YAGT: dating hot girls / attention whores

[dquan97]

pics?

 

[archiloco]

TTIWWP!

 

[Koing]

You need to relax. She is with you and not with them. Your boning her and shes not boning them. Have sonme confidence and trust.

If she cheats on you f0ck it, at least your not married. And why be in a relationship where your wigging about your gf with other guys? Don't you trust her? Just drop her and move on to the next girl.

Koing

 

[Riverhound777]

Originally posted by: SP33Demon

Originally posted by: zixxer

Originally posted by: SP33Demon

Originally posted by: Wreckem

Originally posted by: SP33Demon

Originally posted by: zixxer
The past year or so I've been (for the most part) single. I've dated 6 girls in this time. 4 of them were fairly hot (I'd say 8-9/10.)

While I'm not a jealous person, I try not to date girls with tons of 'guy friends'. I feel like it's just asking for trouble - especially when the girl 'trusts them, because they are just friends - nothing would happen'.

That being said, every hot girl I've dated has primarily guy friends - duh.

How do you handle it? I try and suck it up - don't be/act jealous and whatnot, but on some level it's getting fairly irritating. I've been dating one in particular (monogamous) for about two months. She's always posting on these guys facebook that she wants to hang out when they're in town, etc etc. Personally, when girls I used to hang out with make a huge point for me to call them or whatever they usually are wanting to be more than 'just friends'. This isn't the case with her, but it still irritates me and I'm not sure how to approach it.


Thoughts?

There's a reason they're in the friend zone and you're not (i.e. they're wussies and worship her). Only you have the power to please your girl, not them. Don't forget that and get this crap outta your head.

Yeah but that tends to go out the window when alcohol is mixed into the equation.

True, but then he needs to grow some balls and tell her binge drinking with them would annoy him. Hanging out is cool though. Guys don't just magically turn into a man overnight, otherwise they wouldn't be in the friend zone. However, if some of them got ahold of some of the courses I've taken on dating I'd be worried. Thankfully most guys who are "friends" just accept their fate and don't try to improve and read books/take courses on how to attract hotties.

I don't think you guys get what I'm saying - she doesn't go out getting wasted with them. What aggravates me is stuff like when they change their facebook pic and she'll post on their wall that she "is really liking the new profile pic " if a chick posted that on my 'facebook' thing I'm going to have one impression - and not one that's just 'friends'.. To her, they're just friends and she doesn't mean it that way.

Well if that's the case, you need to get over your insecurity. By being a needy, jealous wussy by looking at her male friends' facebook sites and worrying you are pushing her away. Just be a man (don't take her sht) and keep things exciting in the relationship (make her laugh, bust her balls, etc) and you won't have anything to worry about. If you lose her, the problem is most likely YOU and not her. Women are attracted to strong secure men who have many other options besides her, be that man if you aren't already.

You've been reading DD haven't you...

 

[imported_goku]

Originally posted by: DP

Originally posted by: BUrassler
Anandtech guys have every single one of the "9 out of 10" girls out there...

haha while that's probably the majority, some of us do actually have game. in fact, i have tons

Lies, the only game you have is World of Warcraft and a collection of NES and PC games in your mom's basement..

 

[mrzed]

What I'm wondering is, who's the attention whore here?

 

[MisterJackson]

Originally posted by: goku

Originally posted by: DP

Originally posted by: BUrassler
Anandtech guys have every single one of the "9 out of 10" girls out there...

haha while that's probably the majority, some of us do actually have game. in fact, i have tons

Lies, the only game you have is World of Warcraft and a collection of NES and PC games in your mom's basement..

And we KNOW for fact that you are the "kid" described above.....

 

[Al Neri]

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[Al Neri]

Originally posted by: mrzed
What I'm wondering is, who's the attention whore here?

waffles

 

[PHiuR]

pics or ban.

 

[slightlyhuman]

Originally posted by: MisterJackson

Originally posted by: goku

Originally posted by: DP

Originally posted by: BUrassler
Anandtech guys have every single one of the "9 out of 10" girls out there...

haha while that's probably the majority, some of us do actually have game. in fact, i have tons

Lies, the only game you have is World of Warcraft and a collection of NES and PC games in your mom's basement..

