YAGT: Going after a girl with a bf? *UPDATE 4*

[SilentZero]

Originally posted by: rhino56
i say go ahead, chances are he is alot like me, id beat you down than take your manhood so you dont go snitching on me. who knows maybe he is me and your talking about my g/f

Yeah but then you would be breaking your parole for beating him down, and would go back to prison and have your manhood taken. Such a vicious cycle.

 

[rhino56]

Originally posted by: SilentZero

Originally posted by: rhino56
i say go ahead, chances are he is alot like me, id beat you down than take your manhood so you dont go snitching on me. who knows maybe he is me and your talking about my g/f

Yeah but then you would be breaking your parole for beating him down, and would go back to prison and have your manhood taken. Such a vicious cycle.

LOL , might as well cut out the middle man and go for the b/f instead lol

 

[SilentZero]

Originally posted by: rhino56

Originally posted by: SilentZero

Originally posted by: rhino56
i say go ahead, chances are he is alot like me, id beat you down than take your manhood so you dont go snitching on me. who knows maybe he is me and your talking about my g/f

Yeah but then you would be breaking your parole for beating him down, and would go back to prison and have your manhood taken. Such a vicious cycle.

LOL , might as well cut out the middle man and go for the b/f instead lol

HAHAHA

 

[OvErHeAtInG]

Originally posted by: AdamSnow
Why do people even need to ask something like this ?

Stay the fvck away dude.

Why do people even ask something like this?
Hit that S**t up dude.

No, seriously, if her current relationship is crap, and you two have something going on, you'd be doing her AND her b/f a favor.

edit - on the other hand if she HAS a good relationship, then respect that and steer clear. A lot depends on how serious she is with this other guy. I mean, it doesn't sound like they're sweethearts since 20 years ago. And, like other people said, women aren't a piece of property, they can make up their own minds. If you're a better guy (for her), she'll make the right choice.

 

[porkbun]

all that matters is if you are serious. the third person is usually not the cause of the break-up; it is at most a catalyst. if the two are doing really well, nothing much can be done to break them up. it is up to the girl to decide what's best for her, but, at the same time, you have to be serious. if she would go to a movie with you, that means something. if she would go to a dinner with you, that means something. if she would not tell her bf that she went out with you, that means even more. that kinda means she's treating her current relationship as open.

 

[Sentinel]

I wouldn't do that unless they weren't serious. Unless of course you don't mind being hit with baseball bats (pillow party)

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: Landroval
Has she shown signs she is intersted in you? Are you going to screw up a good friendship?

HAHA...good friendship. She's a girl genius, any friendship he has with her is simply a poorly conceived means to an end. The end being him in her pants.

 

[C42]

Originally posted by: Tiorapatea

Also, I cannot believe how many rednecks there are in here who claim that it is justifiable to resort to violence if a man runs off with his gf. Honestly, it is the right of anyone's gf to be with whomsoever she wants to be with. This applies also in marriage - you would have a right to be upset if a man takes your wife *in some circumstances* but violence is not acceptable as a way to resolve disputes or avenge wrongdoing.

Redneck? Hmm... don't think so, but I do live in a rural area, maybe it has finally rubbed off.

Well there is a saying that nothing in life is free, and the price for taking my girlfriend is your blood being spilled.

Too many people now a days think violence is so wrong! Oh noes mommy the newage people are here with their we can solve everything by talking! You people are the type that go to the leg press at the gym and are afraid of the squat rack. You are also the type that runs and hides behind us in a barfight.

