You are 100% right yowolabi. I told her she has no one but herself to blame for it. I brought up how 4 days earlier i told her she doesn't need him as a friend and he shouldn't go to her bday part next week, she said "i don't know what the big deal is." SHe didn't deserve this, but she brought it on herself.
The restraining order is for 30 days and end of this month she goes to court to make it 3 years. Hopefully she is serious about it and won't null the order a few months from now just to see him.
I made sure she was ok, i helped her witht he court house to make sure she got it and sucks to be alone there, now she is on her own.
yups! and it wasn't just the txt cuz that alone could be a lot of things like she is drunka nd needs a ride home from somewhere lol. it was the call that went through and i heard the fighting and a stuggle before the phone went dead
It sounds like you have your head on straight then. I guess this experience will help you spot the warning signs for a troubled girl that you shouldn't even try to get close to. Someone has to learn the hard way so that other people can read about their experiences and learn the easy way. Sucks that you had to take one for the team.
BrokenVisage
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Damn man, the REAL Billy Bats would've made sure this guy needed a hearse instead of the ambulance.
GuitarDaddy
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Let me give you some friendly advice. Give her support if you want to, feel you need to, or whatever, but do not get back together with her ever again. Do not do this.
I've been cheated on and cheated. I've snooped e-mails only to confirm an affair. I've gotten dumped to only have the ex monitor my driveway and get pissed three days later when she saw something she didn't like. I've also made amends when I've wronged woman I've loved.
Let me tell you this. If someone cheats and isn't down on their knees and made to pay a penance they will always cheat. Once you know you can get away with it it's much easier to do the next time.
People who hang around with crazies and refuse to work through their own craziness are not worth the time. They will only bring you down. Honestly, if you like crazies most of the gals at sanitariums are most likely single, but seriously don't be a freak.
Driving by someones house when you are suspicious is completely normal. The fact that she has let you feel this way and you're smart enough to act on it is to be expected. The fact that she is fooling around behind your back and is making you to be the bad guy is wrong. You should not tolerate a guilt trip on this. You are wrong to even let her try.
Seriously- walk away now or in a month, but don't be stupid. There are so many other fish in the sea.
-Reader
I've been cheated on and cheated. I've snooped e-mails only to confirm an affair. I've gotten dumped to only have the ex monitor my driveway and get pissed three days later when she saw something she didn't like. I've also made amends when I've wronged woman I've loved.
Let me tell you this. If someone cheats and isn't down on their knees and made to pay a penance they will always cheat. Once you know you can get away with it it's much easier to do the next time.
People who hang around with crazies and refuse to work through their own craziness are not worth the time. They will only bring you down. Honestly, if you like crazies most of the gals at sanitariums are most likely single, but seriously don't be a freak.
Driving by someones house when you are suspicious is completely normal. The fact that she has let you feel this way and you're smart enough to act on it is to be expected. The fact that she is fooling around behind your back and is making you to be the bad guy is wrong. You should not tolerate a guilt trip on this. You are wrong to even let her try.
Seriously- walk away now or in a month, but don't be stupid. There are so many other fish in the sea.
-Reader
Man, me and my gf are going through a rough time about religion (im indian christian, she is russian jew) and i thought we had problems.. but guess not.
I don't know which is more BS. The part where he walked into the knife, or the part where she claims he was just sleeping on the couch. LOL
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