YAGT: best friend's gf. wait on crucifixion, please

[Connoisseur]

Originally posted by: pclstyle
god, i love the blunt, refreshing sting of atot diatribe. enough of the meaningless drivel force-fed to me by inept and misinformed acquaintences who think they know me.

connoisseur, i am done blogging. i feel like i've put more effort into this than it is worth already, but i can't stop myself. i want this to end well, but i don't see a conclusion in sight

dude... there already is a conclusion. You fvcked over your best friend. That's the end of it. Move on. There is no gray area, just black and white. You did wrong. Unless he physically or mentally beat her, you had no right to encourage her to break up with him to be with you. That's the conclusion.

 

[pclstyle]

Originally posted by: NuroMancer

Originally posted by: BigJ

Originally posted by: NuroMancer

Originally posted by: BigJ
You're a dick, and I hope all three people wind up hating you for the rest of your life. What a pathetic and worthless little sh!t you are.

Whatever, Sh!t happends.
You can't honestly say that if the girl didn't break up with this dude now over Pci she wouldn't have done it later.

He helped encourage the breakup. He helped fvck over one of his best friends. He got together with her immediately afterwards, while he still had a GF. That's a big fvcking no-no on all counts.

In my group of friends, he would've been disowned and an outcast. We wouldn't put up with sh!t like this.

Ahh I thought she came running to him,
Didn't realize that he helped break em up. And It's a nono getting together right away, I totally agree with that. Not to mention as I said earlier, this ain't right to his current GF.

I'm not saying that anyone in my group of friends would tolerate it either, I would never ever cheat on my GF or break up one of my friends and his GF even if I wanted her.

And to add onto your

Originally posted by: BigJ
You're a dick, and I hope all three people wind up hating you for the rest of your life. What a pathetic and worthless little sh!t you are.

You don't deserve to have them talk or like you again PCI and if they do, then your lucky.

i didn't promote the breakup.

read again, even if i was out of the picture, they would have broken up; granted, not so dramatically

god, i spent the past 2 years keeping them together. yeah, sometimes i secretly wished the situation was different, but i never betrayed him.

 

[LordMorpheus]

This is why I love YAGT's . . . you don't see drama like this on the TeeeVeee.

We need pics, though.

 

[Connoisseur]

Originally posted by: LordMorpheus
This is why I love YAGT's . . . you don't see drama like this on the TeeeVeee.

We need pics, though.

Ha ha, beats the hell out of Jerry Springer... although i'd like to see more YA(I'm your sister.. AND your mom)Ts 😀

 

[jman19]

Originally posted by: pclstyle

Originally posted by: NuroMancer

Originally posted by: BigJ

Originally posted by: NuroMancer

Originally posted by: BigJ
You're a dick, and I hope all three people wind up hating you for the rest of your life. What a pathetic and worthless little sh!t you are.

Whatever, Sh!t happends.
You can't honestly say that if the girl didn't break up with this dude now over Pci she wouldn't have done it later.

He helped encourage the breakup. He helped fvck over one of his best friends. He got together with her immediately afterwards, while he still had a GF. That's a big fvcking no-no on all counts.

In my group of friends, he would've been disowned and an outcast. We wouldn't put up with sh!t like this.

Ahh I thought she came running to him,
Didn't realize that he helped break em up. And It's a nono getting together right away, I totally agree with that. Not to mention as I said earlier, this ain't right to his current GF.

I'm not saying that anyone in my group of friends would tolerate it either, I would never ever cheat on my GF or break up one of my friends and his GF even if I wanted her.

And to add onto your

Originally posted by: BigJ
You're a dick, and I hope all three people wind up hating you for the rest of your life. What a pathetic and worthless little sh!t you are.

You don't deserve to have them talk or like you again PCI and if they do, then your lucky.

i didn't promote the breakup.

read again, even if i was out of the picture, they would have broken up; granted, not so dramatically

god, i spent the past 2 years keeping them together. yeah, sometimes i secretly wished the situation was different, but i never betrayed him.

Uh yeah you did betray him. It hurts to lose your love, it hurts even MORE when you know the person who has her now. To knowingly hurt your friends, THAT is certainly betrayal.

 

[BigJ]

Originally posted by: pclstyle

Originally posted by: NuroMancer

Originally posted by: BigJ

Originally posted by: NuroMancer

Originally posted by: BigJ
You're a dick, and I hope all three people wind up hating you for the rest of your life. What a pathetic and worthless little sh!t you are.

Whatever, Sh!t happends.
You can't honestly say that if the girl didn't break up with this dude now over Pci she wouldn't have done it later.

He helped encourage the breakup. He helped fvck over one of his best friends. He got together with her immediately afterwards, while he still had a GF. That's a big fvcking no-no on all counts.

In my group of friends, he would've been disowned and an outcast. We wouldn't put up with sh!t like this.

