What's the worst thing a girl has ever done to you?

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fLum0x

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she ripped it off and i had to get it sewn back on...oh damn, that wasn't a true story...

honestly though, i havent had anything worse than what i have done to females :x
 
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Originally posted by: dirtylimey
Engaged after a year then married for 3. One year of which was in England (my home) the rest of which were here in Wisconsin, USA. Both of us are 22. she left me.

Hmm first off I was left with a couch payment (1800 dollars) on a couch that i thought was ugly and never wanted to buy but she begged for it. Since we had been lazy with it (0% APR until Jan 07, no minimum payments) I only started making payments a few months ago and only just finished paying that off with the help of my fam in the UK. Luckily was able to avoid the deferred finance charge.

Oh and about 2 weeks after leaving me she crashed her car (she hadnt kept up the insurance on it) then stole 300 dollars from my checking account to pay to the guy she hit. I say stole because she pretty much never worked while we were together.

We have a 2 year old boy, she moved 5 hours up north with her loser boyfriend for several months to try and "make money" so that she can support her kid. She recently got back into town with not a penny to her name after quitting the big northern dream. I have my son 90% of the time, generally all week and most weekends.

So yeah, along with the heartbreak i constantly have a thorn in my side and am not looking forward to getting assraped when the divorceage occurs. I have no assets but im sure that doesnt really matter. Right now im just thankful I dont have her lame ass couch payments to make anymore. Thats one bonus for the new year.


Originally posted by: dirtylimey
Because she has no way of supporting herself. She moved into an overcrowded apartment with her mother. I can only assume I will end up having to pay some kind of spousal support or the like. Im sure whatever happens, I will end up having to pay her way. I highly doubt im going to get off scott free.


Dude, you need to get out of that mindset ASAP. If anything it sounds like you have a good case for full custody of your son. If you get that not only will you not likely be ordered to pay her alimony, but she'll be ordered to pay you support. That shouldn't be your motivation for pursuing custody mind you.

It sounds as if you are the primary caretaker of your son, so securing custody would be easy if YOU initiate the proceedings.

Don't make the initial mistake I did and wait for her to take you to court or you'll get reamed. Also don't assume that she'll treat you fairly in all of this and that if she gets custody she'll be fair with your son towards you.

I hate to say it, but I've seen it so many times where women in this situation use the kid to manipulate the ex and get their way.

You need to man up fast and put your son first and no one else but yourself second. Forget this woman. she's dead to you.
 

Fenixgoon

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got led on for some time.. the g/f wouldn't say whether she was still interested or not (good god, like it's that hard?) so i ended up breaking things off. sucks cause i was absolutely crazy about her :(
 

SagaLore

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Originally posted by: krunchykrome
I gotta disagree with you there. Imports always have better styling are more refined, better interior, and they always handle better.

Yes, gotta love that Interior. ;) :heart:
 

Buck Armstrong

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Originally posted by: dirtylimey
Because she has no way of supporting herself. She moved into an overcrowded apartment with her mother. I can only assume I will end up having to pay some kind of spousal support or the like. Im sure whatever happens, I will end up having to pay her way. I highly doubt im going to get off scott free.

I clicked on your link out of boredom, and I have to say, you're making the best of the situation. 22 years old with an ocean between you and any familial support, and playing the fulltime dad to your son; diapers, potty-training, halloween, etc. I couldn't even raise myself when I was 22, and I couldn't stand changing diapers even at 30!

So don't worry about the couch and the redneck boyfriend, you're doing the right thing, which is especially admirable given your age. Hell, I don't even know you and I'm proud of you. I only hope your ex never grows up and wants the boy back, because he's obviously better off with you.

If I were you, I'd seriously consider taking the kid back to Britain...
 

Canun

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I dated a girl in college who I really liked. We had been going out for about 6 months when one night she didn't come over. I was a bit worried (pre cellphone days), but since we hadn't made any plans, I didn't worry about it too much. Well, she calls me the next day around 6pm. "You're gonna hate me," she says...and giggles. I asked why, so she told me. She had a foursome with 3 guys last night, then decided to go into detail on how she did it.

Ugh....brings a bad taste to my mouth. Luckily I have a great gf now.
 