 

[slackerinabox]

UPDATE - 4/7/2005
Very odd turn of events. So, this girl calls me last night hysterically crying. I ask her what's wrong and she can barely talk. She said that she's feeling alone and that she wanted to come over. I drive down to her apartment and pick her up. We go out for coffee and she explains that she's going through a really rough time and that her bf is being very cold and distant to her. Her mom recently died and she really needed some compassion but her BF keeps telling her to grow up. A total tool. Anyway, I take her back to my place and make her tea and we end up talking until 6 AM. Firstly, I told her that I was very attracted to her and that I shouldn't give her advice about her BF, one way or another as I'll be biased. Then I suggested that she not base her self worth on her bf and that she seriously talk to him - that they've been together for so long that she shouldn't throw it away based on one thing. We then watch a few simpsons episodes and I sleep on the couch.

I guess this was closure in a weird way. I proved mature enough not to take advantage of her when I easily could have. Then I insisted that she speak it over with her bf even though I really want that position... Finally, this night cemented my position as the asexual best friend. I'm bitter sweet about the whole thing. I'm glad that I'm that one person she decided to call but now know that I have absolutely no chance with her. But I feel like I did the right thing, as frustrating as that is.

 

[isasir]

What did she say when you told her you were attracted to her?

 

[SnoPearL69]

ah, i'd say that's not completely bad. it was asexual because she's still dating her bf and she is emotionally distraught. which actually is a good thing because it means she doesn't just go out and screw around with other guys when things aren't good with her bf. i'm glad you helped her out though, best of luck for whatever might happen next.

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: isasir
What did she say when you told her you were attracted to her?

She didn't say anything and I posed it in a way not to add more drama to the situation. I said it flipantly, not like i was confessing my love or anything. She was going through a lot and I didn't want to add to her stress, I was just being honest.

 

[Aharami]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
I know, this is very scummy. But there's this girl I really dig who's been dating this guy for a few months. We're very friendly and we hang out every now and then and, lately, I've been thinking about making my attraction clear. Now, if I don't do anything forceful (like kissing the taken girl), would this be so scummy? She's cute, smart, and fun to be around and I don't think her bf gives her the respect that she deserves anyways. The guy's a tool..

UPDATE - 4/7/2005
Very odd turn of events. So, this girl calls me last night hysterically crying. I ask her what's wrong and she can barely talk. She said that she's feeling alone and that she wanted to come over. I drive down to her apartment and pick her up. We go out for coffee and she explains that she's going through a really rough time and that her bf is being very cold and distant to her. Her mom recently died and she really needed some compassion but her BF keeps telling her to grow up. A total tool. Anyway, I take her back to my place and make her tea and we end up talking until 6 AM. Firstly, I told her that I was very attracted to her and that I shouldn't give her advice about her BF, one way or another as I'll be biased. Then I suggested that she not base her self worth on her bf and that she seriously talk to him - that they've been together for so long that she shouldn't throw it away based on one thing. We then watch a few simpsons episodes and I sleep on the couch.

I guess this was closure in a weird way. I proved mature enough not to take advantage of her when I easily could have. Then I insisted that she speak it over with her bf even though I really want that position... Finally, this night cemented my position as the asexual best friend. I'm bitter sweet about the whole thing. I'm glad that I'm that one person she decided to call but now know that I have absolutely no chance with her. But I feel like I did the right thing, as frustrating as that is.

the right thing never gets the poon

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: Aharami

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
I know, this is very scummy. But there's this girl I really dig who's been dating this guy for a few months. We're very friendly and we hang out every now and then and, lately, I've been thinking about making my attraction clear. Now, if I don't do anything forceful (like kissing the taken girl), would this be so scummy? She's cute, smart, and fun to be around and I don't think her bf gives her the respect that she deserves anyways. The guy's a tool..

UPDATE - 4/7/2005
Very odd turn of events. So, this girl calls me last night hysterically crying. I ask her what's wrong and she can barely talk. She said that she's feeling alone and that she wanted to come over. I drive down to her apartment and pick her up. We go out for coffee and she explains that she's going through a really rough time and that her bf is being very cold and distant to her. Her mom recently died and she really needed some compassion but her BF keeps telling her to grow up. A total tool. Anyway, I take her back to my place and make her tea and we end up talking until 6 AM. Firstly, I told her that I was very attracted to her and that I shouldn't give her advice about her BF, one way or another as I'll be biased. Then I suggested that she not base her self worth on her bf and that she seriously talk to him - that they've been together for so long that she shouldn't throw it away based on one thing. We then watch a few simpsons episodes and I sleep on the couch.