Ahh I thought she came running to him,
Didn't realize that he helped break em up. And It's a nono getting together right away, I totally agree with that. Not to mention as I said earlier, this ain't right to his current GF.

I'm not saying that anyone in my group of friends would tolerate it either, I would never ever cheat on my GF or break up one of my friends and his GF even if I wanted her.

And to add onto your

Originally posted by: BigJ
You're a dick, and I hope all three people wind up hating you for the rest of your life. What a pathetic and worthless little sh!t you are.

You don't deserve to have them talk or like you again PCI and if they do, then your lucky.

i didn't promote the breakup.

read again, even if i was out of the picture, they would have broken up; granted, not so dramatically

god, i spent the past 2 years keeping them together. yeah, sometimes i secretly wished the situation was different, but i never betrayed him.

Didn't promote the breakup eh?

She says she loves me
I basically, indirectly said the same, although hopefully the phoniness of that went through; i'm not sure what i would do if she held me to that
finale: "would you be with me if i wasn't with ***"

That's from your other thread.

Also:

So today, I tell her that I'm going to new york for a conference this wednesday. She asks if she can come along, and stay with me. I tell her jokingly, "of course". But it turns out she's serious. I'm not the type to take every little sign as a profession of love, so I tell her that if she's serious, it's fine, and I'll put her up in a room near mine and we can go out during the evening. She insists that she wants to stay with me, and we go into this little spiel about the implications of that, etc. In the end, she basically forces me to tell her how i feel about her (i make it sound hesitant and truthful, but really i'm just trying to feel her out), and then she tells me that she might be in love with me. Right now, my cynic half is telling me, she's probably just been in an argument and is now on bad terms with ***, so she needs someone to make her feel desired and necessary. And while I'm considering that, she asks "would you be with me if I didn't have a boyfriend?

 

[pclstyle]

Originally posted by: jman19
OP is a giant asshole, no doubt about it. If you were smart you wouldn't have gotten involved. Sure, she might have left him anyway eventually, but the fact that she went to a friend of his makes the misery far worse for him I'm sure. You're justifications are bullsh!t that you're using to make yourself feel better. I only hope that one day you feel the misery you heaped upon your "friend."

oh, i have felt that misery before.

maybe that's why i sound as if i suffer from some kind of superiority complex, or i come off as someone speaking "from above". but i don't feel that way.

you're right, i am just trying to justify myself. but i don't give a sh!t about my own feelings, i just want to get the idea that we PLAYED him or whatever out of his thick friggin head. if it sounds like i am angry at him, it's only because he he's stubbornly refusing to accept any rationale but his own. that he's a martyr, betrayed by those he cared about.

once again. i never told her to break up with him, nor did i suggest that i would break up with my own girlfriend. we have been "closer than friends" for 5 years, why would i feel the need to push a relationship now?

 

[pclstyle]

Originally posted by: BigJ

Didn't promote the breakup eh?

She says she loves me
I basically, indirectly said the same, although hopefully the phoniness of that went through; i'm not sure what i would do if she held me to that
finale: "would you be with me if i wasn't with ***"

That's from your other thread.

how else could i respond to something like that? i really do care about her, hell i love her, but i didn't think that would be the catalyst to something like this.

i have avoided saying "i love you" to her up until now, if that holds any significance whatsoever.

 

[jman19]

Originally posted by: pclstyle

Originally posted by: jman19
OP is a giant asshole, no doubt about it. If you were smart you wouldn't have gotten involved. Sure, she might have left him anyway eventually, but the fact that she went to a friend of his makes the misery far worse for him I'm sure. You're justifications are bullsh!t that you're using to make yourself feel better. I only hope that one day you feel the misery you heaped upon your "friend."

oh, i have felt that misery before.

maybe that's why i sound as if i suffer from some kind of superiority complex, or i come off as someone speaking "from above". but i don't feel that way.

you're right, i am just trying to justify myself. but i don't give a sh!t about my own feelings, i just want to get the idea that we PLAYED him or whatever out of his thick friggin head. if it sounds like i am angry at him, it's only because he he's stubbornly refusing to accept any rationale but his own. that he's a martyr, betrayed by those he cared about.

once again. i never told her to break up with him, nor did i suggest that i would break up with my own girlfriend. we have been "closer than friends" for 5 years, why would i feel the need to push a relationship now?

Look, you're not going to be able to change the way he feels right now. If you want to minimize the damage you have done, don't try to contact him for a while. He will never be your friend again anyway. In the future, write him a letter, when he may have a clearer head. I am almost certain he will never forgive you for being an asshole but maybe it'll clear up things for him.

EDIT: Also, you never told her that you would be with her if she broke up with him, as you currently have a girlfriend, yet you did not even hesitate to be with her immediately. Sounds like you're full of crap, you had your mind made up ahead of time. Good job cheating on your GF too.

