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YAGT: best friend's gf. wait on crucifixion, please
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yeah, that's what's getting to me the most. it's like he really believes it too. his mind is so warped, i don't even know if it's worth trying to reason with him. he like subconsciously leaves out details he doesn't like, and adds little ones he feels strengthens his "case"
basically, he's told her that the past two years with her was just a huge joke, and he told me that our 8 years of friendship was meaningless and that i'm pretty much full of sh!t.
neutralizer
Lifer
what about your gf that you're trying to break up with?
BrokenVisage
Lifer
You are scum, OP.
Well, his GF of 2 years fcking dumped him for you, what the hell do you expect? Impartiality and a hearty handshake?
Hey, my wife dumped another guy for me. We weren't as close as you two, and 2 years later, we're on good terms again, but the next time I saw him after they broke up, I was just happy he didn't give me a well-deserved kick in the nuts.
Oh, and how are you "trying" to break up with your girlfriend? Just do it, then.
neutralizer
Lifer
However, in his case, he knew the girl better than his friend. Or so he says.
NuroMancer
Golden Member
Wow dude,
That sounds like one hell of a hard place to be in. I wouldn't look forward to the outcome.
You sound like a good guy, so be a man, take responsibility. I'm not saying that your arn't but it isn't fair to your current GF to be kissing another girl/ tell another girl you love her while you are still going out with your current GF.
Be a man and just end that relationship. Or, ditch the girl that came to you from your friend and stick with your current GF. Either way, pick.
That sounds like one hell of a hard place to be in. I wouldn't look forward to the outcome.
You sound like a good guy, so be a man, take responsibility. I'm not saying that your arn't but it isn't fair to your current GF to be kissing another girl/ tell another girl you love her while you are still going out with your current GF.
Be a man and just end that relationship. Or, ditch the girl that came to you from your friend and stick with your current GF. Either way, pick.
HumblePie
Lifer
I duno.. I'm a military brat so I've never had a friendship last longer then a couple of years really. So I can't begin to relate to this issue at all. Part me says, you can always find new friends, just like there are plenty fish in the sea, there is plenty of sausage on the farm. I duno.
you're right.
but i want things to be right. is it possible for them to be? i feel like his pride won't let him take her back, i feel like she will never feel the same way about him now that he's exposed this side of himself, and i feel like i am scum for doing this to my SO, and that i have no right to run back to her.
NuroMancer
Golden Member
Whatever, Sh!t happends.
You can't honestly say that if the girl didn't break up with this dude now over Pci she wouldn't have done it later.
neutralizer
Lifer
We'll forgive you if you post pics 😉
Connoisseur
Platinum Member
Ha ha wow... neither one of you knows how to deal with it. You're the one acting all high and mighty and you don't even realize it. I don't care how long you knew the girl, you still took your best friend's gf and there's really no excuse for that, so yeah you deserve all the sh!t people sling your way. Your job is just to grin and ask for more. You're 21 and you guys act like you just got into puberty. Grow up. And stop blogging. Talk it over in person like men or don't talk at all.
:Edit: And no, 99.9% of the situations like this end up with no one talking ever again. The other 0.1% happens when one of the three people dies... so the problem solves itself.
:Edit: And no, 99.9% of the situations like this end up with no one talking ever again. The other 0.1% happens when one of the three people dies... so the problem solves itself.
NuroMancer
Golden Member
Honestly, it's probally too late for you.
All you can do in reguards to the male friend is see what happends and keep the door open. It's up to him now.
In reguards to your GF, if she knows that you are involved with another, your done. If she has self respect she won't take you back. At least not right now.
So, give it time, see how it plays out.
He helped encourage the breakup. He helped fvck over one of his best friends. He got together with her immediately afterwards, while he still had a GF. That's a big fvcking no-no on all counts. He also went out and attacked his friend, who of course is going to be pissed off after one of his best friends just stabbed him in the back.
In my group of friends, he would've been disowned and an outcast. We wouldn't put up with sh!t like this.
well, you are a piece of sh1t, no doubt about it, but that's already in the past. oh the girl too.
as for the future, you guys are all 21, everybody will get over it. he may never talk to you again. damage has already been done. move on. don't keep on picking on him, don't burn bridges. is it going to help if you keep on denouncing him like that on a public medium? is it going to make you less a piece of sh1t that you already are? nope. it's only going to make matter worse
oh and enjoy it while it lasts, the girl can dump a 2-year relationship in a snap, she can do the same thing to you too
as for the future, you guys are all 21, everybody will get over it. he may never talk to you again. damage has already been done. move on. don't keep on picking on him, don't burn bridges. is it going to help if you keep on denouncing him like that on a public medium? is it going to make you less a piece of sh1t that you already are? nope. it's only going to make matter worse
oh and enjoy it while it lasts, the girl can dump a 2-year relationship in a snap, she can do the same thing to you too
god, i love the blunt, refreshing sting of atot diatribe. enough of the meaningless drivel force-fed to me by inept and misinformed acquaintences who think they know me.
connoisseur, i am done blogging. i feel like i've put more effort into this than it is worth already, but i can't stop myself. i want this to end well, but i don't see a conclusion in sight
connoisseur, i am done blogging. i feel like i've put more effort into this than it is worth already, but i can't stop myself. i want this to end well, but i don't see a conclusion in sight
NuroMancer
Golden Member
Ahh I thought she came running to him,
Didn't realize that he helped break em up. And It's a nono getting together right away, I totally agree with that. Not to mention as I said earlier, this ain't right to his current GF.
I'm not saying that anyone in my group of friends would tolerate it either, I would never ever cheat on my GF or break up one of my friends and his GF even if I wanted her.
And to add onto your
You don't deserve to have them talk or like you again PCI and if they do, then your lucky.
George P Burdell
Lifer
damn i'd be pissed if a friend stabbed me like that... especially the part where the OP hooks up with the girl immediately after she breaks up with his friend...
NuroMancer
Golden Member
Just so you know, I knew some guys that let a girl get between em. We managed to work it out between the guys, but the dude that got shafted by the girl has never spoken to her and again, and he won't go out with us if she is comming despite her attempts to make things better.
Infact he told me her attempts to make up made things worse.
jman19
Lifer
OP is a giant asshole, no doubt about it. If you were smart you wouldn't have gotten involved. Sure, she might have left him anyway eventually, but the fact that she went to a friend of his makes the misery far worse for him I'm sure. You're justifications are bullsh!t that you're using to make yourself feel better. I only hope that one day you feel the misery you heaped upon your "friend."
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