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tfinch2

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Food class eh?

Tell her to come over to your house after school and sample some of your sausage.
 

Pepsei

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Originally posted by: InlineFour
i wish girls showed us more clues if they are interested in us. then we'd know to attack or look elsewhere.

er, hello, are you blind? she's obviously interested in you. if you've never talked to her before and she suddenly flirts with you? is there like a dance coming up?
 

SparkyJJO

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Originally posted by: InlineFour
i'll see how things go after a week or so. also, anyone here who's also a late bloomer? (never had a girl friend until you were 18+)

yeah I'm 18 almost 19 never had and still don't have a gf, o well.....
 

InlineFour

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Originally posted by: deftron
Ask her if she wants you to put frosting on her cupcakes





Then, you'll know

lol, unfortunately i don't see her before foods class. FVCK, i don't even know if she's single.
 

InlineFour

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Originally posted by: SparkyJJO
Originally posted by: InlineFour
i'll see how things go after a week or so. also, anyone here who's also a late bloomer? (never had a girl friend until you were 18+)

yeah I'm 18 almost 19 never had and still don't have a gf, o well.....

i feel your pain brotha. :heart: are you extremely shy like me?
 

tfinch2

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Originally posted by: InlineFour
Originally posted by: SparkyJJO
Originally posted by: InlineFour
i'll see how things go after a week or so. also, anyone here who's also a late bloomer? (never had a girl friend until you were 18+)

yeah I'm 18 almost 19 never had and still don't have a gf, o well.....

i feel your pain brotha. :heart: are you extremely shy like me?

I WAS extremely shy, but I finally saw the light around 16. It was either get over it or be doomed to be a virgin.

It's not as bad as you think talking to outsiders. Go for it.
 

SparkyJJO

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Originally posted by: InlineFour
Originally posted by: SparkyJJO
Originally posted by: InlineFour
i'll see how things go after a week or so. also, anyone here who's also a late bloomer? (never had a girl friend until you were 18+)

yeah I'm 18 almost 19 never had and still don't have a gf, o well.....

i feel your pain brotha. :heart: are you extremely shy like me?

not quite, I have several friends that are girls but nothing more than that

o well, in some ways its better, since I'm in college and all, gotta keep my GPA up to be able to afford school so one less distraction might not be a bad thing after all
 

EvilYoda

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I decided to play the "putz" card today...asked a girl out with the opening line of "so a little bird told me that you like movies" (coworker of hers had mentioned it)...

But it's easier since I was fairly sure she was interested when we first met two weeks ago. Movie next week!
 

hypn0tik

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Originally posted by: InlineFour
Originally posted by: deftron
Ask her if she wants you to put frosting on her cupcakes





Then, you'll know

lol, unfortunately i don't see her before foods class. FVCK, i don't even know if she's single.

Wow. You totally missed that one.

By "frosting" he meant semen. Care to guess what he meant by cupcakes?
 

mrSHEiK124

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Originally posted by: Zeeky Boogy Doog
tell her you'll get her a cupcake friday night after she has dinner with you.

Wow, sounds good. First constructive advice I've ever seen in a YAGT.
 

InlineFour

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Originally posted by: hypn0tik
Originally posted by: InlineFour
Originally posted by: deftron
Ask her if she wants you to put frosting on her cupcakes





Then, you'll know

lol, unfortunately i don't see her before foods class. FVCK, i don't even know if she's single.

Wow. You totally missed that one.

By "frosting" he meant semen. Care to guess what he meant by cupcakes?

yeah, i'm a n00b. =\
 

NutBucket

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Originally posted by: sheik124
Originally posted by: Zeeky Boogy Doog
tell her you'll get her a cupcake friday night after she has dinner with you.

