This should be an interesting thread! What'd you do to the girl/boy you were dating or married to? One thing, no one can give someone sh!t for what they did. Consider this a sh!t-free zone.
Here's mine...probably pretty tame but just to get the ball rolling: (it's kinda long so feel free to skip)
Freshman year of college, I started dating a girl after a week of classes. We went out until just before Christmas break until she dumped me. She didn't really give a reason now that I think about it...she was just tired of the relationship so that was that. A month after we get back from break (so like 2-3 months after we break up) she starts dating my suitemate (10 guys to a dorm).
Now that's fine and all but the way I found out was that her best friend calls me (I met her when I visted her college with my ex) and says that she doesn't really like the new guy. I was like "You mean (my ex) and (my suitemate) are going out now??" I thought it was a joke...isn't the first rule not to date friend's ex'es? The part that pissed me off was that neither of them said anything about it to me, they just hid it.
So I said fvck it and ignored them both completely. I ran in to them a lot but never said a word. Eventually I got an email from her which goes as follows:
MAME,
It has come clear that you have to hate me with all you've got. It's been over a year since I think you've said hi, and even though it's shouldn't bother me as much, it does. What happened just happened and nothing can change that, but you were still my first boyfriend and now you act as though I don't exist. It hurts to walk bye you and MAME's friend, and say hi but only MAME's friend returns the hello. I saw you a lot about a week ago. Passing you as I walked, playing against you in indoor soccer, and yet I have no idea if you "saw" me. I know I hurt you a lot by ending our relationship, and I am sorry for that. I know in my heart things would have ended at one point anyways. Freshman fall semester we had a lot of fun, and it's sad that I don't even talk to the one who I spent the most time with anymore. I don't want you to scream hellos to me. I just wanted you to know that I do still think about you and even though you might hate me...I'm sorry.
Let me know if you get this..I am hoping this is still your email address.
~MAME's ex
I got the message while on Spring Break with my current girlfriend (but she was just a friend at that time...we hooked up 2 nights later
). Here's my reply:
You're making a big deal out of nothing. We knew eachother for less than 3 months. I will be attending a different college after this semester so you will not see me ever again in 8 weeks. What do you expect? I don't talk to you because I have nothing to say. I don't see why you care and I think you should just let it go.
Turns out I didn't transfer so I've run in to her and her bf (they broke up though I think) a few times. I still got the silent treatment going. It's been 3 years too. An ass I am, but I can't stop doing it now...it'd be too odd!
Here's mine...probably pretty tame but just to get the ball rolling: (it's kinda long so feel free to skip)
Freshman year of college, I started dating a girl after a week of classes. We went out until just before Christmas break until she dumped me. She didn't really give a reason now that I think about it...she was just tired of the relationship so that was that. A month after we get back from break (so like 2-3 months after we break up) she starts dating my suitemate (10 guys to a dorm).
Now that's fine and all but the way I found out was that her best friend calls me (I met her when I visted her college with my ex) and says that she doesn't really like the new guy. I was like "You mean (my ex) and (my suitemate) are going out now??" I thought it was a joke...isn't the first rule not to date friend's ex'es? The part that pissed me off was that neither of them said anything about it to me, they just hid it.
So I said fvck it and ignored them both completely. I ran in to them a lot but never said a word. Eventually I got an email from her which goes as follows:
MAME,
It has come clear that you have to hate me with all you've got. It's been over a year since I think you've said hi, and even though it's shouldn't bother me as much, it does. What happened just happened and nothing can change that, but you were still my first boyfriend and now you act as though I don't exist. It hurts to walk bye you and MAME's friend, and say hi but only MAME's friend returns the hello. I saw you a lot about a week ago. Passing you as I walked, playing against you in indoor soccer, and yet I have no idea if you "saw" me. I know I hurt you a lot by ending our relationship, and I am sorry for that. I know in my heart things would have ended at one point anyways. Freshman fall semester we had a lot of fun, and it's sad that I don't even talk to the one who I spent the most time with anymore. I don't want you to scream hellos to me. I just wanted you to know that I do still think about you and even though you might hate me...I'm sorry.
Let me know if you get this..I am hoping this is still your email address.
~MAME's ex
I got the message while on Spring Break with my current girlfriend (but she was just a friend at that time...we hooked up 2 nights later
). Here's my reply:You're making a big deal out of nothing. We knew eachother for less than 3 months. I will be attending a different college after this semester so you will not see me ever again in 8 weeks. What do you expect? I don't talk to you because I have nothing to say. I don't see why you care and I think you should just let it go.
Turns out I didn't transfer so I've run in to her and her bf (they broke up though I think) a few times. I still got the silent treatment going. It's been 3 years too. An ass I am, but I can't stop doing it now...it'd be too odd!
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