YAGT: I'm a jerk **UPDATED A THIRD TIME**

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trmiv

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Not yet, tomorrow is the day. I drive race cars, and I was a the races all day today, just got home 10 minutes ago. So I didn't have a chance to even talk to her today.
 

trmiv

Lifer
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So, today at work she keeps text messaging me cheery things, etc. I finally tell her that I am going to need to talk to her later. She asks why. I say that its something best talked about over the phone, that's all I said. Well then she flipped! I get three messages in a row (yes, all caps):

"WHAT IS IT ABOUT? U R SCARING ME! IM SO ABOUT 2 CRY & I DONT KNOW WHY!"

Then

"THANKS 4 TOTALLY FvCKIN UP MY DAY LIKE IT WASNT FvCKED UP ENOUGH!"

and then after I said "That wasnt my intention"

"well u helped & now Im just goin home now I cant deal with this FvCKIN SH!T!"

Oh man, she's getting this worked up after I said I needed to talk to her about something, I can imagine what the real conversation is going to be like. Damn, I think I got a Fatal Attraction on my hands! I'm scared!

 

waylman

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dude, this chick is PSYCHO! Put your update in 1st post also b/c people won't be able to find it.....
Well, at least it's obvious you have to get rid of her....check her for weapons if you decide to do it face to face.
 
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Update it in the first post if you're going to take the time to hit "Edit" and put "Updated" in the title :p

You just need to go over to her place after work and talk to her about it. It doesn't seem like you're trying to string her along or anything but you need to tell her asap before she does something irrational towards you or your property
 

moonshinemadness

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that sucks, maybe you should just get it out of the way now, i know its kinda cruel but not as bad as letting it go on any longer.
 

waitman

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Originally posted by: bunker
I'd talk to the mutual friend about it and see what she has to say. Just tell her exactly what you typed here.
I agree, if you don't want to lose the friend. Tell the friend how you feel about this relationship.

 

Nitemare

Lifer
Feb 8, 2001
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Originally posted by: trmiv
So, today at work she keeps text messaging me cheery things, etc. I finally tell her that I am going to need to talk to her later. She asks why. I say that its something best talked about over the phone, that's all I said. Well then she flipped! I get three messages in a row (yes, all caps):

"WHAT IS IT ABOUT? U R SCARING ME! IM SO ABOUT 2 CRY & I DONT KNOW WHY!"

Then

"THANKS 4 TOTALLY FvCKIN UP MY DAY LIKE IT WASNT FvCKED UP ENOUGH!"

and then after I said "That wasnt my intention"

"well u helped & now Im just goin home now I cant deal with this FvCKIN SH!T!"

Oh man, she's getting this worked up after I said I needed to talk to her about something, I can imagine what the real conversation is going to be like. Damn, I think I got a Fatal Attraction on my hands! I'm scared!

Glad to see that she has not killed you yet, or maybe she has and is browsing ATOT...in that case we didn't like him anyway and please don't kill us too.

 

trmiv

Lifer
Oct 10, 1999
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Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: trmiv
So, today at work she keeps text messaging me cheery things, etc. I finally tell her that I am going to need to talk to her later. She asks why. I say that its something best talked about over the phone, that's all I said. Well then she flipped! I get three messages in a row (yes, all caps):

"WHAT IS IT ABOUT? U R SCARING ME! IM SO ABOUT 2 CRY & I DONT KNOW WHY!"

Then

"THANKS 4 TOTALLY FvCKIN UP MY DAY LIKE IT WASNT FvCKED UP ENOUGH!"

and then after I said "That wasnt my intention"

"well u helped & now Im just goin home now I cant deal with this FvCKIN SH!T!"

Oh man, she's getting this worked up after I said I needed to talk to her about something, I can imagine what the real conversation is going to be like. Damn, I think I got a Fatal Attraction on my hands! I'm scared!

Glad to see that she has not killed you yet, or maybe she has and is browsing ATOT...in that case we didn't like him anyway and please don't kill us too.


LOL, I'm still alive and kickin. Although I did get the obligatory "post druken call I'm sorry email" last night. That was fun.
 

TheCorm

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It sounds like she is a real nutcase...well to put it nicely...and more descriptively...she has issues namely she is very insecure, over emotional and too intense.

You are best out of there....that reaction to that text reminded me of a girl I dated at the start of the year who started crying over nothing on the phone...like if I said something that wasn't 100% to her liking and then texting me stuff going on about why did I like her when I thought she was fat......and I was left thinking...what the fuck....

It didn't last long though....thank fvck....she wanted to stay friends but she kept pi$$ing me off so I deleted all evidence of her from my life and blocked her both phone wise, email and messenger!

Jamie
 

trmiv

Lifer
Oct 10, 1999
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Originally posted by: TheCorm

You are best out of there....that reaction to that text reminded me of a girl I dated at the start of the year who started crying over nothing on the phone...like if I said something that wasn't 100% to her liking and then texting me stuff going on about why did I like her when I thought she was fat......and I was left thinking...what the fuck....

Jamie

LOL, wow does that sound familiar! Thats exactly how this girl was. If I said something that wasn't completely reassuring she was like "What did I do wrong?" "Do you not like me?" "I screwed up didn't I?" "Why don't you like me?" Talk about a little insecure.

 

geckojohn

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I would try to get out of this relationship as quick as possible, but try to stay on "friendly" terms with her. She is way too emotional for you and this is only going to get worse as the relationship progresses.
 

Storm

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Why did you sleep with her the first time you met her?

Thats idiotic because you dont know ANYTHING about the person. Its just not smart :(
 

trmiv

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Storm
Why did you sleep with her the first time you met her?

Thats idiotic because you dont know ANYTHING about the person. Its just not smart :(

Yep, figured that one out now. Live and learn I guess.

 

TheCorm

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Originally posted by: trmiv
Originally posted by: Storm
Why did you sleep with her the first time you met her?

Thats idiotic because you dont know ANYTHING about the person. Its just not smart :(

Yep, figured that one out now. Live and learn I guess.

I did exactly the same with that girl....it seems to be a common thing...got me to start thinking with the noggin more...as opposed to something else...