I guess this was closure in a weird way. I proved mature enough not to take advantage of her when I easily could have. Then I insisted that she speak it over with her bf even though I really want that position... Finally, this night cemented my position as the asexual best friend. I'm bitter sweet about the whole thing. I'm glad that I'm that one person she decided to call but now know that I have absolutely no chance with her. But I feel like I did the right thing, as frustrating as that is.

the right thing never gets the poon

you're absofuckinglutely right... guess i'm not as scummy as I thought I am... there's a very attractive girl still sleeping in my bed though... guess that's kinda cool?

 

[Yossarian]

a cuddle bitch is you

 

[SP33Demon]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

UPDATE - 4/7/2005
Very odd turn of events. So, this girl calls me last night hysterically crying. I ask her what's wrong and she can barely talk. She said that she's feeling alone and that she wanted to come over. I drive down to her apartment and pick her up. We go out for coffee and she explains that she's going through a really rough time and that her bf is being very cold and distant to her. Her mom recently died and she really needed some compassion but her BF keeps telling her to grow up. A total tool. Anyway, I take her back to my place and make her tea and we end up talking until 6 AM. Firstly, I told her that I was very attracted to her and that I shouldn't give her advice about her BF, one way or another as I'll be biased. Then I suggested that she not base her self worth on her bf and that she seriously talk to him - that they've been together for so long that she shouldn't throw it away based on one thing. We then watch a few simpsons episodes and I sleep on the couch.

I guess this was closure in a weird way. I proved mature enough not to take advantage of her when I easily could have. Then I insisted that she speak it over with her bf even though I really want that position... Finally, this night cemented my position as the asexual best friend. I'm bitter sweet about the whole thing. I'm glad that I'm that one person she decided to call but now know that I have absolutely no chance with her. But I feel like I did the right thing, as frustrating as that is.

:beer: for doing the right thing... you played it right, in the end she may be with you, you never know.

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: Yossarian
a cuddle bitch is you

i wish I was even that...

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: Aharami

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
I know, this is very scummy. But there's this girl I really dig who's been dating this guy for a few months. We're very friendly and we hang out every now and then and, lately, I've been thinking about making my attraction clear. Now, if I don't do anything forceful (like kissing the taken girl), would this be so scummy? She's cute, smart, and fun to be around and I don't think her bf gives her the respect that she deserves anyways. The guy's a tool..

UPDATE - 4/7/2005
Very odd turn of events. So, this girl calls me last night hysterically crying. I ask her what's wrong and she can barely talk. She said that she's feeling alone and that she wanted to come over. I drive down to her apartment and pick her up. We go out for coffee and she explains that she's going through a really rough time and that her bf is being very cold and distant to her. Her mom recently died and she really needed some compassion but her BF keeps telling her to grow up. A total tool. Anyway, I take her back to my place and make her tea and we end up talking until 6 AM. Firstly, I told her that I was very attracted to her and that I shouldn't give her advice about her BF, one way or another as I'll be biased. Then I suggested that she not base her self worth on her bf and that she seriously talk to him - that they've been together for so long that she shouldn't throw it away based on one thing. We then watch a few simpsons episodes and I sleep on the couch.

I guess this was closure in a weird way. I proved mature enough not to take advantage of her when I easily could have. Then I insisted that she speak it over with her bf even though I really want that position... Finally, this night cemented my position as the asexual best friend. I'm bitter sweet about the whole thing. I'm glad that I'm that one person she decided to call but now know that I have absolutely no chance with her. But I feel like I did the right thing, as frustrating as that is.

the right thing never gets the poon

you're absofuckinglutely right... guess i'm not as scummy as I thought I am... there's a very attractive girl still sleeping in my bed though... guess that's kinda cool?

