There are multiple clutch packs in modern autos, containing from 4 to 7 friction plates separated by equal# steel "pressure" plates.
I'd have to give the fwd and rwd nod to GM.
When Allison built mopar trans, very good.
And it is true, an auto that shifts too smooth is eating itself as it slips clutches, keeps in both gears for smoothness. BUT a harsh shift kit, although saving clutches, will physically hammer front pump/verter splines, sungears and sprags as well as other parts that have to deal with sudden shaft speed changes. Often requires hardened input shafts etc...but if properly built, a "harsh shifting" trans runs cooler, and longer, than the same one shifting like butta.
I've built powerglides, torqueflites, T-350/400's, 700R4's, 2004R's...and without going into the newest GM 4L60/4L80 variants, my favorite is the 200. But not the "metric" units. Currently running a 700R4 in bad@$$396 chevelle, and buick GN 200R4 in wheelstanding 67 elcamino. Both shift very harsh, chirping even at part throtttle speed shifts, on kickdown, and into OD. But required lots of upgraded shells, shafts, large servos and the like. Both are also built ECM-free, and shift via hydraulic pressure and speed/ carb throttle body angle only. No computer.
BTW product superiority of delphi trans unrelated to business problems. More than likely trans unit to be spun off. Delphi manufacturers thousands of various and sundry parts for virtually all OEM's. Delphi's biggest problem was "warehouse on wheels" business model of its suppliers, among other administration issues.