dabuddha
Lifer
- Apr 10, 2000
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I can see you've never worked with INS (BCIS, USCIS or whatever the fuck they're calling their dumbasses now).
I guess I don't have a problem with it, they're just trying to game the system to help someone out; most people do it in one way or another just to help themselves. I'm not familiar with the potential repercussions for what is presumably a grey area/illegal action though.
I'm kind of surprised at the reactions here though, the whole "if they do this then they're just going to do something like it again". Shit I've downloaded movies but I'm not about to go rob a bank; I don't buy the connection being there.
I'm kind of surprised at the reactions here though, the whole "if they do this then they're just going to do something like it again". Shit I've downloaded movies but I'm not about to go rob a bank; I don't buy the connection being there.
Saint Nick
Lifer
- Jan 21, 2005
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zinfamous
No Lifer
- Jul 12, 2006
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Was it mutual between both parties of the fake marriage?
Are they good people and see this country as providing a home and service that they can't get elsewhere?
I really see no problem with it, depending on the situation and the people involved. We create many ridiculous barriers to citizenship for people that would honestly make damn fine citizens of this country if our policies weren't so damn draconian.
If only one of the party intended this to be a fake marriage, and the other has no idea what is going on--then of course that is wrong. I can't see a viable reason for someone, in any situation, to put another person through that.
Are they good people and see this country as providing a home and service that they can't get elsewhere?
I really see no problem with it, depending on the situation and the people involved. We create many ridiculous barriers to citizenship for people that would honestly make damn fine citizens of this country if our policies weren't so damn draconian.
If only one of the party intended this to be a fake marriage, and the other has no idea what is going on--then of course that is wrong. I can't see a viable reason for someone, in any situation, to put another person through that.
lxskllr
No Lifer
- Nov 30, 2004
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I don't completely understand your setup. It sounds like the person had a business arrangement to bring family to the country. I don't have a problem with that. Business is business. Unethical? That hardly rates on the ethics scale compared to the shit people and businesses pull every day with the blessing of the government. IOW, I wouldn't have a problem with it.
zinfamous
No Lifer
- Jul 12, 2006
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:hmm:
..so you're saying that I could get paid to be married to hot young asian lady for a few years? "Pretend to be married?" That means mandatory sex, right?
...and get paid?
:hmm:
Capt Caveman
Lifer
- Jan 30, 2005
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This. It's a business arrangement, thinking that someone will do it again and can't be trusted, makes no sense and stupid.
I dunno, I don't like doing business with people or companies that game the system either.
TecHNooB
Diamond Member
- Sep 10, 2005
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Run for the hills and stay as far away as possible. Report the person to the INS/ICE - fake or fraudulent marriages are a crime and should be treated as such.
M0oG0oGaiPan
Diamond Member
Kroze
Diamond Member
- Apr 9, 2001
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You guys obviously haven't been in the military. LOL
It's not uncommon for military guys & gals who don't even know each other to be married to each other.
They do it strictly for the military benefits and extra pay. You get a lot of extra perks such as extra housing allowance/your own housing, family separation pay if you're deployed, etc...
It's not uncommon for military guys & gals who don't even know each other to be married to each other.
They do it strictly for the military benefits and extra pay. You get a lot of extra perks such as extra housing allowance/your own housing, family separation pay if you're deployed, etc...
- Jan 23, 2002
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This isn't regarding me personally, but a situation I know someone is in. He's trying to help a cousin come here and his significant other has big reservations about it.
Personally, I'm surprised by some of the strong comments here, although I'm split on the issue. On one hand, if someone was doing it to help a family member out to skirt the current laws, I don't see it as big of a deal. Someone doing it to get $30k-$40k is another thing... although, even then, I'm not sure I would compare that to someone who has loose morals or liken it to someone robbing a bank.
Personally, I'm surprised by some of the strong comments here, although I'm split on the issue. On one hand, if someone was doing it to help a family member out to skirt the current laws, I don't see it as big of a deal. Someone doing it to get $30k-$40k is another thing... although, even then, I'm not sure I would compare that to someone who has loose morals or liken it to someone robbing a bank.
surfsatwerk
Lifer
- Mar 6, 2008
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sixone
Lifer
- May 3, 2004
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zinfamous
No Lifer
- Jul 12, 2006
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zinfamous
No Lifer
- Jul 12, 2006
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are their pre-nups for fake marriages? clauses that one can define in breach of contract?
brianmanahan
Lifer
- Sep 2, 2006
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