OutHouse

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Originally posted by: RedCOMET
Girl and I were seeing each other for a few monthes, like 4 or so. I came down with mono, which she didn't give me... had sex, ruptured my spleen (5 days in hospital) and then she dumped me.

I was more pissed off about the fact that she knew she was gonna dump me, but she still wanted to have sex with me. I felt like complete crap at the time, b/c of the mono. The hospital stay just delayed her in telling me it was over.

Currently, she and her boyfriend (was my best friend) are very happy together.

Can't wait to graduate from college and experience the same type of BS in the real world !!!

what kind of sex were you having that resulted in a ruptured spleen??? :confused:
 

SagaLore

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Originally posted by: Canun
I dated a girl in college who I really liked. We had been going out for about 6 months when one night she didn't come over. I was a bit worried (pre cellphone days), but since we hadn't made any plans, I didn't worry about it too much. Well, she calls me the next day around 6pm. "You're gonna hate me," she says...and giggles. I asked why, so she told me. She had a foursome with 3 guys last night, then decided to go into detail on how she did it.

Ugh....brings a bad taste to my mouth. Luckily I have a great gf now.

Can you tell us what she told you? I'd like to know details. :D
 

DaShen

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Originally posted by: Canun
I dated a girl in college who I really liked. We had been going out for about 6 months when one night she didn't come over. I was a bit worried (pre cellphone days), but since we hadn't made any plans, I didn't worry about it too much. Well, she calls me the next day around 6pm. "You're gonna hate me," she says...and giggles. I asked why, so she told me. She had a foursome with 3 guys last night, then decided to go into detail on how she did it.

Ugh....brings a bad taste to my mouth. Luckily I have a great gf now.

How and why would you date a girl that would do something like that? I mean there had to be some signs that she was a little unstable.
 

OutHouse

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in high school my first f*cked a bunch of guys behind my back, got pregnant and then called me saying she did something really bad. i asked her what and she told me about f*cking all those guys and her and had her dad just got back from the abortion clinic. :shocked: I knew it wasnt mine, we only screwed 3 times and i always used a rubber and she had a period after our last sex. her little adventure happend after that period.


i guess she called for sympathy, well that was a wasted call. I called her a slut and to never call me again. this was in around 1984 or so. Over the years i get little bits of gossip about her through various sources and she has been married 3 times. has 6 kids, some from each husband. Im so glad it turned out that way because i then found my current wife and have been with her since then.

oh and the old gf was very pretty on the outside she was half japaneese and half anglo, but ugly as hell on the inside after she told me what she did i just couldnt see her the same way again.
 

Kev

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Told me I was the love of her life then broke up with me less than a week later.

At least I wasn't cheated on, but it was pretty brutal.


I need to start a thread to see people who are actually happy, because this thread is so depressing.
 

yowolabi

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Originally posted by: Kev
Told me I was the love of her life then broke up with me less than a week later.

At least I wasn't cheated on, but it was pretty brutal.


I need to start a thread to see people who are actually happy, because this thread is so depressing.

As I posted earlier, my crappy experience with an evil girl helped me to become better at choosing women. I'm happy now.
 

gwrober

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Originally posted by: Deeko
a girl peed on my couch last weekend, that wasn't very nice

c'mon man, you gotta tell what happened!!1 you just can't say something like that and leave us hanging!!

:confused:
 

Canun

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Originally posted by: DaShen
Originally posted by: Canun
I dated a girl in college who I really liked. We had been going out for about 6 months when one night she didn't come over. I was a bit worried (pre cellphone days), but since we hadn't made any plans, I didn't worry about it too much. Well, she calls me the next day around 6pm. "You're gonna hate me," she says...and giggles. I asked why, so she told me. She had a foursome with 3 guys last night, then decided to go into detail on how she did it.

Ugh....brings a bad taste to my mouth. Luckily I have a great gf now.

How and why would you date a girl that would do something like that? I mean there had to be some signs that she was a little unstable.


Nope, no hint she was unstable. We hung out alot, nothing crazy in the bedroom. Just your avg college girl. Until she gets drunk it turns out. I had only seen her drunk once before, and that was just with me.

As far as the details go, I think my mind shut down after she explained where each guy was.
 

