Turin39789
Lifer
- Nov 21, 2000
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Originally posted by: stars
I appreciate that Vegitto. I'll be fine. Even as crazy as it seems, I believe it happened for a good reason. Life passes by us so fast we cant let the bad encounters destory our existence.
Originally posted by: ColdFusion718
Originally posted by: PeeluckyDuckee
Originally posted by: Coquito
Originally posted by: Sluggo
Originally posted by: Coquito
Told my friends I wasn't good in bed.
Was she fibbing, or are you just pissed the truth got out?
She hadn't enough experience to be judging. Barely teenagers, but apparently it made the rounds. I didn't get many dates afterwards till I switched high schools.
Originally posted by: ColdFusion718
I'm sure I told this one before so I'll be brief, if you want details, PM me.
1). Met the girl in college
2). Fell in love *gag*
3). Dated for nearly 5 years, got engaged
4). Girl was cheating with another guy (told me he was a silly kid friend, like a brother)
5). Found out 6 months before graduation, had already turned down jobs from companies like Intel, HP, etc. to move to her country (New Zealand)
Girl had her friends cover for her lie, girl's sister unknowingly gave me timeline of events--pieced truth together
Girl used her best friend in the lie--told me girl was hooking up said guy with her best friend, when asked best friend knew of no such thing.
Girl mails back engagement ring in padded envelope with no insurance, delivery confirmation, nothing.
Girl never told me what happened even till this day, this was about 3 years ago.
I know it's not good to dwell on the past, but despite having learned a valuable lesson, it still hurts/angers me when I remember--that was almost 5 years of my life I'll never get back.
Cold.![]()
Very cold indeed. Cripes.
Yeah, it did change me as a person. I used to be the hopeless romantic guy who always chose love over money. I find it very hard to trust women now. I also don't talk about it with them.
On the other hand, almost every woman I've asked out these few years have yet to say no to me, probably because I don't give a crap hehe. If I need a "romance fix," well I either go and watch a chickflick or one of those sad Korean love story movies.
Might I also add that after I got the engagement ring back, I had my sister sell it back to the jeweler. The jeweler and my sister cried when she asked her what had happened and my sister told the story.
When I got the money back, I used it to buy a 23" LCD monitor hehe. I've since given that away to my friend since I didn't want to have any memories of what happened (OK, I gave it away so I could have an excuse to upgrade).
Stupid holidays! Now I am feeling the loneliness yet the idea of having a gf makes me sick to my stomach. It's time to go spend some money!
Originally posted by: DaiShan
I dunno, I've never been in love so I've never been hurt too badly, a girl that I was dating sent me a text message on thanksgiving one time basically saying that she wanted to break up, but I mean she wasn't my girlfriend, nor was she the only girl that I was dating at the time so it didn't really bother me. People in general are capable of doing some really messed up things, guys and girls. A guy I knew in the dorms used to be notorious for "hit it and quit it" till the first girl he actually fell for cheated on him with his roommate AND another guy in his bed. That's karma I guess.
Originally posted by: Vegitto
Being the girl of my dreams, seducing me (kissing, BJ etc) and then bursting out in laughter when I popped the question..
Stupid bitch.
and she did all that for no particular reason? (not that i'm condoning it)Originally posted by: CollectiveUnconscious
Characters: Me, my girlfriend of 2 years, and five unnamed males
Setting: Back in college, my apartment
Plot: I was away interviewing at a graduate school, and was to be gone a week. She was back at our undergraduate university. She decided that she was going to get completely wasted every night that I was gone, and fvck a different guy for every night I was gone (Total: 5). On top of that, she did it in my apartment (which she had a key to). She then decided to throw all of my wine (I was/am a collector) off of the balcony, put a chair through my TV, and leave the door wide open for only-god-knows how long.
Conclusion: Needless to say, we broke up. I filed a civil suit against her, but lost. Stupid feminist judge. I ended up pissing all over the interior of her car and calling it even.
