Actually that's quite common.. my girlfriend told me about how small some of my friends were.
...thought you had a good reply for that didn't ya? She'd tell me this after talking to their girlfriends. And then I told her to stop letting me know.
shilala
Lifer
- Oct 5, 2004
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I don't even know where to begin. Suffice to say that there have been enough women that they pretty much covered all the bases along the way. I'm currently divorced as a result of a cheating, lying spouse. It's been a rough ride, but it happens.
Some people are just what they are.
I imagine the current gf may have a trick or two up her sleeve, but she's gonna have to get up really early in the morning to think of something new that some woman hasn't pulled on me already.
Some people are just what they are.
I imagine the current gf may have a trick or two up her sleeve, but she's gonna have to get up really early in the morning to think of something new that some woman hasn't pulled on me already.
Well, HotChic, what's the worst you've done to a guy, and why? And was it premeditated or just a spontaneous reaction to something in the moment?
Actually I am 25, There is more the story but I figured that you all wouldn't want to hear it. But not that you have temped me, here is it...
Like I stated before, this girl and I were going out for about 6 months, then she breaks up with me and dates my best friend, worst part about it was for the last month that we were together she was screwing around with my best friend.
Now the details;
Well, once I found out about the fact that she was fcking around on me for that last month that we were together, I asked her if she was happy with herself, and if she felt anything when she left me. Her response was not shocking... She told me that I brought it upon myself, by treating her nice, giving her what she wanted when she wanted it. She looked me square in the eye and told me that my friend was a better person for her, and that I would never make a woman happy (Which to tell ya truth, I am starting to believe myself), and that she felt nothing at all... She went on to tell me that she was happy with her choice. After about a week of wollowing on my own self pity, I started to get out again, went to clubs, and went out with my new friends. But every time I went someplace I was slapped in the face by HER. they would show up every place I went. I even started going to new places and all that. But low and behold they would show up. After about a month of that crap, I started to get pissed about it. So I went up to them on day and asked them why they keep following me. Got no answer, so I walked away...
After that little episode of crap, I finally started dating a new girl things were going well until SHE showed up, and made it obvisous that she was there and that she was my ex. She became friends with my new girlfriend and started to tell her stories about how I would hit her, and attempt to force sex on her... When I found out about that I was furious, so I told to pay no attention to she and her lies. She promtly left me too about 2 weeks later. Became good friends with my ex... After that I tried everything short of moving out of state, to avoid the two of them. Problem is they both live about 5 minutes away from where I was located at the time. One day when I was driving down the road, my 1st-ex tried to run me off the road. And then she tried to kill me again when I was unloading my car, she came hit me with her car, and to this day, I still can't breath without feeling pain in my Right lung... All this of this, and all I did was treat her like any woman would want to be treated... And that was the thanks I got... Heartache 2x over, and a lifelong injury to my right lung...
woman or not...bitch get her ass kicked over that ****** - a vehicle is considered a deadly weapon. she wants to play that game out would've come the flaming shitters, exploding mailboxes, and razorblades - what a psychobitch!!!
When I was 16, I was violated by a 19-year-old. We were partying at her house, and went into a quiet room to talk. I figured she wanted to show me a cool new album, or ask my opinion on some personal question. Instead she took her clothes off, and made me take mine off. I felt so exposed and used ...
... Okay, I can't continue with a straight face. :laugh: She rocked my world.
- M4H
... Okay, I can't continue with a straight face. :laugh: She rocked my world.
- M4H
Dated this girl since HS, went to college together at Va Tech and with one more semester left,she cheated on me. At the time, We were living together in the same apartment, she actually brought him home and slept with him in my old bed.
I could not stand it so I moved out. Tough time but I pulled through.
I could not stand it so I moved out. Tough time but I pulled through.
Wow! With all those horror stories about women, I don't think I ever want to attempt a relationship with one again. Geez, and I thought my experiences were bad.
listen late teens and through your 20's women have men by the balls in the dating and relationship world. They still are young hot and full of sass. Just bide your time, focus on career and making loot. The tables turn in your 30's.....all of a sudden you have money, good looks, power and influence. These same women toying with you 5 years ago will be begging to be with you. The younger ones will want you too. You will have your pick of the litter so to speak. So in summary pay your dues in your 20's. Reap the rewards in your 30's. Don't get caught up with them when you are young you have plelnty of time to settle down. They do not.
alkemyst
No Lifer
- Feb 13, 2001
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Girls or guys are about equal IMHO on relationship breakup kill strikes.
