YAGT: Did I ladder jump?

[Mo0o]

Originally posted by: homercles337

Originally posted by: 3NF
Try asking her this,

"May I perform analingus on you?"

What do you have to lose? It sounds funny and she might just laugh

Fixed.

im sorry but you dont go mouth to ass

 

[animalia]

Originally posted by: yowolabi
I'm the first to admit that if a girl won't even kiss you after a multiple dates that there's a problem. Either she's not attracted to you, or she's a cold fish that it will be hell working with.


However that's not necessarily the case here. Believe it or not, there are shy and inexperienced girls out there. If you just spring a kiss on one of these girls with no lead up and no time for them to prepare mentally, you may end up with the cheek through their suprise.

I suggest you ask her out again, and try to lead up to a kiss somwhere in the middle. You take her somewhere romantic and secluded, you stand really close to her with your hand somewhere on her back or arm, you make eye contact, and then you very slowly move in for a kiss, giving her time to process that it's coming.

If you get the cheek again, you ask her gently if something is wrong. Then, depending on what she says and how much you believe what she says, then you may get rid of her. But it's silly to assume anything from your one attempt and to never try again.

:thumbsup:

 

[animalia]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim

Originally posted by: yowolabi
I'm the first to admit that if a girl won't even kiss you after a multiple dates that there's a problem. Either she's not attracted to you, or she's a cold fish that it will be hell working with.


However that's not necessarily the case here. Believe it or not, there are shy and inexperienced girls out there. If you just spring a kiss on one of these girls with no lead up and no time for them to prepare mentally, you may end up with the cheek through their suprise.

I suggest you ask her out again, and try to lead up to a kiss somwhere in the middle. You take her somewhere romantic and secluded, you stand really close to her with your hand somewhere on her back or arm, you make eye contact, and then you very slowly move in for a kiss, giving her time to process that it's coming.

If you get the cheek again, you ask her gently if something is wrong. Then, depending on what she says and how much you believe what she says, then you may get rid of her. But it's silly to assume anything from your one attempt and to never try again.

why is it worth the effort? ANY long term relationship that i have been in there was incredible undeniable attraction and sexual tension immediately. Why chase something that isnt there and is going to be lousy even if it does eventually materialize. No thanks.

only you said it's going to be lousy even if it does materialize. maybe he has a more positive outlook than you.

 

[chowmein]

ask her to stick out her left hand