And we KNOW for fact that you are the "kid" described above.....

the funny thing is that i do play games quite frequently but still manage to get busier than a woodpecker on a dead tree when it comes to females.

unlike some people here, why not have the best of both worlds

 

[lokiju]

TTIWWP

 

[HardcoreRobot]

give pics, get advice - its the atot currency

 

[ranmaniac]

Show her your collection of Transformers and your problems will be solved.

 

[Cal166]

Originally posted by: lokiju
TTIWWP

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: MisterJackson
I tend to not really talk to a girl if she has a myspace page or a facebook page. Of course I prefer my ladies a little more mature, anywhere from the 25 to 35 year old range, so this usually isn't an issue.

As for your girl commenting on other guys pics, well, she'd do it in real life with her girlfriends and such, it's what women do. So your problem isn't that she's doing it per se, but that you're more aware of it because of the internet. Out of sight out of mind my friend.

Hyperlite, if she's a complainer now, to you, a bulk of the time you talk, then she's been that way for awile and likely won't change any time soon. Odds are she complains about you to others or will eventually. I'm sorry, but that's the way it is man.

I signed up for myspace thinking it would be a good way to network with work peers.Lol,some freak emailed me about how he wanted to tie me up and even included pics :Q:Q:Q

 

[rh71]

I blame the internets.

 

[lokiju]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: MisterJackson
I tend to not really talk to a girl if she has a myspace page or a facebook page. Of course I prefer my ladies a little more mature, anywhere from the 25 to 35 year old range, so this usually isn't an issue.

As for your girl commenting on other guys pics, well, she'd do it in real life with her girlfriends and such, it's what women do. So your problem isn't that she's doing it per se, but that you're more aware of it because of the internet. Out of sight out of mind my friend.

Hyperlite, if she's a complainer now, to you, a bulk of the time you talk, then she's been that way for awile and likely won't change any time soon. Odds are she complains about you to others or will eventually. I'm sorry, but that's the way it is man.

I signed up for myspace thinking it would be a good way to network with work peers.Lol,some freak emailed me about how he wanted to tie me up and even included pics :Q:Q:Q

Sorry about that...

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: lokiju

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: MisterJackson
I tend to not really talk to a girl if she has a myspace page or a facebook page. Of course I prefer my ladies a little more mature, anywhere from the 25 to 35 year old range, so this usually isn't an issue.

As for your girl commenting on other guys pics, well, she'd do it in real life with her girlfriends and such, it's what women do. So your problem isn't that she's doing it per se, but that you're more aware of it because of the internet. Out of sight out of mind my friend.

Hyperlite, if she's a complainer now, to you, a bulk of the time you talk, then she's been that way for awile and likely won't change any time soon. Odds are she complains about you to others or will eventually. I'm sorry, but that's the way it is man.

I signed up for myspace thinking it would be a good way to network with work peers.Lol,some freak emailed me about how he wanted to tie me up and even included pics :Q:Q:Q

Sorry about that...

You're about 300 pounds wearing a leather mask and studded leather thong?

trust me dear,it's not your best look :Q

 

[MisterJackson]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: MisterJackson
I tend to not really talk to a girl if she has a myspace page or a facebook page. Of course I prefer my ladies a little more mature, anywhere from the 25 to 35 year old range, so this usually isn't an issue.

As for your girl commenting on other guys pics, well, she'd do it in real life with her girlfriends and such, it's what women do. So your problem isn't that she's doing it per se, but that you're more aware of it because of the internet. Out of sight out of mind my friend.

Hyperlite, if she's a complainer now, to you, a bulk of the time you talk, then she's been that way for awile and likely won't change any time soon. Odds are she complains about you to others or will eventually. I'm sorry, but that's the way it is man.

I signed up for myspace thinking it would be a good way to network with work peers.Lol,some freak emailed me about how he wanted to tie me up and even included pics :Q:Q:Q

I'm sure you're the exception to the rule, from the vibe I get from you, but most girls who do the "Myspace thing" are keeping their options open, especially so while with a boyfriend.

