
 

Aimster

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I would make another YAGT but ive already made like 100.

Just let me tell you that you are not alone.

I havent' slept in a week. Depressed and just doing a lot of thinking.
Not easy planning your life with someone forever and then out of the blue them leaving you.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: Majesty
I can't belive my last ten years were lived for... nothing.

That's the key, right there. I used to think that too. However, my wild anger on my similar subject drives me to better my life - to give myself and someone else everything that she wanted in life that she's going to subconsciously keep running from when she gets comfortable.

Take your happy memories and cherrish them because that's all that the last 10 years will give you, besides that last moment when it ended. Use that last moment to turn those happy memories into "it's all lies" and let that feed your hurt, pain, suffering, anger, and every other abrasive emotion that you can muster and let THAT result be your motivation.

You will find yourself much stronger and better than you ever were with her.

When the pain and anger subsides, when you just don't give a fvck anymore, you can either choose to let bitterness replace the dying hatred that used to motivate you or you can try your hand again at love if you're willing to make yourself vulnerable again.

Either way, you're going to kick ass and chew bubble gum. :thumbsup: While it's a sad thing to happen, I love watching people rise from the wreckage of life with stronger, better, with stronger resolve than their miserable rut they were in before.
 

revnja

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Wow. That's almost exactly like my story. I'm sorry man. I went through something VERY similar and it wasn't pleasant to say the least. Just take some time for yourself and do something that'll make you happy.
 

Majesty

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Thank you gals/guys for your encouraging words. I won't give up. I didn't deserve what my ex did, but I must go on. I still expect some explanations in the future (6 months, 1 year... <shrugs> ) . She told me she wanted to stay my friend. Maybe in the future, maybe not. Only time will tell and time is the best healer out there.

EDIT: Removed a wink.