Originally posted by: nerp
Reading this thread, I've come to the conclusion that many ATOT members are delusional paranoid whackjobs who watch too much TV and seen way too many movies. Where the fuck do you live that you need to worry about a home invasion? Your own stats you barf out about cars being more dangerous proves my point -- you're living in fear of a wholly unrealisitc view of the world. Home invasions rarely happen and most burglars don't carry weapons (being busted for B&E is easier to deal with than armed robbery) and are scared off and go running as soon as they hear a cough or th lights go on. Second, burglars tend to hit houses when you're on vacation or away. Thus, your trusty gun is more likely to be stolen during a break-in than actually used.
Where the hell do you all live? Kabul? Life must suck living in such a state of fear that you'd be willing to risk the lives of your family with a weapon in the house.
I live in a well to do area with very low crime. That said, we did have 3 reported cases of break ins at night that were discovered by people sleeping in that house. All it would of took was for one of those guys to be desperate enough to rape or kill to make a very bad news story. Luckily the criminals have ran. One county over however is the lowest unemployment in the region (Elkhart County, IN). Every morning for the last 2 months I've heard of at least one murder and most often not with a gun. Low economy breed crime.
I also sometimes have to drive to areas with rising crime. Detroit, Gary, even areas that are growing into bad areas where my grandparents lived their whole lives. There are areas in South Bend, IN I wouldn't be comfortable walking in as a white male. All of these are all around my well to do suburb with nice houses and white picket fences. Cops are few and far between out here in the county, so a police call is a 10-15 minute response time.
Is it really paranoid to keep a small tool for safety on you when out in public? To get a few firearms in the home for easy defense? It makes me feel better to go on a trip knowing my wife has mace on her keychain, a shotgun in a walk in lockable closet, and if need be a pistol. It makes me feel better to know she is properly instructed and trained on the use of all the weapons in my house.
I don't tell her, go kill the mother F*cker!. I tell her, if you hear a noise that isn't normal, go to the closet, lock the door, grab the shotgun and load it up (or the AR-15 with 65 grain hollow point, or the XD 40, whatever she can get to first). Then sit with your back to the wall and your gun pointed at that door and call the police. If anyone opens that door just shoot until you run out of ammo. I really don't care if they take my TV's and 360's if she lives.
But it is comforting to know that should I find myself in a tough spot that i have the training and the tools to insure my own safety without relying on help that may never come. Unarmed I am a brown belt in judo, blue belt in BJJ, and a black belt in TKD (plus some Mauy Thai and boxing training). Armed I have a permit to carry and put in at least 8 hours a month at the range. I have also gone though training and courses on the use of my firearm in high stress situations including training in how to remain in control of my weapon.
I don't conceder this any different then keeping a first-aid kit, blanket, and flare in my car or a fire steel equipped knife and multi tool in my laptop bag. I was brought up to be self sufficient and take responsibility for myself. I think I am doing a good job AND having fun at the same time.
I also have no idea how guns are risking the lives of me or my wife. I guess a house fire could burn into my fireproof safe and ignite my ammo causing bullets to go flying around my basement?