Kev

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Originally posted by: Canun
Originally posted by: DaShen
Originally posted by: Canun
I dated a girl in college who I really liked. We had been going out for about 6 months when one night she didn't come over. I was a bit worried (pre cellphone days), but since we hadn't made any plans, I didn't worry about it too much. Well, she calls me the next day around 6pm. "You're gonna hate me," she says...and giggles. I asked why, so she told me. She had a foursome with 3 guys last night, then decided to go into detail on how she did it.

Ugh....brings a bad taste to my mouth. Luckily I have a great gf now.

How and why would you date a girl that would do something like that? I mean there had to be some signs that she was a little unstable.


Nope, no hint she was unstable. We hung out alot, nothing crazy in the bedroom. Just your avg college girl. Until she gets drunk it turns out. I had only seen her drunk once before, and that was just with me.

As far as the details go, I think my mind shut down after she explained where each guy was.

Why would she explain it? What a heartless, worthless cvnt rag.
 

Canun

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Originally posted by: Kev
Originally posted by: Canun
Originally posted by: DaShen
Originally posted by: Canun
I dated a girl in college who I really liked. We had been going out for about 6 months when one night she didn't come over. I was a bit worried (pre cellphone days), but since we hadn't made any plans, I didn't worry about it too much. Well, she calls me the next day around 6pm. "You're gonna hate me," she says...and giggles. I asked why, so she told me. She had a foursome with 3 guys last night, then decided to go into detail on how she did it.

Ugh....brings a bad taste to my mouth. Luckily I have a great gf now.

How and why would you date a girl that would do something like that? I mean there had to be some signs that she was a little unstable.


Nope, no hint she was unstable. We hung out alot, nothing crazy in the bedroom. Just your avg college girl. Until she gets drunk it turns out. I had only seen her drunk once before, and that was just with me.

As far as the details go, I think my mind shut down after she explained where each guy was.

Why would she explain it? What a heartless, worthless cvnt rag.

Well, they did ask for the worst thing a girl has done. Worst part was the giggling. I dunno, maybe she thought I'd like the idea. Funniest part is, she didn't know why I wanted to break up with her. :)
 

Deeko

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Originally posted by: Deeko
a girl peed on my couch last weekend, that wasn't very nice

I posted this before going out in the living for the first time since being away for Christmas. It still smells.
 

zinfamous

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Originally posted by: ariafrost
Nothing bad has happened to me... yet. Just turned 20 and I've never dated a girl... (yes, by choice). I figure give them a bit of time to mature so I don't get griefed and torn apart like some people in this thread...


well...you'll never mature without experience. so i suggest you start dating and work on your own maturity rather than sit around and wait for the 2% of datable women (i'm guessing this is your number) to come around to you.

as for me...nothing too serious, or nearly as cold as some of things on here. i was lead on a bit by the last special lady friend...but a lot of that was my fault (a good bit older than me; she was more aware of what she needed in life than i was(regarding her)). still...her complaining that we should have started the whole thing sooner (before she started dating her then-boyfriend...now fiance), really pissed me off--i attempted to get in touch with her several times over the previous years to set something up. she claimed she never got my calls. (This is certainly BS).

that wouldn't have been a problem if i hadn't let my guard down, kept her at friend distance (i know enough about her to know that she was a certified man-eater). but...she jumps me out of nowhere, too hot and sensual to just ignore. what can i say? I'm a guy....sigh :(
 

ghost recon88

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Dumped me the day after her winter ball (like their prom), O, and she did it online too, and I haven't seen her, or talked to her in person since...

Edit1: O yea, and 2 weeks later, she has a new bf, so I'm pretty sure she was cheating on me for the last month of the relationship.
 

Cooler

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I would link you to my cell phone bill thread but it was archived. Just warning for everyone if girl ever uses a bat for no real reason on you or your computer router time for you to change addresses I had to. The chances are she is clinically insane my ex was.
 

Steve

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Originally posted by: Cooler
I would link you to my cell phone bill thread but it was archived. Just warning for everyone if girl ever uses a bat for no real reason on you or your computer router time for you to change addresses I had to. The chances are she is clinically insane my ex was.

You can still link to it, just add the suffix &arctab=y to the end of the URL.