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YAGT: dating hot girls / attention whores
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slightlyhuman
Lifer
i wasn't really trying to brag, just joining in on the fun. when someone assumes just because i'm a member of a forum on the intraweb means i have no social life or lack the ability to attract females irritates me.
don't get your panties in a tangle🙂
carry on.
Azndude2190
Golden Member
pics or i'm calling BS
slightlyhuman
Lifer
true that, even the ones with 'summer teeth'
some are yellow, some are black, some aren't there...
slightlyhuman
Lifer
in the words of julesmaximus
-double penetration
I am friends with some very pretty girls.
I will have to admit that I know a few of them with "friends" that really aren't friends. But at least on my part, I won't cross that line with any of my friends who are girls. I have even have become friends with girls I was previously interested in. When they dated someone else, I became friends with their boyfriends. For instance, a good tell is if this guy friend enjoys hanging out with the girl by herself. If he does this frequently, chances are he is interested, if he is single. I almost never hang out with a girl who is a friend exclusively. That is just asking for trouble.
The best thing you can do is talk it out with your girlfriend. Talk, not order her to stay away from her guy friends. Just tell her you sometimes feel uncomfortable about it and just ask her to be careful. Explain to her that you totally trust her, but that you don't always trust some of her "friends". If she assures you it is just a friendship, you have done your part. You could even try becoming friends with her "friend". If the guy is uncomfortable with that, he probably isn't really a friend with the girl.
If he does accept your friendship, then even if he was interested in the girl, he is mature enough to value the friendship as valuable enough to not screw things up. Guys like that are hard to come by, but they are out there. 🙂
I will have to admit that I know a few of them with "friends" that really aren't friends. But at least on my part, I won't cross that line with any of my friends who are girls. I have even have become friends with girls I was previously interested in. When they dated someone else, I became friends with their boyfriends. For instance, a good tell is if this guy friend enjoys hanging out with the girl by herself. If he does this frequently, chances are he is interested, if he is single. I almost never hang out with a girl who is a friend exclusively. That is just asking for trouble.
The best thing you can do is talk it out with your girlfriend. Talk, not order her to stay away from her guy friends. Just tell her you sometimes feel uncomfortable about it and just ask her to be careful. Explain to her that you totally trust her, but that you don't always trust some of her "friends". If she assures you it is just a friendship, you have done your part. You could even try becoming friends with her "friend". If the guy is uncomfortable with that, he probably isn't really a friend with the girl.
If he does accept your friendship, then even if he was interested in the girl, he is mature enough to value the friendship as valuable enough to not screw things up. Guys like that are hard to come by, but they are out there. 🙂
alkemyst
No Lifer
You need to know the rules for the crowd you are dating.
I am willing to bet your "monogamous" chick is simply waiting.
If you are truly dating hot chicks, they are going to have other guys dating them.
It's polite to simply say 'my friend', but if you read into it...they are having sex.
That said, you can win a hot chick over and get her truly monogamous.
In my late teens / early 20's I was pretty jealous...the more I was with 'women' instead of girls I learned the sex part is really nothing to get hung up on. I was 20, 15 years ago...what I see happening and hear about from friends with teenage daughters would have been much more haunting to me then I think.
I am willing to bet your "monogamous" chick is simply waiting.
If you are truly dating hot chicks, they are going to have other guys dating them.
It's polite to simply say 'my friend', but if you read into it...they are having sex.
That said, you can win a hot chick over and get her truly monogamous.
In my late teens / early 20's I was pretty jealous...the more I was with 'women' instead of girls I learned the sex part is really nothing to get hung up on. I was 20, 15 years ago...what I see happening and hear about from friends with teenage daughters would have been much more haunting to me then I think.
theprodigalrebel
Lifer
I think what that means is:
It's just one manifestation of a general psychological phenomenon - most people tend to think pretty highly of themselves. Give a survey to a statiscally significant number of people, and ask them if they think they are better than average at some skill, or better looking than average. Inevitably, more than half of the people will respond by saying they are above average, which is statistically impossible 😉
RagingBITCH
Lifer
Just means you're insecure. I have a ton of female friends, but that doesn't stop/bother my GF. She has a ton of hot guy friends, but it doesn't bother me. GET OVER IT.
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