Originally posted by: NewsMonster
Fivespeed, i've been reading thse forums for awhile but it is your thread here that motivated me to join today.
Your girlfriend sounds like she's anal, allot of people are, now for the good part, you are not.
When i was young i participated and enjoyed lots of harmless fun, people seem to forget what Halloween is all about, not only tasty treat goodness, but also TRICKS!
When those tricks hurt other people, whether emotionally or physically, it becomes vandalism and assault, respectively.
I am 26 years old, it has been a long time since i've last smashed a pumpkin or thrown eggs at people or houses, but i enjoy seeing smashed pumkin strewn about the streets in October to this day, it's all part of the spirit.
Someone bought those pumpkins, and someone put the effort into carving them. If the spirit of halloween is about disrespect for others' property and efforts, then it is not worth being a "holiday" (not that it's much of one as it is
)
As far as people kids crying over their pumpkins being smashed, parents should explain that Halloween is full of tricks, and that Chriustmas is right around the corner, but instead they would rather sheild their kids in nerf body armor and spoil them rotten.
With a kid, you do not
downplay their anger and sadness - that's the sort of thing that leads to angst and pissed-offedness at the world: when the world thinks their little of ther problems (and therefore, them). Don't tell me that you would honestly tell a girl who was crying over her totaled pumpkin that "it was going to be gone anyways", just like you don't tell someone who's grieving "well, they were going to die anyways".
However, you do have good points on marriage and relationships.