My ex-wife and I were doing really well divorcing and looking to sell off the house, split our cats up (two b/w male brothers she wanted mostly (me too, but I gave in) and a russian blue female and pastel calico, we were even occasionally still sleeping together.
We had a great relationship, just she was not quite ready for marriage...I knew it, she knew it. I was ok with that...
Somehow her 'Baptist' family got involved and for whatever reasons (I moved out of our house as due to part of the reasons we were divorcing, she was fired from the nice job I got her at my company at the time):
All this lasted three months:
I needed to pay $300 per month (or something crazy, I forget but I paid) for care of my two cats (I was back home waiting for my house to sell)...I agreed, she gave them to the pound the first day...
She was getting the mail, I told her to just write checks out of the joint account that I was filling with cash to pay the bills. She somehow knew to write checks for the bill amounts so I could see (via phone at the time) but actually was writing them to 'CASH'.
My mortgage and bills went 120days...fortunately since I was in the mortgage business the President of the bank actually called me up and asked if there was something wrong. (my mortgage was nothing, I put over 1/3 of the house price down). I was sort of in shock, then called other billing companies to find out no one recieved a payment from me for months.
Then her family forced me in to letting our house go for about a huge loss to sell it to her cousins. She would not sign any other offers we had for much more money on the place.
I was out mid 5 figures of savings I had built not counting about 6 weeks of major work to the house (that was nice already) to make it an awesome match for us.
There was also a few incidents from her wannabe gangster boyfriend that had a SWAT team at the bank I no longer worked for because there was another person working there with my same first and last name. I ran into her at a college campus 4 years later when I was going back to school to get a CSBS degree. She was finally taking AA classes. Our eyes met in an open hallway about 50 feet apart and she ran away. Then I came home that night to an answering machine full of friends telling me SWAT and police escorts were all over the place at my old job.
The messed up part of this all is me and even my parents still get phone calls 10 years+ later from bill collectors looking for her.
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My ex-wife and I were doing really well divorcing and looking to sell off the house, split our cats up (two b/w male brothers she wanted mostly (me too, but I gave in) and a russian blue female and pastel calico, we were even occasionally still sleeping together.
We had a great relationship, just she was not quite ready for marriage...I knew it, she knew it. I was ok with that...
Somehow her 'Baptist' family got involved and for whatever reasons (I moved out of our house as due to part of the reasons we were divorcing, she was fired from the nice job I got her at my company at the time):
All this lasted three months:
I needed to pay $300 per month (or something crazy, I forget but I paid) for care of my two cats (I was back home waiting for my house to sell)...I agreed, she gave them to the pound the first day...
She was getting the mail, I told her to just write checks out of the joint account that I was filling with cash to pay the bills. She somehow knew to write checks for the bill amounts so I could see (via phone at the time) but actually was writing them to 'CASH'.
My mortgage and bills went 120days...fortunately since I was in the mortgage business the President of the bank actually called me up and asked if there was something wrong. (my mortgage was nothing, I put over 1/3 of the house price down). I was sort of in shock, then called other billing companies to find out no one recieved a payment from me for months.
Then her family forced me in to letting our house go for about a huge loss to sell it to her cousins. She would not sign any other offers we had for much more money on the place.
I was out mid 5 figures of savings I had built not counting about 6 weeks of major work to the house (that was nice already) to make it an awesome match for us.
There was also a few incidents from her wannabe gangster boyfriend that had a SWAT team at the bank I no longer worked for because there was another person working there with my same first and last name. I ran into her at a college campus 4 years later when I was going back to school to get a CSBS degree. She was finally taking AA classes. Our eyes met in an open hallway about 50 feet apart and she ran away. Then I came home that night to an answering machine full of friends telling me SWAT and police escorts were all over the place at my old job.
The messed up part of this all is me and even my parents still get phone calls 10 years+ later from bill collectors looking for her.
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