YAGT: Match day approaching, read her email

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kreactor

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Jan 3, 2005
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i broke into my ex's email when we were still together and discover why she was being shysty ......

she of course raised hell about invasion of privacy yada yada, i only replied
"the end justifies the means" (in this case, her rear end)

in retrospect, i was weak then and did not break up w/ her til 3 yrs later, thru email...
any breach of trust will always surface in any random future arguement,
it's like holding a trump card....BAM!
 

PricklyPete

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Sep 17, 2002
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You've learned your lesson on the reading the emails...so that is good.

I definitely agree from what you said that your girlfriend does not seem ready to make a marriage commitment to you. She seems more concerned with becoming a doctor (which is not necessarily bad). Just support her on wherever her "match" takes her and see what you can do to keep the relationship working.
 

Gulzakar

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Oct 9, 1999
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oh god, she's one of those ultra driven people...

I'm not against a little drive, but if she used the phrase "go-getter", you won't have a happy life. Let her bang jeff, I'd dump the whore.

Imagine a few years after you're both working, have kids, and she decides she needs "more" inlife...she'll divorce you fast.

but thats my opinion.