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YAGT: gf kisses another dude....

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OOBradm

Golden Member
I'll keep this short.

Weve been dating for over a year.

she goes to Boston University, i go to RIT.

She kisses another guy.
claims that its what everyone does there and says she just needs to make sure im the right one for her.

Promises that she felt nothing when she kissed him and still wants to date me.

SO, im in her room RIGHT NOW, sitting 3 feet from her. shes sleeping. do i continue to date her?

 
WTF is that? I'd say no.

Now, if she came to you and started crying saying how she's so sorry then it'd be up in the air.
 
more info?
alright.
We live in the same hometown. I applied to her school, didnt get in.

So the plan was for me to transfer to her after this year.

I really love her, and she told me many times today while crying that she loves me too, she just had to "check"

Tonight, i told her i'd let if fly this time, but any hint of ANYTHING from now on, and its over.

good move, you think?
 
Hmm.. I'd still hang in there just to get some good ol' lovin, but I don't think you should be as much of a "boyfriend" now
 
Thats what i thought at first. But, i'll tell you what, its really true. every girl on her floor has had sex with at least one guy so far this year.

Shes refrained to only kissing this one dude once, AND.... she told me about it.
that makes a big difference.
 
It's really up to you man, and how comfortable you are with your girlfriend cheating on you. I know some guys that don't view kissing as that big of a deal, and some that would totally freak out if that happened.

I have a pretty damn simple POV when it comes to cheating, don't deal with it. If my gf ever cheated on me (kissing or sex), i'd break it off right then and there with no remorse whatsoever. I've told this to her and have let her know exactly what would happen if she did do that, but at the same time I know that if she did cheat on me she just wasn't the right girl for me. I think your better off just leaving this girl and finding someone else.
 
Tell her you want to kiss other girls too because you want to make sure she's the right one.

Anyway, I think she has you by the balls if you have to ask this question.
 
whats YAGT stand for?

sounds like most chicks i've talked to
the whole just checking thing...
of course i think i'd be more forgiving if i was ever in a serious relationship with someone
 
Originally posted by: Excelsior
God damn the "I had to check" BS. When guys try that they are shown no mercy, why should it be any different for women?
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This man speaks the truth. If she has to "check", then it wasn't there in the first place IMO.
 
Originally posted by: RiDE
Tell her you want to kiss other girls too because you want to make sure she's the right one.

Anyway, I think she has you by the balls if you have to ask this question.
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Yeah thats a good idea, see what she says about that. I have never had a girl cheat on me, but one of my friends who was dating this chick for over a year made out with some guy. He let it fly, but she did even more sh!t later. Once they know they can get away with it, nothing will stop them.
 
No way, definitely consider breaking up with her. Kissing is intimate.

A while back my gf invited a guy over from her class so that they could study. She introduced him to me, made it clear I was her boyfriend. And they studying. Like a week later he came over again (but this time I wasn't here) to study with her. She told me he tried to kiss her. She pushed him off though and told him he had the wrong idea, and showed him the door. Personally, I wish she woulda used the tazer I got her a while back. He's lucky I don't know where he lives, otherwise I woulda taken his kneecaps and used them as skipping stones at the nearby creek. Anyhow, at least I know my gf's mine and mine only, and that's how it should be.
 
It's over dude. Go to her bed and have sex now. After sex, forget everything about her. She is as useful as a speeding ticket to you now.
 
You won't listen to us. You still want to be with her and in the end it won't matter what we think.

Try it out. It's a gamble, and I know you really love her. But sometimes you're just setting yourself up

<-- From experience
 
Originally posted by: z0mb13
bang another girl at ur school to test if u still love ur gf

😀😀
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exactly..


Thats what i thought at first. But, i'll tell you what, its really true. every girl on her floor has had sex with at least one guy so far this year.
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I'm transfering to Boston for the spring semester 🙂



and for the real advice:

drop her. she'll do it again. it's not worth it. and saying she's "checking" is complete bullsh!t. This was one semester, she's not gonna last another one. I've observed it and lived through it.

-Dave
 
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