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Mears

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So last night I went on my third date with this girl. All I've gotten so far is hugs, so I set my mind to kissing her before I left. The date went pretty well and afterwards she invited me into her place. We talked for an hour or so and I could tell she was getting tired and I had to work in the morning. I told her as much and when she moved in to hug me goodbye I went in for a kiss. It all happened so fast, but it appeared to me like she turned her head and I got her on the cheek. Talk about an awkward moment... She acted like nothing happened.

So do you guys think I was already on her friends ladder? If so, am I currently flailing in the abyss?
 
The Stigenator

The Stigenator

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dude.. just force it on.. take a chance.. when she isnt looking dont look for the kiss when saying goodbye.. kiss her at some other moment..

 
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bignateyk

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Originally posted by: Mears
So last night I went on my third date with this girl. All I've gotten so far is hugs, so I set my mind to kissing her before I left. The date went pretty well and afterwards she invited me into her place. We talked for an hour or so and I could tell she was getting tired and I had to work in the morning. I told her as much and when she moved in to hug me goodbye I went in for a kiss. It all happened so fast, but it appeared to me like she turned her head and I got her on the cheek. Talk about an awkward moment... She acted like nothing happened.

So do you guys think I was already on her friends ladder? If so, am I currently flailing in the abyss?
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She invited you into her place after the date? You shouda made a move your move when you were there, not when you were leaving...
 
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Mears

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Originally posted by: bignateyk
Originally posted by: Mears
So last night I went on my third date with this girl. All I've gotten so far is hugs, so I set my mind to kissing her before I left. The date went pretty well and afterwards she invited me into her place. We talked for an hour or so and I could tell she was getting tired and I had to work in the morning. I told her as much and when she moved in to hug me goodbye I went in for a kiss. It all happened so fast, but it appeared to me like she turned her head and I got her on the cheek. Talk about an awkward moment... She acted like nothing happened.

So do you guys think I was already on her friends ladder? If so, am I currently flailing in the abyss?
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She invited you into her place after the date? You shouda made a move your move when you were there, not when you were leaving...
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I wasn't exactly invited. She said I could come in and hang out for a while if I wanted.
 
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3NF

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Originally posted by: bignateyk

She invited you into her place after the date? You shouda made a move your move when you were there, not when you were leaving...
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Yup :)

 
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DaiShan

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You're done here, move along. In fact you were done on the first date when you didn't get a good night kiss.
 
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3NF

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Try asking her this,

"May I perform cunnilingus on you?"

What do you have to lose? It sounds funny and she might just laugh ;)
 
JEDI

JEDI

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Originally posted by: Mears
So last night I went on my third date with this girl. All I've gotten so far is hugs, so I set my mind to kissing her before I left. The date went pretty well and afterwards she invited me into her place. We talked for an hour or so and I could tell she was getting tired and I had to work in the morning. I told her as much and when she moved in to hug me goodbye I went in for a kiss. It all happened so fast, but it appeared to me like she turned her head and I got her on the cheek. Talk about an awkward moment... She acted like nothing happened.

So do you guys think I was already on her friends ladder? If so, am I currently flailing in the abyss?
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yup, you're doomed.

drop her and move on
 
DainBramaged

DainBramaged

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Originally posted by: TheGoodGuy
dude.. just force it on.. take a chance.. when she isnt looking dont look for the kiss when saying goodbye.. kiss her at some other moment..
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God, you are such a moron. :roll:
 
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TheVrolok

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Is there any kind of sexual tension that exists? Maybe she just takes things slow, but if you feel like she's not into you physically then it's the friends ladder.
 
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DaShen

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Originally posted by: Mears
So last night I went on my third date with this girl. All I've gotten so far is hugs, so I set my mind to kissing her before I left. The date went pretty well and afterwards she invited me into her place. We talked for an hour or so and I could tell she was getting tired and I had to work in the morning. I told her as much and when she moved in to hug me goodbye I went in for a kiss. It all happened so fast, but it appeared to me like she turned her head and I got her on the cheek. Talk about an awkward moment... She acted like nothing happened.

So do you guys think I was already on her friends ladder? If so, am I currently flailing in the abyss?
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She might be saving her lips for her spouse.... just keep dating and then talk it out with her when things get more serious.

If you have a serious problem with it though, address it immediately, but I don't think it necessarily means anything other than that she isn't ready.
 
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Mears

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Originally posted by: DaShen
Originally posted by: Mears
So last night I went on my third date with this girl. All I've gotten so far is hugs, so I set my mind to kissing her before I left. The date went pretty well and afterwards she invited me into her place. We talked for an hour or so and I could tell she was getting tired and I had to work in the morning. I told her as much and when she moved in to hug me goodbye I went in for a kiss. It all happened so fast, but it appeared to me like she turned her head and I got her on the cheek. Talk about an awkward moment... She acted like nothing happened.

So do you guys think I was already on her friends ladder? If so, am I currently flailing in the abyss?
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She might be saving her lips for her spouse.... just keep dating and then talk it out with her when things get more serious.

If you have a serious problem with it though, address it immediately, but I don't think it necessarily means anything other than that she isn't ready.
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Saving her lips for her spouse? Ummm....this is America?
 
postmortemIA

postmortemIA

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Originally posted by: Mears
Originally posted by: DaShen
Originally posted by: Mears
So last night I went on my third date with this girl. All I've gotten so far is hugs, so I set my mind to kissing her before I left. The date went pretty well and afterwards she invited me into her place. We talked for an hour or so and I could tell she was getting tired and I had to work in the morning. I told her as much and when she moved in to hug me goodbye I went in for a kiss. It all happened so fast, but it appeared to me like she turned her head and I got her on the cheek. Talk about an awkward moment... She acted like nothing happened.

So do you guys think I was already on her friends ladder? If so, am I currently flailing in the abyss?
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She might be saving her lips for her spouse.... just keep dating and then talk it out with her when things get more serious.

If you have a serious problem with it though, address it immediately, but I don't think it necessarily means anything other than that she isn't ready.
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Saving her lips for her spouse? Ummm....this is America?
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Yeah, but lots of religious conservatives.

Anyway, my advice - look her in eyes and try to see if there is "anything there". such as if she looks you in eye significantly too, really you can tell a lot from her eyes.
 
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