Pics? J/K, that would be a dick thing to do.

 

[halik]

welcome to the friend zone,
she'll either continue banging her current boyfriend or she'll find a new one. Either way it's not you...

 

[Pepsei]

when are you going to slip her the sausage?

 

[Drakkon]

so a girl comes to you crying....you comfort her...you spend the night with her...yet you get nothing?
dude you need to learn some moves...if a girl comes to you crying its your RIGHT and DUTY as a man to take advantage of the situation...BF or not...I mean even the BF in this situation if he read this thread would be liek "WTF dude...why didnt you hit it??!?!"

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: halik
welcome to the friend zone,
she'll either continue banging her current boyfriend or she'll find a new one. Either way it's not you...

You are 1,000,000,000% right... She'll get the emotional support she needs from me and continue to have dicky boyfriends... I hate being so non-threatening... It's really depressing, actually...

 

[ggnl]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

UPDATE - 4/7/2005
Very odd turn of events. So, this girl calls me last night hysterically crying. I ask her what's wrong and she can barely talk. She said that she's feeling alone and that she wanted to come over. I drive down to her apartment and pick her up. We go out for coffee and she explains that she's going through a really rough time and that her bf is being very cold and distant to her. Her mom recently died and she really needed some compassion but her BF keeps telling her to grow up. A total tool. Anyway, I take her back to my place and make her tea and we end up talking until 6 AM. Firstly, I told her that I was very attracted to her and that I shouldn't give her advice about her BF, one way or another as I'll be biased. Then I suggested that she not base her self worth on her bf and that she seriously talk to him - that they've been together for so long that she shouldn't throw it away based on one thing. We then watch a few simpsons episodes and I sleep on the couch.

I guess this was closure in a weird way. I proved mature enough not to take advantage of her when I easily could have. Then I insisted that she speak it over with her bf even though I really want that position... Finally, this night cemented my position as the asexual best friend. I'm bitter sweet about the whole thing. I'm glad that I'm that one person she decided to call but now know that I have absolutely no chance with her. But I feel like I did the right thing, as frustrating as that is.

I suppose you did the right thing by not taking advantage of the situation, but if her BF really is a tool you should let her know that.

 

[DougK62]

Well we all know what you're going to do in those sheets after she leaves...

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

UPDATE - 4/7/2005
Very odd turn of events. So, this girl calls me last night hysterically crying. I ask her what's wrong and she can barely talk. She said that she's feeling alone and that she wanted to come over. I drive down to her apartment and pick her up. We go out for coffee and she explains that she's going through a really rough time and that her bf is being very cold and distant to her. Her mom recently died and she really needed some compassion but her BF keeps telling her to grow up. A total tool. Anyway, I take her back to my place and make her tea and we end up talking until 6 AM. Firstly, I told her that I was very attracted to her and that I shouldn't give her advice about her BF, one way or another as I'll be biased. Then I suggested that she not base her self worth on her bf and that she seriously talk to him - that they've been together for so long that she shouldn't throw it away based on one thing. We then watch a few simpsons episodes and I sleep on the couch.

I guess this was closure in a weird way. I proved mature enough not to take advantage of her when I easily could have. Then I insisted that she speak it over with her bf even though I really want that position... Finally, this night cemented my position as the asexual best friend. I'm bitter sweet about the whole thing. I'm glad that I'm that one person she decided to call but now know that I have absolutely no chance with her. But I feel like I did the right thing, as frustrating as that is.

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... WOW ...

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Okay now that my heart's beating again, I'm actually quite surprised at the quality of the update. I didn't think many people like this existed anymore. It actually got a physical reaction out of me being my eyes popping out when I expected to read "omg I banged her and she was so ugly but I like sluts since I'm god's gift to women" and was let down in a big way.

respect plus fvcking plus

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