What's the worst thing a girl has ever done to you?

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Bacstar

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Originally posted by: stars
I appreciate that Vegitto. I'll be fine. Even as crazy as it seems, I believe it happened for a good reason. Life passes by us so fast we cant let the bad encounters destory our existence.

I love that last sentence.... May i quote you on that for my sig...
 

zebano

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Ouch guys. My worst was when my first gf dumped me. She wouldn't talk to me for about a year despite hanging out with some of my friends. All of a sudden she decides that she needed to talk to me again.... needless to say that I was over her and never did anything beyond acting civil to her.

To the guys who lost/are losing their kids ouch. My little girl is 19 months and if anyone tried to seperate her from me ... I just can't contemplate that.. Thankfully my wife and I are still happily married and expecting #2 in January.
 

DaiShan

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I dunno, I've never been in love so I've never been hurt too badly, a girl that I was dating sent me a text message on thanksgiving one time basically saying that she wanted to break up, but I mean she wasn't my girlfriend, nor was she the only girl that I was dating at the time so it didn't really bother me. People in general are capable of doing some really messed up things, guys and girls. A guy I knew in the dorms used to be notorious for "hit it and quit it" till the first girl he actually fell for cheated on him with his roommate AND another guy in his bed. That's karma I guess.
 

crownjules

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Dumped me and then slept with one of my good friends.

Another time, dumped me, accused me of ruining her prom (because I accused her of lieing to me) which made me feel like crap, and then it turned out I was right in the end and she had dumped me to go back to her ex-boyfriend. Funny thing is, she tried to come crawling back two months later when that didn't work out.
 

DaiShan

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Originally posted by: ColdFusion718
Originally posted by: PeeluckyDuckee
Originally posted by: Coquito
Originally posted by: Sluggo
Originally posted by: Coquito
Told my friends I wasn't good in bed.

Was she fibbing, or are you just pissed the truth got out?

She hadn't enough experience to be judging. Barely teenagers, but apparently it made the rounds. I didn't get many dates afterwards till I switched high schools.

Originally posted by: ColdFusion718
I'm sure I told this one before so I'll be brief, if you want details, PM me.

1). Met the girl in college
2). Fell in love *gag*
3). Dated for nearly 5 years, got engaged
4). Girl was cheating with another guy (told me he was a silly kid friend, like a brother)
5). Found out 6 months before graduation, had already turned down jobs from companies like Intel, HP, etc. to move to her country (New Zealand)
Girl had her friends cover for her lie, girl's sister unknowingly gave me timeline of events--pieced truth together
Girl used her best friend in the lie--told me girl was hooking up said guy with her best friend, when asked best friend knew of no such thing.
Girl mails back engagement ring in padded envelope with no insurance, delivery confirmation, nothing.
Girl never told me what happened even till this day, this was about 3 years ago.

I know it's not good to dwell on the past, but despite having learned a valuable lesson, it still hurts/angers me when I remember--that was almost 5 years of my life I'll never get back.

Cold. :(

Very cold indeed. Cripes.

Yeah, it did change me as a person. I used to be the hopeless romantic guy who always chose love over money. I find it very hard to trust women now. I also don't talk about it with them.

On the other hand, almost every woman I've asked out these few years have yet to say no to me, probably because I don't give a crap hehe. If I need a "romance fix," well I either go and watch a chickflick or one of those sad Korean love story movies.

Might I also add that after I got the engagement ring back, I had my sister sell it back to the jeweler. The jeweler and my sister cried when she asked her what had happened and my sister told the story.

When I got the money back, I used it to buy a 23" LCD monitor hehe. I've since given that away to my friend since I didn't want to have any memories of what happened (OK, I gave it away so I could have an excuse to upgrade).

Stupid holidays! Now I am feeling the loneliness yet the idea of having a gf makes me sick to my stomach. It's time to go spend some money!


I NEVER talk about money with women that I'm dating, I've had many bad experiences with that. I want someone to like me for who I am, not for what I may or may not be able to do for them. I've dated girls that seemed really genuine and would offer to go dutch (not that I let them) turn into total princesses expecting expensive trips, huge shopping excursions (we're talking like 10k fur coats and the like) and get completely turned off when they don't get it. Now when girls ask questions about money I just tell them that I don't like to talk about it. I'm dating a girl right now thats completely ok with that and the fact that I've been driving my 10 year old accord lately, I'm not saying thats the most important thing, but it's definitely big that she seems not to care about how much I have/make.
 

imported_Zeke

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Originally posted by: DaiShan
I dunno, I've never been in love so I've never been hurt too badly, a girl that I was dating sent me a text message on thanksgiving one time basically saying that she wanted to break up, but I mean she wasn't my girlfriend, nor was she the only girl that I was dating at the time so it didn't really bother me. People in general are capable of doing some really messed up things, guys and girls. A guy I knew in the dorms used to be notorious for "hit it and quit it" till the first girl he actually fell for cheated on him with his roommate AND another guy in his bed. That's karma I guess.

hahaha owned
 

DaiShan

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Originally posted by: Vegitto
Being the girl of my dreams, seducing me (kissing, BJ etc) and then bursting out in laughter when I popped the question..