Wow, sounds good. First constructive advice I've ever seen in a YAGT.
Yeah, that's definitely a good line:)
 

suse920

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Originally posted by: tfinch2
Originally posted by: InlineFour
Originally posted by: SparkyJJO
Originally posted by: InlineFour
i'll see how things go after a week or so. also, anyone here who's also a late bloomer? (never had a girl friend until you were 18+)

yeah I'm 18 almost 19 never had and still don't have a gf, o well.....

i feel your pain brotha. :heart: are you extremely shy like me?

I WAS extremely shy, but I finally saw the light around 16. It was either get over it or be doomed to be a virgin.

It's not as bad as you think talking to outsiders. Go for it.


woot woot
 

MartyMcFly3

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Originally posted by: dopcombo
Originally posted by: InlineFour
Originally posted by: Juno
Originally posted by: InlineFour
Originally posted by: Juno
are you...in high school?

12th grade

ok, grab your man's card and be courageous to give her some food.

"hope you enjoy the food i baked. are you available this weekend so we can hang out sometimes? it'd be nice if you generally accept my offer."

something like that..

that's a giant leap asking her to hang out, for me at least. i don't know what's with me. the feel of rejection? i don't know.


ZOMG? George McFly? Is that you?

Oh hell no! Even MY dad had some game. :p
 

amicold

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Originally posted by: hypn0tik
Originally posted by: InlineFour
i wish girls showed us more clues if they are interested in us. then we'd know to attack or look elsewhere.

Make sure you don't flash your whole team.

Nah, women are the same with us. They aren't sure if they should keep flirting or what. Women are messed up though. Stay away, you'll get AIDS, an STD, your heart broken, or time wasted.

There's a very small chance you'll stay with her for the rest of your life.
 

SparkyJJO

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Originally posted by: amicold
Originally posted by: hypn0tik
Originally posted by: InlineFour
i wish girls showed us more clues if they are interested in us. then we'd know to attack or look elsewhere.

Make sure you don't flash your whole team.

Nah, women are the same with us. They aren't sure if they should keep flirting or what. Women are messed up though. Stay away, you'll get AIDS, an STD, your heart broken, or time wasted.

There's a very small chance you'll stay with her for the rest of your life.

you sure seem to have a cynical outlook on life :confused:
 

SokaMoka

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The line about cupcakes after dinner is a very good and not so direct, stick with that.
Oh an LOL @ the frosting idea that could get you on the pervert list ;)

Look I had pretty ****** experiences with GF s and I pretty much can't stand girls anymore and could care less about getting a GF from this point forward, however you are still new in the game and things might turn out good for you hopefully.

Advice # 1 : Don't build castles in the sky!

Go in as a WINNER but at the same time expect loss and be prepared for it, be prepared for rejection.

You see my point here ? Try your best, keep your self-esteem up BUT don't shred your man card for her, and if she likes you for who you are then good otherwise she isn't worth it and it ENDS THERE DON'T GO ANY DEEPER INTO IT !
Know that when you make a move she is supposed to do the next, otherwise she doesn't have any sense of reciprocity.
Don't EVER be the one that is supposed to make all the moves!
She showed some interest in you and that is all good, now it's your job to make the next move and try to ask her out or something, now her next move after that is to be direct with you to either accept or allude it, this is the dirty part if she is like most girls she will take you through mazes and try to put a sht load of excuses up there, otherwise she will accept and will be straight forward with you if she only has intention to be friends with you.
From this point you will for sure need to look at Advice #2.

Advice # 2 : Recognize the "Friend's Zone" miles away.

An extremely useful website would be :
THIS
With emphasis on this article.

Good Luck and I hope you don't end up with FVKED UP experiences like mine. :)
 

InlineFour

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here's something i don't get or maybe i just have low self esteem. i don't look like the next brad pitt, but i don't look like obese jared, i'm just... average. i never really had the intention to woo this girl. what makes her interested in me? if she really is interested.

i guess this is one of those, there are a lot of hot chicks out there that you find attractive, but for some reason, you're only attracted to this one girl.