What's the worst thing a girl has ever done to you?

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Vegitto

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Stumps, stars, I hope all the best for you.

Stumps, I hope your gf straightens herself out or that you get full custody of your daughter.
stars, I hope you will get to see your little girl. Even sperm donors get to see their child at age 18 (18, right?), so I believe you have the RIGHT to see her. If you don't get to see her, I hope you'll hold up.

You guys, I hope you'll do well, and I hope you'll never have to find yourself in a situation like that again.
 

stars

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I appreciate that Vegitto. I'll be fine. Even as crazy as it seems, I believe it happened for a good reason. Life passes by us so fast we cant let the bad encounters destory our existence.
 

Koing

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Originally posted by: shortylickens
I got a decent story.

Back in my senior year of HS I somehow managed to make friends with a babe.
She was from Guyana, (HOT!), long black hair and nice curves.
I knew I never had a chance with her, but one day during trig she asked me for a ride home after school. Met her dad and little sister.
Gave her a ride almost every day for a month. We talked about stuff and things and I realized that if you dont constantly think of boning them, then girls can actually be pretty good buddies. (Kind of like before puberty.)

Anyway, once when it was getting close to christmas she asked me for a ride to the mall after school one day. I took her over and we went into the JC Penny. She said she had to go try on some skirts and wanted me to do her a favor.
(Cue ominous music.)
Could I please take her Estee Lauder cold cream over to the counter with the reciept and get a refund? Only used it once and didnt like it.
Please?

OK sure cuz I'm a guy and have no brains and yur pretty and I want to do anything that makes you happy cuz you might hook me up with one of your beastly friends someday if I kiss your pretty butt.

Anyway, I took her stuff and walked over to the counter and handed it to the nice lady.
"Excuse me miss, my friend had to go do some stuff and she wanted me to return this item for her. She only used it once and didnt like it. Can she get a refund? Heres the papers."
She takes the cold cream and says "sure let me go do something first".

5 minutes later she comes back.
"Sir, this isnt Estee Lauder cold cream. This is Jergens thats been in the fridge overnight."
Me: "Huh?!?"
"Yessir, she used up all of our product and then put Jergens in there.
You need to tell her she cant do that and then return it."
Dumbass: "OK, thanks ma'am."

About 500 hours later she finally gets done with skirts and blouses and everything and she finds me on the bench by the Orange Julius. Told her what happened and she played dumb, not to mention angry.

I just looked at her.

I could understand her lying to me if she were my girlfriend.
But we were pals, there was no purpose in that.

So thats when I learned to not take everything women say at face value.
Up to that point my cousins and mom and aunts and friends never lied to me, but thats because they didnt need to. It served them no purpose.

Stopped giving her rides and helping her with trig. In fact the last quarter of school I didnt even see her. Dont know what happened.

For those of you who wondered why I even bothered being nice to this girl I'll tell you.
(This is not something that I share often, so please be nice.)
Once when we were sitting around at the local pizza place we got into a conversation about our plans after school. She made it clear she didnt know what she was going to do with her life and was a little scared.
I told her all about my plans to join the Navy and be a nuclear reactor operator and see the world and get 40 grand for college and have a big house in the hills one day and all that good stuff.
She looked at me and said: "Wow! You're really gonna be sombody."

Now listen closely folks because this is important:
When you're 17 and cant play sports and dont get straight A's and arent even allowed to hang out with the nerds and the punks think you're too dull and the goths think you're too "brainwashed" and and the teachers think you're going nowhere and a beautiful girl says "Your gonna be somebody", then, well, I cant describe it.
You actually have to be there to understand.

Suffice to say she did break my heart, but as many of us who survived High School know: Life goes on.

Cheers for sharing :)

As for me no girl has done anything particularly bad to me. I've been very very lucky in dating girls that didn't play games/ head f0ck me. A lot of my mates have been messed with.

Koing
 

bersl2

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Participated in my being rejected by my peers at an early age.

Because of this, I have not been close enough to any female for her to be able to sufficiently hurt me. If I ever stumble into a situation where I could be hurt, I dissociate in advance. You can't hurt me if I'm not all there!
 

y2kc

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A few things that have altered the direction of my life because i allowed the incidents to define me. That was not their doing (the women), but it was the events themselves that were the catalyst of many years of pain and self doubt.

Reading stars story however has helped me further put what happened to me in perspective. I don't know if I could deal with such a tragedy as losing a child like that, and compared to what happened to me I should be thankful.

I won't post what happened because it's too painful still. I'm in the process of learning how to alter the way I allow these things to affect me and it's getting easier, slowly but surely.
 

MichaelD

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Wow. There's some real hurt in this thread. :(

Sometimes it takes a long time for things to work out. In my case, 9+ years. Moving to another state meant I couldn't see my son except for when I go back to visit. Of course, that's a sad thing.