Stupid bitch.


Aren't you 17? Also sex != love. In any case, sorry that you got hurt, but you've still got a lot of living and learning to do.
 

boomerang

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About a year and a half out of high school, I was pursuing a young lady still in her senior year. She told me that she wanted me to come spend the day with her at school, at classes and such. She said that she had cleared it with the authorities at school and that it was a fairly common thing there. I should have paid attention to the alarm bells going off in my head.

She wanted me there to make another guy jealous. Which became real obvious, real quick.

It was no real biggie, I wasn't head over heels for her or anything but I did take a day off work and felt like I'd really been used. I had been of course.
 

yobarman

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Ouch, some hard hitting stories in this thread. To be honest, i've never had a truly terrible thing happen to me. I guess im very "on-guard" when it comes to love.

The stories involving children and what not are pretty heartbreaking.
 

CollectiveUnconscious

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Characters: Me, my girlfriend of 2 years, and five unnamed males
Setting: Back in college, my apartment
Plot: I was away interviewing at a graduate school, and was to be gone a week. She was back at our undergraduate university. She decided that she was going to get completely wasted every night that I was gone, and fvck a different guy for every night I was gone (Total: 5). On top of that, she did it in my apartment (which she had a key to). She then decided to throw all of my wine (I was/am a collector) off of the balcony, put a chair through my TV, and leave the door wide open for only-god-knows how long.
Conclusion: Needless to say, we broke up. I filed a civil suit against her, but lost. Stupid feminist judge. I ended up pissing all over the interior of her car and calling it even.
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: CollectiveUnconscious
Characters: Me, my girlfriend of 2 years, and five unnamed males
Setting: Back in college, my apartment
Plot: I was away interviewing at a graduate school, and was to be gone a week. She was back at our undergraduate university. She decided that she was going to get completely wasted every night that I was gone, and fvck a different guy for every night I was gone (Total: 5). On top of that, she did it in my apartment (which she had a key to). She then decided to throw all of my wine (I was/am a collector) off of the balcony, put a chair through my TV, and leave the door wide open for only-god-knows how long.
Conclusion: Needless to say, we broke up. I filed a civil suit against her, but lost. Stupid feminist judge. I ended up pissing all over the interior of her car and calling it even.
and she did all that for no particular reason? (not that i'm condoning it)

 

thecoolnessrune

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Originally posted by: SSSnail
Stood ME up because her bf wanted to go out with her. What is up with that? :(

I can understand if she didn't call... But if she did to tell you she couldn't I dont see a problem. Personally I would be pissed if I wanted to take my girl out only to find that she couldn't cause she wanted to do something with some other guy.
 

CollectiveUnconscious

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: CollectiveUnconscious
Characters: Me, my girlfriend of 2 years, and five unnamed males
Setting: Back in college, my apartment
Plot: I was away interviewing at a graduate school, and was to be gone a week. She was back at our undergraduate university. She decided that she was going to get completely wasted every night that I was gone, and fvck a different guy for every night I was gone (Total: 5). On top of that, she did it in my apartment (which she had a key to). She then decided to throw all of my wine (I was/am a collector) off of the balcony, put a chair through my TV, and leave the door wide open for only-god-knows how long.
Conclusion: Needless to say, we broke up. I filed a civil suit against her, but lost. Stupid feminist judge. I ended up pissing all over the interior of her car and calling it even.
and she did all that for no particular reason? (not that i'm condoning it)

To this day I don't know the reason. We were always happy together, everything seemed to be perfect. It's like a switch was flipped in her head and she became a completely different person.
 

resinboy

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let's see , this was 20 years ago, I was playing in a metal band, broke up with a chick I saw for several months, she then decides to act like she was the manager of my band and said we broke up and cancelled all our gigs that were booked for the next 4 months. That sucked, especially as the rest of the band wanted to kill her and me.
#2, 6 years ago, my now (ex) wife decides to go to her high school reunion, hooks up with her old sweetheart she hadn't seen in years, starts seeing him behind my back: I find out when she goes to "visit some friends" out of state, I get suspicious, start looking on our computer, see she has erased EVERYTHING in her email, HOWEVER, when I hit Check Mail, in comes a really nice picture of her new sweetie and a nice steamy letter describing their last encounter, and how he looks forward to the next. Asked for a divorce, moved out, she wouldn't give me the rest of my sh*t, She has the locks changed, I get pissed and easily break in when she's at work, grab my personal belongings, she then tries to get ME arrested for breaking into my own house, that I was still making mortgage payments on.
Women are friggin evil, have NO doubts about it, EVAR.
 

