YAGT: No more sex...for awhile...

[bolido2000]

Originally posted by: Moonbeam
We don't love ourselves so we don't believe we are loved for ourselves. Even worse, one would have to be a fool to love us. That is our feeling. Naturally since we feel it we took it to be true and naturally assumed I intended it as such.

hmmm I like it.

 

[yoda291]

Originally posted by: Renob
but now she doesn't want to have sex anymore until she finds a different contraceptive

Dude sounds like BS to me you can have all kinds of sex without intercorse.
Sound like there is more to the story she is not tell you.


Dump her.

You could try rhythm. It's, I think, the only contraceptive the Catholic church doesn't have a problem with too! But, IIRC, it involves lots of temperature taking, charts, graphs, math,etc.

Also, alcohol will retard your ability to get mini-gigolo up and running.

 

[AvesPKS]

I guess you're not sponge-worthy anymore.

I think I get what Moonbeam's saying, too. It's all about insecurity.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: 4Lclovergirl
depoprovera, one shot every 3 months. Best part is, after awhile she doesn't get her female friend anymore. There are side effects that need to be looked into though.

"side effects" is an understatement. Turned one of my best friends in highschool into a fvcking raging BITCH almost instantly. :Q

 

[Lore]

Originally posted by: bolido2000

Originally posted by: styelers
theres depo (the shot) dont like the side effects, and wouldn't recommend it unless the person is quite active. might gain some weight if she doesn't exericse. the patch (forgot the name), you stick it on near your butt not sure of the side effects. recommend the pill, more how long has she been on the pill? it takes awhile to get used to it. benefits of the pill shorter periods and its always on time. the pill also comes in different hormones, should inquire the doc on which pill would be better. i hate taking the pills myself just because i hate taking pills in general, but i like the benefits of it. great for the face also!

What do u mean by great for the face??
Me and my gf have been using the pullout method for a while ......she's going to the doctor today to ask about the pill.

I believe most birth control pills help with acne (a side effect, albeit a positive one).

 

[MithShrike]

MichaelD's Girlfriend, and MichaelD of course.[/quote]

LMAO!

 

[cmv]

Remember that your other girlfriends, Lefty and Righty, are always available for service .

 

[ProviaFan]

Originally posted by: conjur

Originally posted by: Moonbeam
We don't love ourselves so we don't believe we are loved for ourselves. Even worse, one would have to be a fool to love us.

Guess I have two fools that love me. Trouble is, they're both attached to my arms.

LMAO.

 

[Tetsuo]

Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Amazing. looks like you and Palmila will be spending more time together.

BAH HA!
as for my response...i dont know what to say

 

[d33pt]

my gf is on depo and it did kill her sex drive..

 

[Moonbeam]

xirtam: A true follower of the path recognizes the path as both the ends and the means. (The path that leads into being ends when 'I am" Being is being, everything without division) If the millions of paths in life lead nowhere, then by following the path for the sole purpose of the end is merely setting one up for disappointment. (Precisely why there are a million paths that lead nowhere. In being the heart is alive) (This is the path of surrender that leads to being, not being itself) Choose the path that extends forever toward the horizon, and find contentment in the path itself. (To fall in love with the path is not to arrive) For discontent breeds internal emotional recession and loss of identity. (It is discontent that surrender conquers. The delusion of duality) A path without a goal may seem to the goal-oriented to be a purposeless path, but that which is truly important in life is truly goal oriented. (There is no goal, no orientation and no bath. There is only being) For of what importance is a goal once completed? It is but a moment in the past, a milestone, a place where one says, "There I was," yet the path continues on. (Yes, except when the goal has turned to being) Choosing the path which has a heart is not the same as the path which has a goal or a definite end. (How true) For the heart of a path beats eternally, in the same sense that the true path continues eternally. (Being is filled with being and nothing else but being. Being is the end of time What is the path that leads to where you have always been?)

 

[tm37]

Originally posted by: GermyBoy
Dude, respect her for that opinion. When my gf once asked me if I was in the relationship for sex, I went 3 months without it. Taylor helped a bit...lol. But she believes me now. I want her for her.





Good luck to you.

Who's taylor?

 

[Isla]

Originally posted by: americangigolo
my girlfriend has been on birth control pills but she doesn't like the way they make her feel (glad i'm not a woman), so she's giving them up. i use the condoms, she uses birth control. but now she doesn't want to have sex anymore until she finds a different contraceptive. that's ok i guess, she's asked me multiple times if i was in the relationship just for sex

but now maybe she'll believe me. anyone's girlfriend (or any girls! hehe) use a different contaceptive?

