Originally posted by: TekChik
Originally posted by: hopeless879
This is like a YAGT from Bizarro World. Most YAGT's are about getting the girl, you're trying to lose one.
lmao
ok...from a GIRL's point of view (AND i have a child to boot, so i totally know this chik's situation):
when you're a single parent, you don't have a lot of time or energy to waste on bullshit. i'd be totally upfront with her, tell her you thought it wouldn't bother you but it does, you're a jerk, but that you don't want to lose her as a friend OR your mutual friends. if you express wanting to remain friends because you think she's a cool person, you're just not ready for the whole serious relationship thing, that'll make her feel not so $hitty. I just wouldn't want someone to lead me on. Single parents are strong people - we can handle anything as long as we get all the facts (unless she's a crazed lunatic, then you're on your own).
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