Originally posted by: SSSnail
Stood ME up because her bf wanted to go out with her. What is up with that?![]()
Originally posted by: moshquerade
and she did all that for no particular reason? (not that i'm condoning it)Originally posted by: CollectiveUnconscious
Characters: Me, my girlfriend of 2 years, and five unnamed males
Setting: Back in college, my apartment
Plot: I was away interviewing at a graduate school, and was to be gone a week. She was back at our undergraduate university. She decided that she was going to get completely wasted every night that I was gone, and fvck a different guy for every night I was gone (Total: 5). On top of that, she did it in my apartment (which she had a key to). She then decided to throw all of my wine (I was/am a collector) off of the balcony, put a chair through my TV, and leave the door wide open for only-god-knows how long.
Conclusion: Needless to say, we broke up. I filed a civil suit against her, but lost. Stupid feminist judge. I ended up pissing all over the interior of her car and calling it even.
:brokenheart:Originally posted by: shortylickens
I got a decent story.
Back in my senior year of HS I somehow managed to make friends with a babe.
She was from Guyana, (HOT!), long black hair and nice curves.
I knew I never had a chance with her, but one day during trig she asked me for a ride home after school. Met her dad and little sister.
Gave her a ride almost every day for a month. We talked about stuff and things and I realized that if you dont constantly think of boning them, then girls can actually be pretty good buddies. (Kind of like before puberty.)
Anyway, once when it was getting close to christmas she asked me for a ride to the mall after school one day. I took her over and we went into the JC Penny. She said she had to go try on some skirts and wanted me to do her a favor.
(Cue ominous music.)
Could I please take her Estee Lauder cold cream over to the counter with the reciept and get a refund? Only used it once and didnt like it.
Please?
OK sure cuz I'm a guy and have no brains and yur pretty and I want to do anything that makes you happy cuz you might hook me up with one of your beastly friends someday if I kiss your pretty butt.
Anyway, I took her stuff and walked over to the counter and handed it to the nice lady.
"Excuse me miss, my friend had to go do some stuff and she wanted me to return this item for her. She only used it once and didnt like it. Can she get a refund? Heres the papers."
She takes the cold cream and says "sure let me go do something first".
5 minutes later she comes back.
"Sir, this isnt Estee Lauder cold cream. This is Jergens thats been in the fridge overnight."
Me: "Huh?!?"
"Yessir, she used up all of our product and then put Jergens in there.
You need to tell her she cant do that and then return it."
Dumbass: "OK, thanks ma'am."
About 500 hours later she finally gets done with skirts and blouses and everything and she finds me on the bench by the Orange Julius. Told her what happened and she played dumb, not to mention angry.
I just looked at her.
I could understand her lying to me if she were my girlfriend.
But we were pals, there was no purpose in that.
So thats when I learned to not take everything women say at face value.
Up to that point my cousins and mom and aunts and friends never lied to me, but thats because they didnt need to. It served them no purpose.
Stopped giving her rides and helping her with trig. In fact the last quarter of school I didnt even see her. Dont know what happened.
For those of you who wondered why I even bothered being nice to this girl I'll tell you.
(This is not something that I share often, so please be nice.)
Once when we were sitting around at the local pizza place we got into a conversation about our plans after school. She made it clear she didnt know what she was going to do with her life and was a little scared.
I told her all about my plans to join the Navy and be a nuclear reactor operator and see the world and get 40 grand for college and have a big house in the hills one day and all that good stuff.
She looked at me and said: "Wow! You're really gonna be sombody."
Now listen closely folks because this is important:
When you're 17 and cant play sports and dont get straight A's and arent even allowed to hang out with the nerds and the punks think you're too dull and the goths think you're too "brainwashed" and and the teachers think you're going nowhere and a beautiful girl says "Your gonna be somebody", then, well, I cant describe it.
You actually have to be there to understand.
Suffice to say she did break my heart, but as many of us who survived High School know: Life goes on.
Originally posted by: HotChic
After reading the rice thread, I got to thinking how irrational and cruel girls somtimes are. What's your story?
And, on behalf of my gender, I apologize.
