YAGT: Did I ladder jump?

Page 2 - Seeking answers? Join the AnandTech community: where nearly half-a-million members share solutions and discuss the latest tech.
Toggle sidebar Toggle sidebar
O

oCxTiTaN

Senior member
May 7, 2004
453
0
0
Originally posted by: 3NF
Try asking her this,

"May I perform cunnilingus on you?"

What do you have to lose? It sounds funny and she might just laugh ;)
Click to expand...

QFT :thumbsup:
 
O

OneOfTheseDays

Diamond Member
Jan 15, 2000
7,052
0
0
Reading these threads reminds me of how little I knew about women a few years ago. The act of you going in for the kiss was a BIG DEAL. That's why she pulled away and it felt unnatural.

The key is to slowly escalate physical tension throughout the encounter. If you do this successfully, by the end of the night if she isn't wanting to jump your bones your doing something wrong or she is a lesbian. Get her used to your touch, so that by the end of the night a kiss won't be such a huge step.
 
B

bleeb

Lifer
Feb 3, 2000
10,868
0
0
why don't you just ask, 'can i give you a kiss?' if she says no, then it's not awkward.. if she says yes, then good.
 
R

RaiderJ

Diamond Member
Apr 29, 2001
7,582
1
76
No, you didn't ladder jump. You were just mistaken which ladder you were on.
 
S

Special K

Diamond Member
Jun 18, 2000
7,098
0
76
Tell her to put out her hand, you want to try something...;)

(reference to a very old but hilarious YAGT, for those who have no idea what I am talking about - link
 
M

Mears

Platinum Member
Mar 9, 2000
2,095
1
81
Originally posted by: Special K
Tell her to put out her hand, you want to try something...;)

(reference to a very old but hilarious YAGT, for those who have no idea what I am talking about - link
Click to expand...

Dude, I'm well aware of that thread :) In the seven years I've been here, only a few threads have made me laugh harder.
 
Kadarin

Kadarin

Lifer
Nov 23, 2001
44,296
16
81
Originally posted by: Compton
lol, sounds to me like you fell off a ladder
Click to expand...

Sounds to me more like he couldn't even find the damned ladder, let alone climb it in the first place.
 
Kadarin

Kadarin

Lifer
Nov 23, 2001
44,296
16
81
Originally posted by: DaShen
She might be saving her lips for her spouse....
Click to expand...

:confused:

Any girl stupid enough to be this goddamned repressed deserves to be alone her whole life.
 
S

sswingle

Diamond Member
Mar 2, 2000
7,183
45
91
Originally posted by: Mears
Originally posted by: bignateyk
Originally posted by: Mears
So last night I went on my third date with this girl. All I've gotten so far is hugs, so I set my mind to kissing her before I left. The date went pretty well and afterwards she invited me into her place. We talked for an hour or so and I could tell she was getting tired and I had to work in the morning. I told her as much and when she moved in to hug me goodbye I went in for a kiss. It all happened so fast, but it appeared to me like she turned her head and I got her on the cheek. Talk about an awkward moment... She acted like nothing happened.

So do you guys think I was already on her friends ladder? If so, am I currently flailing in the abyss?
Click to expand...


She invited you into her place after the date? You shouda made a move your move when you were there, not when you were leaving...
Click to expand...

I wasn't exactly invited. She said I could come in and hang out for a while if I wanted.
Click to expand...

Sounds like invited to me. What is invited in your book? A mailed invitation?
 
D

D22

Senior member
Nov 13, 2004
396
0
0
How old are you and how old is the girl? Definitely a negative sign. Anytime I had to wait for the 3rd date or later the relationship never amounted to anything even if I kept pursuing...even if I did get the kiss later it was a TOTAL waste of time.
 
Kanalua

Kanalua

Diamond Member
Jun 14, 2001
4,860
2
81
Wow...she invited you in then gave you the head turn? ouch...

Hard to say, she may have been cold from the start, or invited you in for some "Coffee"...
 
A

AStar617

Diamond Member
Sep 29, 2002
4,983
0
0
Originally posted by: Mears
So last night I went on my third date with this girl. All I've gotten so far is hugs, so I set my mind to kissing her before I left. The date went pretty well and afterwards she invited me into her place. We talked for an hour or so and I could tell she was getting tired and I had to work in the morning. I told her as much and when she moved in to hug me goodbye I went in for a kiss. It all happened so fast, but it appeared to me like she turned her head and I got her on the cheek. Talk about an awkward moment... She acted like nothing happened.

So do you guys think I was already on her friends ladder? If so, am I currently flailing in the abyss?
Click to expand...

As a Ladder Theory Evangelist(TM), let me commend you on a well articulated question. However, jumping ladders only occurs from friends to real, not the other way around. You were always on the friends ladder.

With that said, you have no chance after that kick in the head into the Abyss. Next her and move on to greener pastures.

 
ebaycj

ebaycj

Diamond Member
Mar 9, 2002
5,418
0
0
Originally posted by: Kanalua
Wow...she invited you in then gave you the head turn? ouch...

Hard to say, she may have been cold from the start, or invited you in for some "Coffee"...
Click to expand...


I think she wanted him to hit it right when they walked in, and since he didn't, he gets the brush off for his crappy attempt right before he left.

Message to OP: She wants it as much or more than you do. You have to convince yourself of this. If you do not, you will never get any.
 
S

superHARD

Diamond Member
Jul 24, 2003
7,828
1
0
If she's 14 don't move on just yet...if she is older than 14 move on...

Unless she is super hot...if super hot never give up, follow her around for years for that one moment where she will take you...
 
K

krunchykrome

Lifer
Dec 28, 2003
13,413
1
0
Originally posted by: Mears
So last night I went on my third date with this girl. All I've gotten so far is hugs, so I set my mind to kissing her before I left. The date went pretty well and afterwards she invited me into her place. We talked for an hour or so and I could tell she was getting tired and I had to work in the morning. I told her as much and when she moved in to hug me goodbye I went in for a kiss. It all happened so fast, but it appeared to me like she turned her head and I got her on the cheek. Talk about an awkward moment... She acted like nothing happened.

So do you guys think I was already on her friends ladder? If so, am I currently flailing in the abyss?
Click to expand...

Move on buddy. If she wanted to kiss you, she would have done so before the third date. You can't force an attraction to somebody.
 
dullard

dullard

Elite Member
May 21, 2001
26,111
4,755
126
My rule: if you don't kiss on the first date, give it up. That relationship will never amount to anything. Either (a) neither of you has the balls to make the relationship work or (b) either one or both of you really doesn't want that type of relationship. Doesn't matter what the reason was for the missed kiss, but the relationship is doomed.

Luckilly, you are only 3 dates in, and you can get out before getting too attached.
 
M

Mears

Platinum Member
Mar 9, 2000
2,095
1
81
Originally posted by: D22
How old are you and how old is the girl? Definitely a negative sign. Anytime I had to wait for the 3rd date or later the relationship never amounted to anything even if I kept pursuing...even if I did get the kiss later it was a TOTAL waste of time.
Click to expand...

We are both 24. She's on vacation for a week, so maybe I'll give it one more go when she gets back and then cut my ties if it doesn't work out.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

TRENDING THREADS

COMPANY
RESOURCES
FOLLOW
Top Bottom