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YAGT: best friend's gf. wait on crucifixion, please

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this is sad on so many levels.

1. the fact that the both of you are fighting over internet blogs.
2. you post on ATOT about your pathetic life.

but congrats, you've managed to find the only two women on the planet who will go out with you...🙂
 
What the hell? You don't hook up with your best friend's ex, they're off limits. That's wrong in my opinion.

LOL @ Xanga.
 
Originally posted by: pclstyle
i'm not looking to redeem myself. i guess i just want to keep alive the hope that something good might possibly come from all this.

Something good will come of it. She'll meet a new honey and dump you on your selfish ass. You did the crime, now you do the time.

 
and don't say "i love her" so easily. you guys are just 'together' for a few days. i dont' care how much time you two secretly go behind the other guy, that's not 'love'.
 
OP:
there's no justification for what you did...

if want to make things right and free the guilt from your conscience?...go crawling back and apologize sincerely...the luck you need for him to forgive you is greater than anything you can possibly imagine...betrayal is damn close to impossible to forgive (at least for me it is)...if he chooses to not forgive you, then that's something you have to live with as a consequence of your actions...

you obviously messed up..."do unto others as you would have them do unto you"

seriously, what good did you think would come out of your actions?...
did you even contemplate about the consequences? or maybe thinking too much with your other head?...
did you put yourself in your best friend's place before taking the action you took?...
what if it had been you in his place and he d!cked you over?
were you just being selfish?...if that's the case then at least man up to it and admit that this was the reason for your actions...

everyone has the right to do what they want, and this includes being an a55h0le but you should at least be a man and confront the situation head on to resolve, not beat around and prolong it by blogging about it...you say all attempts to make contact have failed...well you should find other ways to get in contact with him...parents, write a letter, mutual friends, etc..go talk face to face with him, granted you do deserve whatever he unleashes upon you, but after what you did to him he does deserve some level of respect...try to give him that much at least and make the effort and accomplish the goal of talking things out with him, regardless of how much everyone hates you now...they'll hate you even more when they know you're not putting in any direct effort at all (ie: look at the responses to your blogging)...

you'll be lucky to save 1 of the 3...

good luck!
 
I didn't read everyone's posts: but here's the truth.

1. You have every right to hook up with your friend's current/ex whatever. He has every right to murder you. Your other friends have every right to scorn you. It was your decision to ruin a friendship; deal with it, which it seems like you are.

2. This woman WILL, I repeat, WILL break up with you also. This is "new and fun" for her. She thinks she's in love because of these new strong feelings. But once the excitement dies down, and it certainly will; she'll ditch you just as quickly as she ditched your bud. The only problem is...you're not going to have anyone to cry to.
 
Originally posted by: pclstyle


you're right. i am lying. if i could take back what happened, i wouldn't. and now that i think about it, it's just selfish to want to remain friends with all parties involved.

ah well.

maybe the significance of this all will hit me in the near future, and i'll break down, succumbing to regret and guilt.


to those who still don't get it. i'm not looking to redeem myself. i guess i just want to keep alive the hope that something good might possibly come from all this.


You're scum.
 
You screwed over a good friend to get some pvssy and cheat on your current girlfriend.

Magic 8-ball says, "You deserve pain, suffering, humiliation, and bad things happening to you. May your future divorce be filled with untold torment."
 
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