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wheresmybacon

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Originally posted by: neovan
pay for her lunch
she says she'll pay for her own
tell her no and tell her that she owes you a drink sometime.
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2nd Date!

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txrandom

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UPDATE:

We went out to eat around 12, and I left around 1:30. I walked to her dorm and asked her if she wanted to go to Sbisa (a dining hall). The look on her face was funny. I was joking of course. We went to a pita place and walked back to a picnic table outside her dorm. It got a little quiet towards the end, but I think it went pretty well. We hugged, and walked back to our dorms.

I got her number now, do you think I should call back today or tomorrow? I really want to take her ice skating.
 

pontifex

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Originally posted by: txrandom
UPDATE:

We went out to eat around 12, and I left around 1:30. I walked to her dorm and asked her if she wanted to go to Sbisa (a dining hall). The look on her face was funny. I was joking of course. We went to a pita place and walked back to a picnic table outside her dorm. It got a little quiet towards the end, but I think it went pretty well. We hugged, and walked back to our dorms.

I got her number now, do you think I should call back today or tomorrow? I really want to take her ice skating.

i think the rule is wait. you don't want to sound desperate
 

Qwest

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does everyone else agree that all threads with updates/pics added should go in the first post???!!!
 

zixxer

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Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: txrandom
UPDATE:

We went out to eat around 12, and I left around 1:30. I walked to her dorm and asked her if she wanted to go to Sbisa (a dining hall). The look on her face was funny. I was joking of course. We went to a pita place and walked back to a picnic table outside her dorm. It got a little quiet towards the end, but I think it went pretty well. We hugged, and walked back to our dorms.

I got her number now, do you think I should call back today or tomorrow? I really want to take her ice skating.

i think the rule is wait. you don't want to sound desperate

Yeah.. wait.. until mon/tue, and call her to invite her out next friday night. That will make her wait long enough to get antsy, while still giving her enough time to plan for fri (i.e. make plans w/ you before plans with others.)
 

SmoochyTX

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Call her tomorrow afternoon (now this afternoon) and just talk to her. Swing the convo around to what she might be up to and if she sounds like she doesn't have anything planned ask her out for that night. If it seems like she has something planned already then ask her out for something on Sunday.
 

JoeKing

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let her know what you want out of it right away if not your headed for the friends zone.

 

Ronstang

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So you are from Humble and go to Texas A&M.....I live in Kingwood and graduated from there.
 

postmortemIA

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Originally posted by: txrandom
She hasn't called back yet. :(

I'll call her in the morning and hope for the best.

You don't have to call her, you already blew it. If you call it will get even worse.
 

fallenangel99

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Just go with the flow. Don't stress about it. IF it works out, it will. If not, there are plenty of other girls.

THis is why you need to go out with different women during the week. This way if one is not interested, the rest of the women is always available. ;)