ROTFLMAO

heh...

Sorry.

 

[dquan97]

How about Natural Family Planning?

 

[her209]

Vasectomy.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: Moonbeam
xirtam: A true follower of the path recognizes the path as both the ends and the means. (The path that leads into being ends when 'I am" Being is being, everything without division) If the millions of paths in life lead nowhere, then by following the path for the sole purpose of the end is merely setting one up for disappointment. (Precisely why there are a million paths that lead nowhere. In being the heart is alive) (This is the path of surrender that leads to being, not being itself) Choose the path that extends forever toward the horizon, and find contentment in the path itself. (To fall in love with the path is not to arrive) For discontent breeds internal emotional recession and loss of identity. (It is discontent that surrender conquers. The delusion of duality) A path without a goal may seem to the goal-oriented to be a purposeless path, but that which is truly important in life is truly goal oriented. (There is no goal, no orientation and no bath. There is only being) For of what importance is a goal once completed? It is but a moment in the past, a milestone, a place where one says, "There I was," yet the path continues on. (Yes, except when the goal has turned to being) Choosing the path which has a heart is not the same as the path which has a goal or a definite end. (How true) For the heart of a path beats eternally, in the same sense that the true path continues eternally. (Being is filled with being and nothing else but being. Being is the end of time What is the path that leads to where you have always been?)

Huh? Cliff notes for the ADD impaired please Moonie?

 

[silverpig]

There are other... "options'

 

[Krugger]

Originally posted by: Renob
but now she doesn't want to have sex anymore until she finds a different contraceptive Dude sounds like BS to me you can have all kinds of sex without intercorse. Sound like there is more to the story she is not tell you. Dump her.

you guys dont understand girls at all do you... do u have any idea what the pill and hormones and all that do to women? if it's not the right pill for her, than it can do all kinds of bad things. when she feels like crap, and all sorts of issues are going on, of course she's not gonna be interested in sex, of any sort. to say something else is going on, dump her, is plain stupid advice. stick by her, and let her get healthy and happy again, and things will be fine. she'll eventually find the one that's right for her.

 

[Moonbeam]

Just goofing around Geekbabe. xirtam likes it when I talk dirty. I'm a great believer in discussing that for which there are no words with verbal abandon. Nothing much ever happens anyway till one is at the end of his rope. One rope ends in absurdity.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: Moonbeam
Just goofing around Geekbabe. xirtam likes it when I talk dirty. I'm a great believer in discussing that for which there are no words with verbal abandon. Nothing much ever happens anyway till one is at the end of his rope. One rope ends in absurdity.

Lol, I thought being at the end of a rope usually meant an old fashioned hanging.... though come to think of it it would appear that the OP has indeed been left hanging here wouldn't it?

I gotta get off this rotating shift schedule,lol!

 

[jsalpha2]

"she's asked me multiple times if i was in the relationship just for sex "
Look her right in the eye and say "no baby , your not as good as my secretary anyway."

 

[Lola]

Originally posted by: ElFenix

Originally posted by: ActPrincess

Originally posted by: eakers
the patch is out now.

and it is the best invention since sliced bread!!!

how hard is it to get off? i mean, since it doesn't come off from regular bathing, etc...

Not hard at all. it feels like a band aid, but its paper thin and the best part is you dont have to worry about remembering to take a pill everyday at the same time. Its more fool-proof.

 

[xirtam]