Perknose

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Originally posted by: shortylickens
I got a decent story.

Back in my senior year of HS I somehow managed to make friends with a babe.
She was from Guyana, (HOT!), long black hair and nice curves.
I knew I never had a chance with her, but one day during trig she asked me for a ride home after school. Met her dad and little sister.
Gave her a ride almost every day for a month. We talked about stuff and things and I realized that if you dont constantly think of boning them, then girls can actually be pretty good buddies. (Kind of like before puberty.)

Anyway, once when it was getting close to christmas she asked me for a ride to the mall after school one day. I took her over and we went into the JC Penny. She said she had to go try on some skirts and wanted me to do her a favor.
(Cue ominous music.)
Could I please take her Estee Lauder cold cream over to the counter with the reciept and get a refund? Only used it once and didnt like it.
Please?

OK sure cuz I'm a guy and have no brains and yur pretty and I want to do anything that makes you happy cuz you might hook me up with one of your beastly friends someday if I kiss your pretty butt.

Anyway, I took her stuff and walked over to the counter and handed it to the nice lady.
"Excuse me miss, my friend had to go do some stuff and she wanted me to return this item for her. She only used it once and didnt like it. Can she get a refund? Heres the papers."
She takes the cold cream and says "sure let me go do something first".

5 minutes later she comes back.
"Sir, this isnt Estee Lauder cold cream. This is Jergens thats been in the fridge overnight."
Me: "Huh?!?"
"Yessir, she used up all of our product and then put Jergens in there.
You need to tell her she cant do that and then return it."
Dumbass: "OK, thanks ma'am."

About 500 hours later she finally gets done with skirts and blouses and everything and she finds me on the bench by the Orange Julius. Told her what happened and she played dumb, not to mention angry.

I just looked at her.

I could understand her lying to me if she were my girlfriend.
But we were pals, there was no purpose in that.

So thats when I learned to not take everything women say at face value.
Up to that point my cousins and mom and aunts and friends never lied to me, but thats because they didnt need to. It served them no purpose.

Stopped giving her rides and helping her with trig. In fact the last quarter of school I didnt even see her. Dont know what happened.

For those of you who wondered why I even bothered being nice to this girl I'll tell you.
(This is not something that I share often, so please be nice.)
Once when we were sitting around at the local pizza place we got into a conversation about our plans after school. She made it clear she didnt know what she was going to do with her life and was a little scared.
I told her all about my plans to join the Navy and be a nuclear reactor operator and see the world and get 40 grand for college and have a big house in the hills one day and all that good stuff.
She looked at me and said: "Wow! You're really gonna be sombody."

Now listen closely folks because this is important:
When you're 17 and cant play sports and dont get straight A's and arent even allowed to hang out with the nerds and the punks think you're too dull and the goths think you're too "brainwashed" and and the teachers think you're going nowhere and a beautiful girl says "Your gonna be somebody", then, well, I cant describe it.
You actually have to be there to understand.

Suffice to say she did break my heart, but as many of us who survived High School know: Life goes on.
:brokenheart:

Eloquent and brave post, sir. :thumbsup:

 

jadinolf

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Originally posted by: HotChic
After reading the rice thread, I got to thinking how irrational and cruel girls somtimes are. What's your story?

And, on behalf of my gender, I apologize.

What is your story?

You go first.

 

SagaLore

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I really don't feel like sharing my whole story here.

But here's a tip of the iceberg:

- After 8 years, we're finally ready to start a family
- She gets cold feet, moves out
- I find out weeks later she's had a thing for a guy at work
- A few months later, Christmas. I didn't take any time off from work, didn't want to rush to visit family and rush back. So I'm home (just got this house so we can have a "family"!) alone all day. Only thing I have to look forward to is she will stop by in the evening for awhile. Its getting late... she finally shows around 9pm. Tells me her lover is in the car, and asks if he can come inside to meet me. So I decline. I got to see her for no more than 5 minutes.

:brokenheart:

There is so much more but like I said, I'm not posting it here.
 

jemcam

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Off the top of my head, I'll give you worst and will add as I can think of them.

How about my wife of 7 years having an affair and divorcing me? In all fairness, she did walk out with nothing. She left me everything including the custom house on two acres we had just build less than a year earlier.

It didn't help the way I felt at the time though. I would've gladly traded the house, the cars, the Harley, and everything for it not to have happened. But it did.

I handled it very badly. I wasn't completely over it for several years. Talk about blindsided!

That one is the top of the list.

Now, if my mother is a girl..... HOLY SHIAT! ATOT would run out of server space if I listed everything. Yes, I'm now 44 and seeing a psychiatrist still working out everything in my head. :|
 

Rogodin2

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My story is posted. If you don't let a woman into your heart/soul/spirit then you have no worries.

Rogo