YAGT: help this complete noob

InlineFour

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when it comes to talking with girls, i'm extremely shy. i rarely talk to girls at school, yet alone after school. i've always "kinda" liked this girl at school but was never brave enough to talk to her. today, however, she started to have a conversation with me. we talked for a little until class started. since i have a foods class before this hour, she always started out the conversation with something about foods, such as "what did you make for me today". later in the day, i saw her again in the halls (halls were empty, just me and her) and she was like "you better bring me some cupcakes tommorow". so does this girl show interest in me? i'm completely cluess when it comes to girl. i'm 18 btw just to show you how worthless i am. :(

the next day:
i had the muffin sitting on my desk and when she came in she was like "OH, you made me muffins!" then we talked for a little. most importantly, she was laughing and smiling when we talked. :) i asked her how did it taste, she said they tasted great, but honestly, i thought they tasted like sh!t. later i was fiddling with my pen and accidently dropped it. without hesisation, she picked up the pen for me. i didn't ask her on a date because i thought that we didn't know each other well enough to consider a date.
 

Zim Hosein

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Originally posted by: InlineFour
when it comes to talking with girls, i'm extremely shy. i rarely talk to girls at school, yet alone after school. i've always "kinda" liked this girl at school but was never brave enough to talk to her. today, however, she started to have a conversation with me. we talked for a little until class started. since i have a foods class before this hour, she always started out the conversation with something about foods, such as "what did you make for me today". later in the day, i saw her again in the halls (halls were empty, just me and her) and she was like "you better bring me some cupcakes tommorow". so does this girl show interest in me? i'm completely cluess when it comes to girl. i'm 18 btw just to show you how worthless i am. :(

Duh! :p
 

JasonK

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Just unzip your pants, and say the cupcakes are in my pants! come get em!
 

thehstrybean

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Same position. I asked a good friend to prom. I like her, but just accept it as friends right now. Don't forget to be friends, then if you and she want to, take it to the next level...take it easy, be smooth, don't sweat it...
 

clamum

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Sounds like she's at least somewhat interested in you... just relax and flirt back with her. Be yourself, smile, make her laugh.
 

Kadarin

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It certainly does sound like she's interested.. Now it's up to you to show confidence and charm.
 

Juno

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Originally posted by: InlineFour
Originally posted by: Juno
are you...in high school?

12th grade

ok, grab your man's card and be courageous to give her some food.

"hope you enjoy the food i baked. are you available this weekend so we can hang out sometimes? it'd be nice if you generally accept my offer."

something like that..
 

Pepsei

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Originally posted by: Zeeky Boogy Doog
tell her you'll get her a cupcake friday night after she has dinner with you.

hmmm, this is a winning pickup line... use it.
 

InlineFour

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Originally posted by: Juno
Originally posted by: InlineFour
Originally posted by: Juno
are you...in high school?

12th grade

ok, grab your man's card and be courageous to give her some food.

"hope you enjoy the food i baked. are you available this weekend so we can hang out sometimes? it'd be nice if you generally accept my offer."

something like that..

that's a giant leap asking her to hang out, for me at least. i don't know what's with me. the feel of rejection? i don't know.
 

InlineFour

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i'll see how things go after a week or so. also, anyone here who's also a late bloomer? (never had a girl friend until you were 18+)
 

InlineFour

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i wish girls showed us more clues if they are interested in us. then we'd know to attack or look elsewhere.
 

dopcombo

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Originally posted by: InlineFour
Originally posted by: Juno
Originally posted by: InlineFour
Originally posted by: Juno
are you...in high school?

12th grade

ok, grab your man's card and be courageous to give her some food.

"hope you enjoy the food i baked. are you available this weekend so we can hang out sometimes? it'd be nice if you generally accept my offer."

something like that..

that's a giant leap asking her to hang out, for me at least. i don't know what's with me. the feel of rejection? i don't know.


ZOMG? George McFly? Is that you?
 

hypn0tik

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Originally posted by: InlineFour
i wish girls showed us more clues if they are interested in us. then we'd know to attack or look elsewhere.

Make sure you don't flash your whole team.