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Stark

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there will come a day, when youth will pass away (dobedo)
what will they say about you?

When the end comes we'll know you were just a gigolo... life goes on without you.
 

Ernieb

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Originally posted by: Moonbeam
We don't love ourselves so we don't believe we are loved for ourselves. Even worse, one would have to be a fool to love us.

like your quote
 

Brutuskend

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Originally posted by: MichaelD
Originally posted by: LikeLinus
Originally posted by: 4Lclovergirl
depoprovera, one shot every 3 months. Best part is, after awhile she doesn't get her female friend anymore. There are side effects that need to be looked into though.

My wife did this...NOT a good thing for everyone. I don't remember her side effects, but she hated it.


The main side effect are mood swings so violent, they'll make her former-self look positively angelic. I dated a woman that got the shot. For the first two weeks afterwards, she was flat-out dangerous to be around. Growling, snapping, scratching and biting...and that was when she was happy.

The shot is bad.

MichaelD's Girlfriend, and MichaelD of course.
 

cliftonite

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Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Originally posted by: MichaelD
Originally posted by: LikeLinus
Originally posted by: 4Lclovergirl
depoprovera, one shot every 3 months. Best part is, after awhile she doesn't get her female friend anymore. There are side effects that need to be looked into though.

My wife did this...NOT a good thing for everyone. I don't remember her side effects, but she hated it.


The main side effect are mood swings so violent, they'll make her former-self look positively angelic. I dated a woman that got the shot. For the first two weeks afterwards, she was flat-out dangerous to be around. Growling, snapping, scratching and biting...and that was when she was happy.

The shot is bad.

MichaelD's Girlfriend, and MichaelD of course.

Haha, nice :D
 

clamum

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Originally posted by: LordThing
Originally posted by: 4Lclovergirl
depoprovera, one shot every 3 months. Best part is, after awhile she doesn't get her female friend anymore. There are side effects that need to be looked into though.

I will recomend that one too. My GF has been on that for over a year. No problems, no period, even covered under alot of medical insurance where the pill is not.

hmmm. maybe i'll look into that. yeah condoms aren't enough (or are they?) as someone above posted, we are trying to be sure not to have an "accident." considering we're both 20 years old, it wouldn't be a necessarily welcomed thing to have happen. do condoms break or have you heard of someone's breaking? seems kinda doubtful but i'm sure it must happen to some people.
 

KK

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Just pull out right before, you should be good to go. No contraceptives needed. Problem solved.

KK
 

Fausto

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Originally posted by: KK
Just pull out right before, you should be good to go. No contraceptives needed. Problem solved.

KK
Dumbest. Advice. Ever.
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clamum

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Originally posted by: KK
Just pull out right before, you should be good to go. No contraceptives needed. Problem solved.

KK

haha :p actually i've done a few times before but hey, what are you gonna do when you don't have any condoms and you both want to have sex? besides not have it but where's the fun in that? heh ;)
 

n0cmonkey

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There are more than just one type of pill. She should talk to her doctor about getting a different one.
 

Ludacris

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When you feel like you are gonna bust one, pull out and put it in her mouth. Problem solved!!!!!!!!!

Seriously though, just buy a few economy packs of condoms and you should be good to go. They are alot cheaper than buying the 3 packs and you can get them at Wal-Mart.
 

themightyplatypus

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hmmm. maybe i'll look into that. yeah condoms aren't enough (or are they?) as someone above posted, we are trying to be sure not to have an "accident." considering we're both 20 years old, it wouldn't be a necessarily welcomed thing to have happen. do condoms break or have you heard of someone's breaking? seems kinda doubtful but i'm sure it must happen to some people.

Yes, condoms can and do break.
 

vi edit

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What about those new patches? Change them out ever week or something like that.
 

dirtboy

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I hate it when women ask if I'm in the relationship for sex. Of course I'm only in the relationship for sex.
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Why else do you think I would put up will all the grief and crap you put me through.
 

n0cmonkey

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Originally posted by: themightyplatypus
hmmm. maybe i'll look into that. yeah condoms aren't enough (or are they?) as someone above posted, we are trying to be sure not to have an "accident." considering we're both 20 years old, it wouldn't be a necessarily welcomed thing to have happen. do condoms break or have you heard of someone's breaking? seems kinda doubtful but i'm sure it must happen to some people.

Yes, condoms can and do break.

And for times like that there is the morning after pill.
 

Ludacris

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There are no 100% garauntees on anything that you may use. Just use the condoms and you should be good to go. Hell, get her to wear a sponge too if you are that worried about it.
 

CADsortaGUY

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Originally posted by: LordThing
Originally posted by: 4Lclovergirl
depoprovera, one shot every 3 months. Best part is, after awhile she doesn't get her female friend anymore. There are side effects that need to be looked into though.

I will recomend that one too. My GF has been on that for over a year. No problems, no period, even covered under alot of medical insurance where the pill is not.

Yup - my wife hasn't had any probs with it either. We did some research before choosing that route though. Some of the horror stories are quite true but in reality are quite rare.

CkG
 
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Originally posted by: Fausto1
Originally posted by: KK
Just pull out right before, you should be good to go. No contraceptives needed. Problem solved.

KK
Dumbest. Advice. Ever.
rolleye.gif

I know four girls who were advocates of the "pull out" method, because they liked the "real feel".
Know what happened?

They all had kids before they turned 16!

Dumbest. Advice. EvAr!

- M4H
 

ExplodingBoy

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you can always get your little guys tied off, kid.

but it sounds like your gf is making excuses and something else is wrong.
 
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Originally posted by: ExplodingBoy
you can always get your little guys tied off, kid.

but it sounds like your gf is making excuses and something else is wrong.

WTF? This guy's how old, and you're advocating neutering him? :confused:

Screw that!

- M4H
 

Kevin

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Originally posted by: Fausto1
Originally posted by: KK
Just pull out right before, you should be good to go. No contraceptives needed. Problem solved.

KK
Dumbest. Advice. Ever.
rolleye.gif

Then wear a condom and pull out. Might calm her nerves...
 

Steve819

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Originally posted by: 4Lclovergirl
depoprovera, one shot every 3 months. Best part is, after awhile she doesn't get her female friend anymore. There are side effects that need to be looked into though.

My gf was on it for 6 months. NOT Recommended. Trust me.

 

theNEOone

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talk to your g/f about an IUD (intra uterine device, me thinks). my g/f has had one for 3 or 4 years, no pills to take, no hormone adjustments, no shots, no side effects (as far as i'm aware of). she went to a gyno, they stuck it in her cervix and it's been there for about 4 years no problem, not maintenance. and it works. we have sex maybe 4-5 times a week and i don't use protection. as of 4/17/03, no pregnancies ::::knocks on wood::::