Moonbeam: The path that leads into being ends when 'I am" Being is being, everything without division A path cannot be the source of being, and hence cannot "lead into being." Were that the case, a path would be a method of reproduction, or at the minimal, production. Rather, the existence of a path is inconsequential if no rational beings are able to seek self-actualization upon the path. This is the path of surrender that leads to being, not being itself More so the path that leads to a new state of being, for one cannot begin upon a path without being in some form. Rational agents must be in act in order to follow upon a path. To fall in love with the path is not to arrive It is to at least arrive to the start of the path. Whether or not one begins upon the path is a seperate choice. It is discontent that surrender conquers Surrender does conquer discontentment, but at cost. For other emotions are at play with any act of surrender. One may become nonchalant, caloused, or fall victim to an unhealthy low self-esteem. There is no goal, no orientation and no bath. There is only being These things are displayed as attributes of being. They are present only as contingent qualities of being, and not as predisposed actualities. For of what importance is a goal once completed? It is but a moment in the past, a milestone, a place where one says, "There I was," yet the path continues on. (Yes, except when the goal has turned to being) The path may not turn to being, although it might provoke questions that challenge the core of being. For if the purpose of the path is to establish being in act from potential contingent causes, it fails as the path, because the path is determined with not just the presence of being, but the development thereof. Being is filled with being and nothing else but being. Being is the end of time What is the path that leads to where you have always been? Being is filled with essence. For it is one thing to say that a thing exists, it is quite another to say that it exists as something , as if, by a priori knowledge, one might establish that there is more than one kind of being, say contingent versus necessary. As far as "Being" being the end of time, the statement requires the generation of an establishment of time, which is nothing more than an observation of the potential contingencies assigned to "Being" in act. For being is not the end of time, per se. Rather, the presence of being itself establishes cognizance of a sequence of activities, a chronological set of events, as it were, that defines "time." Furthermore, it is true that perhaps the path leads one to where he was before. But this should not be perceived as a disappointment, for what is a racetrack except a path that ends where it starts? Ultimately, it is not as much the path itself which defines being, or the individual path, but rather, it is the method in which rational agents develop along the path that defines how their being, both collectively and individually, is shaped. So in essence, it's a path circumscribed inside the path, which might be misconstrued as an integral part of the path, but rather is individually developed by each rational agent along the path as his own personal "path toward the path." These individual branches might take one or many forms, and perhaps in summation accounts for more significance than the path itself.

 

[AntaresVI]

Originally posted by: xirtam
Moonbeam: The path that leads into being ends when 'I am" Being is being, everything without division A path cannot be the source of being, and hence cannot "lead into being." Were that the case, a path would be a method of reproduction, or at the minimal, production. Rather, the existence of a path is inconsequential if no rational beings are able to seek self-actualization upon the path. This is the path of surrender that leads to being, not being itself More so the path that leads to a new state of being, for one cannot begin upon a path without being in some form. Rational agents must be in act in order to follow upon a path. To fall in love with the path is not to arrive It is to at least arrive to the start of the path. Whether or not one begins upon the path is a seperate choice. It is discontent that surrender conquers Surrender does conquer discontentment, but at cost. For other emotions are at play with any act of surrender. One may become nonchalant, caloused, or fall victim to an unhealthy low self-esteem. There is no goal, no orientation and no bath. There is only being These things are displayed as attributes of being. They are present only as contingent qualities of being, and not as predisposed actualities. For of what importance is a goal once completed? It is but a moment in the past, a milestone, a place where one says, "There I was," yet the path continues on. (Yes, except when the goal has turned to being) The path may not turn to being, although it might provoke questions that challenge the core of being. For if the purpose of the path is to establish being in act from potential contingent causes, it fails as the path, because the path is determined with not just the presence of being, but the development thereof. Being is filled with being and nothing else but being. Being is the end of time What is the path that leads to where you have always been? Being is filled with essence. For it is one thing to say that a thing exists, it is quite another to say that it exists as something , as if, by a priori knowledge, one might establish that there is more than one kind of being, say contingent versus necessary. As far as "Being" being the end of time, the statement requires the generation of an establishment of time, which is nothing more than an observation of the potential contingencies assigned to "Being" in act. For being is not the end of time, per se. Rather, the presence of being itself establishes cognizance of a sequence of activities, a chronological set of events, as it were, that defines "time." Furthermore, it is true that perhaps the path leads one to where he was before. But this should not be perceived as a disappointment, for what is a racetrack except a path that ends where it starts? Ultimately, it is not as much the path itself which defines being, or the individual path, but rather, it is the method in which rational agents develop along the path that defines how their being, both collectively and individually, is shaped. So in essence, it's a path circumscribed inside the path, which might be misconstrued as an integral part of the path, but rather is individually developed by each rational agent along the path as his own personal "path toward the path." These individual branches might take one or many forms, and perhaps in summation accounts for more significance than the path itself.

that's about the most confusingest thing i've evar seen. Pluse, its density index is off the caboose.

 

[ILikeStuff]

Originally posted by: Moonbeam
We don't love ourselves so we don't believe we are loved for ourselves. Even worse, one would have to be a fool to love us. That is our feeling. Naturally since we feel it we took it to be true and naturally assumed I intended it as such.

Man, I'm very afraid right now because I'll have to go w/ Moonie on this one. Women who have very little self worth will not believe that anyone, especially anyone of character and substance, will love them... they are usually the ones who stay w/ the guys that beat them and push away the ones who are good to them.