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YAGT: gf kisses another dude....

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Dump her, you pathetic human being.

Or go make out with her best friend.

Actually, do both.

Edit: BTW, she has most likely done much more than kissing and isn't ready to tell you the whole story. Its not cynical, its the truth. She's going to break you in with a little bad news at a time.
 
She's probably telling the truth but leaving out the portion where she was on her knees and he was standing there with his fly open.
 
So you're gonna let her get away with something she did because "everybody else there does it." What's wrong with that picture? Seriously, if the guy made the move on her and she didn't realize, but didn't kiss back, that'd be one thing; but she was the aggressor - she kissed him. Now do you think that guy's gonna give up? No, he's going to pursue a relationship, and if she's unfaithful she will too. If you let it go, she will run with it - it won't stop. I feel for you because I know that you love her, but things WILL NOT get better...Next time she'll kiss a guy more than once, then who knows what. You must have the self respect to not allow yourself to be treated like that. I'm sorry for being so brash, but that's the truth. Good luck.

+Brent
 
Originally posted by: OOBradm
I'll keep this short.

Weve been dating for over a year.

she goes to Boston University, i go to RIT.

She kisses another guy.
claims that its what everyone does there and says she just needs to make sure im the right one for her.

Promises that she felt nothing when she kissed him and still wants to date me.

SO, im in her room RIGHT NOW, sitting 3 feet from her. shes sleeping. do i continue to date her?
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hmmm let's see....you spend time apart, been dating a year, you have her now in the same room and in bed...yet you find time to post on ATOT?

I'd say continue dating her that way once she brings another guy home you can live out your hidden fantasy. 😉
 
UPDATE & MORE DETAILS:

Reason i was in her dorm was because i DROVE FROM ROCHESTER, NY TO BOSTON, MA to drive her hoem to where we live in PITTSBURGH, PA.
then she tells me that shit.

Now, you guys have to think of this from her stand point.

We see each other once a month, maybe.
EVERYDAY, by at least 3 people, she is told we are doomed and to forget about it.
shes stayed strong, and she hasnt done anything. She was is this one kids room, getting her french homework,
and hes been hitting on her ever since school started. she thinks of it as a game and plays him on. he thinks of it
as a game to get to her.

well, when hes handing her french homework, he kisses her. she doesnt pull back. they french kiss for nearly a minute.
then she pulls away and says "i have a boyfriend"
he says "you're too serious"
she says "thats because i AM serious"
he says "kiss me more"
she says "no"
she leaves the room.
doesnt tell me for 1 day because im en route to boston from rochester. tells me after a night of good lovin.
thats when i made my original post.

so, what did i do?
i kicked her off the bed
drive home was an emotional roller coaster ride of ups and downs.
i told her i forgive her this one time ONLY.
if i sense anything, shes done. this hurt, but if she does it again, it wont hurt because she did it to herself. and i'll move one to someone more deseving of me.

But, for her whole life, her boyfriend ahs been her whole life. and this really the first time since shes been like 16 that she hasnt had a boyfriend close to her. so i understand.
and im willing to give her one mroe shot.

And, in reply to all of the posts about how i should kiss someone else.
Driving home in the car, i told her maybe i want to break it off, right then.
while crying, she told me she would do a half open relationship. I could go bang chicks, and she would stay loyal (or close to it)

pretty sweet deal. i would never do taht to her because i love ehr. but it shows that she really wants me and she just caved in for a minute.

what'dya think guys?
 
How did she kiss him? If it's on the cheek, it could just be a friendly kiss...

Edit: Saw your post, if it was a french kiss I'd say ditch her.
 
Originally posted by: OOBradm
Thats what i thought at first. But, i'll tell you what, its really true. every girl on her floor has had sex with at least one guy so far this year.

Shes refrained to only kissing this one dude once, AND.... she told me about it.
that makes a big difference.
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Dude she's done more than just kiss him. Believing otherwise is just naive.
 
Originally posted by: OOBradm

well, when hes handing her french homework, he kisses her. she doesnt pull back. they french kiss for nearly a minute.
then she pulls away and says "i have a boyfriend"
he says "you're too serious"
she says "thats because i AM serious"
he says "kiss me more"
she says "no"
she leaves the room.
doesnt tell me for 1 day because im en route to boston from rochester. tells me after a night of good lovin.
thats when i made my original post.
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in all seriousness, how old are you dude?

it's too early to be changing your life, transferring colleges for this girl.


just my opinion, no idea on what your situation is.

 
Originally posted by: OOBradm
pretty sweet deal. i would never do taht to her because i love ehr. but it shows that she really wants me and she just caved in for a minute.

what'dya think guys?
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Your OP says that its what everyone does and she "wanted to be sure" or something similar. In other words, a pre-meditated decision.

Now you're saying it was just a momentary lapse of faithfulness.

Not that it changes my answer, but can you get the story straightened out here?
 
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