But moving to another state and not seeing HIM also means that I don't have to deal with HER, and that's a very, very good thing. Especially considering that for 9 years, she did her best to keep me from seeing him and ruining almost every visit I had with him whether it be by fighting with me when i would go pick him up, fighting with me when I drop him off, fighting with me over the weekend when I had him or all three. Sometimes, she'd totally prevent the fights completely; but not being home when I'd show to pick him up. Of course, none of her neighbors or family had the slightest idea where she or my son was. :roll: They will all burn someday for aiding and abbetting her. At least I hope and pray they will.

Anyway, in fact, over the past two or so years, she's mellowed out a bit. She'll actually allow me to speak to him on the phone when I call. That would not have happened 4 years ago.

No; he'll never be a big part of my life. That was decided for me many years ago. But you have to grow and accept and move on, taking your experience with you.

I prefer to think of the knife in my back as a "streamlining speed fin/accessory" and not a painful reminder of how badly I got screwed, blued and tattooed.
 

Koing

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One of the few things that kept me sane and to get over my break up was that I knew I didn't have it that bad. Stars, Stumps and a lot of other guys and people have life a lot tougher. I drew some strength from it and worked through it with my mates. I feel a lot better now and just amazing.

I don't know how guys like Stars and Stumps do it.

Koing
 

Vegitto

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Originally posted by: stars
I appreciate that Vegitto. I'll be fine. Even as crazy as it seems, I believe it happened for a good reason. Life passes by us so fast we cant let the bad encounters destory our existence.

You're welcome, man :).
 

Slikkster

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Originally posted by: Vegitto
Being the girl of my dreams, seducing me (kissing, BJ etc) and then bursting out in laughter when I popped the question..

Stupid bitch.

?? Popped what question? Marriage?
 
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Gave me her phone number.

I tried calling her 3 times over 3 days. No response

A week later I find out she is calling me a stalker.

It was fun ****** with her head the next time I saw her out. Just stood next to her asking her how it's going. She ignored me. I just stood there for about 5 minutes. Oh ... I was at a bar I went to maybe 3 times a week. She rarely went there, so I could care less if she left. Actually it was my goal to let her know she wasn't welcome at this particular bar. So, she said i was a stalker ... I gave her stalker.
 

Jahee

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Originally posted by: stars
Dated a girl for 6 years, engaged during the last year. Left work early one day, walked in on her and a guy having sex while our 1 month old daughter was asleep in the playpen, in the same room.

Jeesus! I think that tops that off... And how disrespectful of that guy, he wouldnt have made it out of my house! And ONE month after the baby was born? :Q
 

CarlKillerMiller

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Originally posted by: shortylickens
By the way, this is a typical example of a guyanese girl, and my buddy was a LOT prettier.
Nicer curves but she had lost all her baby fat by the senior year.
http://img174.imageshack.us/img174/2263/oyasgsbgdxcm4pd.jpg

I think I feel the worst for you, out of all the stories I've read here, especially after I read your rationale. Where are you now? Did your dreams come true?
 

blue1friday2

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The worst thing a girl ever did to me... kiss my boyfriend. That definitely counts as irrational and cruel.
 

yowolabi

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Was dating a girl in college in DC. She invited me to come to her house in Denver during Winter Break. I live in Chicago, and decided to first spend a week with my family, then go spend a week with her.

I show up in Denver and she's not even there in the airport to meet me. I call her house and her frickin mother gives me directions using public transportation to get to her house. (No cell phones for either of us in those days). I get to her house and she is not really apologetic. Worse still, she's giving me the cold shoulder. She acts annoyed if I suggest we do something, accuses me of things like being too demanding, isn't affectionate to me, basically wants me to sit in her basement alone all day. During the last day or two there she finally started acting like the girl I thought I knew.

Anyway, I found out much later that she had some guy in Denver she had hooked up with before college and in the summer, and was seeing the week before I got there. I was getting in the way of her hooking up with him.

This was my first real relationship and I learned a lot of things the hard way, but i'm better off for it now. My most valuable lesson was to not accept any disrespect, because it's just a sign of more to come. In a similar situation today, if I got to the airport and no one was there or almost there to meet me, i'd take the next flight home or explore the city by myself and never talk to the person again.
 

SViper

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Wow. There is a lot of pain in this thread. It starts to make me wonder is it even worth the hassle in the end.
 

Al Neri

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Originally posted by: Sqube
It's not like they're going to get much better.

As a general rule (for guys and girls), most people don't really seem to get out of the high school mindset. If you find someone who has, give it a real shot. If you find someone who hasn't, have fun, but try not to get too attached.

That's my story and I'm sticking to it. I like to think I'm more mature than most (I'm a guy), but I've definitely seen myself revert back far too often for my peace of mind. It is what it is though.

QFT
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: HotChic
After reading the rice thread, I got to thinking how irrational and cruel girls somtimes are. What's your story?

And, on behalf of my gender, I apologize.
we don't claim them so no apology needed. ;)

 

dullard

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I've posted details enough times on ATOT that I won't post them again. Cliffs:
[*]Fell in love.
[*]Married 5 years later.
[*]Instantly turned a 180° corner and became a different person.
[*]Used and abused my love (I was the income earner and the house butler so she could go out on the town all day/night long with her guy friends).
[*]Divorced after years of trying to make it work.