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No Lifer
Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: Arkitech
ok, before I can even attempt to reason with you we need to address your problems. From the many comments you've made in this thread, you clearly believe that it's unacceptable for people to need help from others for any reason what so ever. Lets just say that the above comments you made to my examples were 100% valid, you still have'nt accounted for the fact that people are'nt perfect. In a perfect world with perfect people we would be able to make decisions now that would work out perfectly for us 15-20 years down the line. But the reality is that even smart, educated people can make poor choices. Even talented, hardworking individuals can find themselves in bad situations that they did'nt create and can't control.
Its so easy to pick someone else's life apart and point out what they should or should'nt have done, but I guarantee that even you will one day find yourself in a predicament where you'll need someone's assistance. That assistance may not be monetary but you'll still need to suck up someone else's resources whether its time or some other form of commodity due to your ignorance or negligence. If you're as smart as you think you are you'll log off the computer tonight and examine your personal motivations and feelings towards other people. Wealth and power are not valid qualities of a great man, understanding and compassion are.
I've already been there. Twice. It sucked and I didn't look to others for help, I searched within. I don't ever want to go through that again.
That's where my perspective is coming from. When you fail, you learn. I learned and will never make those mistakes again. I will never be underinsured and I will never stop reaching for the stars or become complacent. Biggest thing I learned is we are all consequences of our decisions and choices. In america you are completely free to make those choices as well as you are completely free to make dumb ones.
a good bit of that is true. problem is, not everyone has access to the same choices that everyone else does. If you started in a life of priveledge, you may never be able to understand that. ...if you can't accept that reality, then that's on you. deny it all you want, it still won't change the fact that opportunity is not as universal in this country as we are raised to believe.