 

[BigJ]

Originally posted by: pclstyle

Originally posted by: jman19
OP is a giant asshole, no doubt about it. If you were smart you wouldn't have gotten involved. Sure, she might have left him anyway eventually, but the fact that she went to a friend of his makes the misery far worse for him I'm sure. You're justifications are bullsh!t that you're using to make yourself feel better. I only hope that one day you feel the misery you heaped upon your "friend."

oh, i have felt that misery before.

maybe that's why i sound as if i suffer from some kind of superiority complex, or i come off as someone speaking "from above". but i don't feel that way.

you're right, i am just trying to justify myself. but i don't give a sh!t about my own feelings, i just want to get the idea that we PLAYED him or whatever out of his thick friggin head. if it sounds like i am angry at him, it's only because he he's stubbornly refusing to accept any rationale but his own. that he's a martyr, betrayed by those he cared about.

once again. i never told her to break up with him, nor did i suggest that i would break up with my own girlfriend. we have been "closer than friends" for 5 years, why would i feel the need to push a relationship now?

Why does he feel like he was betrayed by those he cared about? Hmmm...maybe because he was betrayed by his best friend and his girlfriend of 2 years.

 

[BigJ]

Originally posted by: pclstyle

Originally posted by: BigJ

Didn't promote the breakup eh?

She says she loves me
I basically, indirectly said the same, although hopefully the phoniness of that went through; i'm not sure what i would do if she held me to that
finale: "would you be with me if i wasn't with ***"

That's from your other thread.

how else could i respond to something like that? i really do care about her, hell i love her, but i didn't think that would be the catalyst to something like this.

i have avoided saying "i love you" to her up until now, if that holds any significance whatsoever.

You could've ended the situation pretty easily.

You should've told her you care about her, but under no circumstances would you betray your best friend or your girl friend. You should've told her even if she broke up with him, that you would never pursue the relationship. That's what a best friend and an honest boyfriend should've done.

You are obviously neither.

 

[dabuddha]

Whyd you create a thread to show off your own stupidity. Like I said in your other thread, bros before hoes. You backstabbed your own friend. Because of that, you're one of the lowest forms of scum.

 

[pclstyle]

Originally posted by: dabuddha
Whyd you create a thread to show off your own stupidity. Like I said in your other thread, bros before hoes. You backstabbed your own friend. Because of that, you're one of the lowest forms of scum.

yes, because this is obviously a plea for attention.

Look at me, i've got so much "game", i'm leading two girls along.

Look at me, i'm so hardcore and nonchalant about life, i walk on my friendships without thinking twice.

showing off? what the fvck?

 

[pclstyle]

ask: why ask for advice on ATOT?

because you are unbiased observers, because i've had my full of prejudiced judgement being passed upon us, regardless of whether it's right or wrong. god, i'm not even looking for justification for my actions, nor to be told what is right or wrong. i just want to know where to go from here, if i've made it clear my priority is not to lose 3 important people at once.

if that's possible.

 

[dabuddha]

Originally posted by: pclstyle
ask: why ask for advice on ATOT?

because you are unbiased observers, because i've had my full of prejudiced judgement being passed upon us, regardless of whether it's right or wrong. god, i'm not even looking for justification for my actions, nor to be told what is right or wrong. i just want to know where to go from here, if i've made it clear my priority is not to lose 3 important people at once.

if that's possible.

But you're lying to us by telling us that your priority is to not lose 3 important people at once.
If that were the case, you wouldn't be in the situation you are in now.

 

[BigJ]

Originally posted by: dabuddha

Originally posted by: pclstyle
ask: why ask for advice on ATOT?

because you are unbiased observers, because i've had my full of prejudiced judgement being passed upon us, regardless of whether it's right or wrong. god, i'm not even looking for justification for my actions, nor to be told what is right or wrong. i just want to know where to go from here, if i've made it clear my priority is not to lose 3 important people at once.

if that's possible.

But you're lying to us by telling us that your priority is to not lose 3 important people at once.
If that were the case, you wouldn't be in the situation you are in now.

Bingo!

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: pclstyle
related to this:

http://forums.anandtech.com/messageview...atid=38&threadid=1636036&enterthread=y

update:

she broke up with him to be with me.
we basically got together immediately after the breakup.
i still have a girlfriend, that i am desperately trying to get out of a relationship with.
we are being denounced on all sides
mass confusion ensues, all sides feel like they are "getting the shaft", "being played", etc.

his blog:
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=kidcapital

my retaliation:
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=perfectsinner



sigh. where to go from here?

sidenote:
Lol at blogfight. yeah it's lame, but i have no other way to contact him. he blocks my calls, rejects my emails, won't see me in person. get past it, and give me a little bit of that wisdom, wontcha?