I look at it this way. If I enter a relationship with a girl, for me to have something like that where I meet new girls is disrespectful. this applies to serious relationships only. I don't expect some girl I just met and started dating to give that up, but if we got serious, and I saw that she met a lot of guys through that sort of thing then it would bother me and I'd say something. If she didn't respect that, as I would for her if the situation were reversed, then I'd have to take a long hard look at if she was the one for me or not.

I do understand that not every girl on there is like I said, I'm not making a sweeping generalization.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: MisterJackson

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: MisterJackson
I tend to not really talk to a girl if she has a myspace page or a facebook page. Of course I prefer my ladies a little more mature, anywhere from the 25 to 35 year old range, so this usually isn't an issue.

As for your girl commenting on other guys pics, well, she'd do it in real life with her girlfriends and such, it's what women do. So your problem isn't that she's doing it per se, but that you're more aware of it because of the internet. Out of sight out of mind my friend.

Hyperlite, if she's a complainer now, to you, a bulk of the time you talk, then she's been that way for awile and likely won't change any time soon. Odds are she complains about you to others or will eventually. I'm sorry, but that's the way it is man.

I signed up for myspace thinking it would be a good way to network with work peers.Lol,some freak emailed me about how he wanted to tie me up and even included pics :Q:Q:Q

I'm sure you're the exception to the rule, from the vibe I get from you, but most girls who do the "Myspace thing" are keeping their options open, especially so while with a boyfriend.

I look at it this way. If I enter a relationship with a girl, for me to have something like that where I meet new girls is disrespectful. this applies to serious relationships only. I don't expect some girl I just met and started dating to give that up, but if we got serious, and I saw that she met a lot of guys through that sort of thing then it would bother me and I'd say something. If she didn't respect that, as I would for her if the situation were reversed, then I'd have to take a long hard look at if she was the one for me or not.

I do understand that not every girl on there is like I said, I'm not making a sweeping generalization.

My point is that I can't understand why any hot young woman would be bothered with the likes of myspace, I thought the response I got was creepy and kind of scary.

 

[Eeezee]

I have to say just deal with it.

OR better yet, take your girl out more often. Hog her to yourself. That's a win-win, she hangs out with her guy friends less because she's being with you more.

 

[imported_goku]

Originally posted by: MisterJackson

Originally posted by: goku

Originally posted by: DP

Originally posted by: BUrassler
Anandtech guys have every single one of the "9 out of 10" girls out there...

haha while that's probably the majority, some of us do actually have game. in fact, i have tons

Lies, the only game you have is World of Warcraft and a collection of NES and PC games in your mom's basement..

And we KNOW for fact that you are the "kid" described above.....

I don't have a WOW account, any NES games or consoles or anything related to nintendo as a matter of fact, and I don't own a basement as they're not very common in california..

 

[MisterJackson]

Originally posted by: goku

Originally posted by: MisterJackson

Originally posted by: goku

Originally posted by: DP

Originally posted by: BUrassler
Anandtech guys have every single one of the "9 out of 10" girls out there...

haha while that's probably the majority, some of us do actually have game. in fact, i have tons

Lies, the only game you have is World of Warcraft and a collection of NES and PC games in your mom's basement..

And we KNOW for fact that you are the "kid" described above.....

I don't have a WOW account, any NES games or consoles or anything related to nintendo as a matter of fact, and I don't own a basement as they're not very common in california..

Guess you showed me......doesn't your mom have an AOL account or something that needs to be canceled?

 

[slightlyhuman]

Originally posted by: goku

Originally posted by: MisterJackson

Originally posted by: goku

Originally posted by: DP

Originally posted by: BUrassler
Anandtech guys have every single one of the "9 out of 10" girls out there...

haha while that's probably the majority, some of us do actually have game. in fact, i have tons

Lies, the only game you have is World of Warcraft and a collection of NES and PC games in your mom's basement..

And we KNOW for fact that you are the "kid" described above.....

I don't have a WOW account, any NES games or consoles or anything related to nintendo as a matter of fact, and I don't own a basement as they're not very common in california..

no basement: check
live on my own: check
don't own any consoles: check

anything else?

have seen more ass than a toilet seat: check