Where to go? Straight to hell! The both of you for doing what you did to him!

 

[Saint Nick]

BLOGFIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[pclstyle]

Originally posted by: BigJ

Originally posted by: dabuddha

Originally posted by: pclstyle
ask: why ask for advice on ATOT?

because you are unbiased observers, because i've had my full of prejudiced judgement being passed upon us, regardless of whether it's right or wrong. god, i'm not even looking for justification for my actions, nor to be told what is right or wrong. i just want to know where to go from here, if i've made it clear my priority is not to lose 3 important people at once.

if that's possible.

But you're lying to us by telling us that your priority is to not lose 3 important people at once.
If that were the case, you wouldn't be in the situation you are in now.

Bingo!

you're right. i am lying. if i could take back what happened, i wouldn't. and now that i think about it, it's just selfish to want to remain friends with all parties involved.

ah well.

maybe the significance of this all will hit me in the near future, and i'll break down, succumbing to regret and guilt.


to those who still don't get it. i'm not looking to redeem myself. i guess i just want to keep alive the hope that something good might possibly come from all this.

 

[jman19]

Originally posted by: Nik

Originally posted by: pclstyle
related to this:

http://forums.anandtech.com/messageview...atid=38&threadid=1636036&enterthread=y

update:

she broke up with him to be with me.
we basically got together immediately after the breakup.
i still have a girlfriend, that i am desperately trying to get out of a relationship with.
we are being denounced on all sides
mass confusion ensues, all sides feel like they are "getting the shaft", "being played", etc.

his blog:
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=kidcapital

my retaliation:
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=perfectsinner



sigh. where to go from here?

sidenote:
Lol at blogfight. yeah it's lame, but i have no other way to contact him. he blocks my calls, rejects my emails, won't see me in person. get past it, and give me a little bit of that wisdom, wontcha?

Where to go? Straight to hell! The both of you for doing what you did to him!

Speaking of hell, it must be rather chilly day there, because I agree with Nik for once!

 

[BigJ]

Originally posted by: pclstyle

Originally posted by: BigJ

Originally posted by: dabuddha

Originally posted by: pclstyle
ask: why ask for advice on ATOT?

because you are unbiased observers, because i've had my full of prejudiced judgement being passed upon us, regardless of whether it's right or wrong. god, i'm not even looking for justification for my actions, nor to be told what is right or wrong. i just want to know where to go from here, if i've made it clear my priority is not to lose 3 important people at once.

if that's possible.

But you're lying to us by telling us that your priority is to not lose 3 important people at once.
If that were the case, you wouldn't be in the situation you are in now.

Bingo!

you're right. i am lying. if i could take back what happened, i wouldn't. and now that i think about it, it's just selfish to want to remain friends with all parties involved.

ah well.

maybe the significance of this all will hit me in the near future, and i'll break down, succumbing to regret and guilt.


to those who still don't get it. i'm not looking to redeem myself. i guess i just want to keep alive the hope that something good might possibly come from all this.

The only good thing that could come out of this is your cheated-on girlfriend cutting off your cock and balls why you sleep. At least this way you couldn't reproduce.

 

[Whoozyerdaddy]

Two threads... A couple hundred posts... No pics. :roll:

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: jman19
Speaking of hell, it must be rather chilly day there, because I agree with Nik for once!

*throws a snowball at jman19*

😛

 

[Insomniak]

Lol you're fighting with each other over the internet due to a girl.

This wins the "Most Pathetic of 2005" award.


Emos are so annoying.

 

[NuroMancer]

Originally posted by: BigJ

Originally posted by: pclstyle

Originally posted by: BigJ

Originally posted by: dabuddha

Originally posted by: pclstyle
ask: why ask for advice on ATOT?

because you are unbiased observers, because i've had my full of prejudiced judgement being passed upon us, regardless of whether it's right or wrong. god, i'm not even looking for justification for my actions, nor to be told what is right or wrong. i just want to know where to go from here, if i've made it clear my priority is not to lose 3 important people at once.

if that's possible.

But you're lying to us by telling us that your priority is to not lose 3 important people at once.
If that were the case, you wouldn't be in the situation you are in now.

Bingo!

you're right. i am lying. if i could take back what happened, i wouldn't. and now that i think about it, it's just selfish to want to remain friends with all parties involved.

ah well.

maybe the significance of this all will hit me in the near future, and i'll break down, succumbing to regret and guilt.


to those who still don't get it. i'm not looking to redeem myself. i guess i just want to keep alive the hope that something good might possibly come from all this.

The only good thing that could come out of this is your cheated-on girlfriend cutting off your cock and balls why you sleep. At least this way you couldn't reproduce.

You have to make sure the would is caughterized so he doesn't bleed out!!

Ha, my balls jumped up inside when I read ur post!